What's wrong with my father?

@averygirl72 (37716)
Philippines
August 27, 2017 10:30pm CST
I really don't like his attitude. He's easily irritated. His always serious and quiet. His face is crumpled like paper. He is always looking for something around the house to be angry about. He is not a cool father
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@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
28 Aug 17
i kf sounds like he is vey worried about something
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@averygirl72 (37716)
• Philippines
28 Aug 17
It's his mood. He wants to make himself always in a bad mood
@SHOHANA (16094)
• Bangladesh
28 Aug 17
try to understand the psychology of your father, I think he have pain deep inside of his heart, try to consider him with kindness.
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@averygirl72 (37716)
• Philippines
28 Aug 17
He notice the negative he needs to focus on positive so he is not grumpy
@youless (112112)
• Guangzhou, China
28 Aug 17
Sometimes my dad will have a bad mood, especially when he doesn't feel well. I also don't like that. Since we are already tired when we go home. Why he can't give us a bright smile? It really spoils my mood to see his serious face as if we have done something wrong. This is not good.
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@youless (112112)
• Guangzhou, China
28 Aug 17
@CoralLevang I know sometimes life is hard. But at least try to be nice to others. I also meet troubles and feel tired at work. But I try not to bring my mood to home.
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@youless (112112)
• Guangzhou, China
28 Aug 17
@averygirl72 I am sure not all dads are like that It depends on people's personality.
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@averygirl72 (37716)
• Philippines
28 Aug 17
I wonder if other dad is like that. He focus his mind on negative that's why he acts negative
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@LadyDuck (458008)
• Switzerland
28 Aug 17
How old is your father? He is alone? I mean is his wife still with him? May be he is unhappy because he feels alone. Or this can be a sign of senile dementia.
@averygirl72 (37716)
• Philippines
28 Aug 17
I think 62. He is like that even when he was still younger. Maybe that's his disposition really. He is grumpy
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@averygirl72 (37716)
• Philippines
29 Aug 17
@LadyDuck There's nothing wrong with him. You will be surprised when he is more happy and jolly. Being grumpy is normal to him
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@LadyDuck (458008)
• Switzerland
29 Aug 17
@averygirl72 He still is young, may be it's his way to be and there is nothing wrong with him.
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@Freelanzer (10745)
• Canada
28 Aug 17
Too bad. That is the way it is in some families. How does your mom handle his behavior?
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@averygirl72 (37716)
• Philippines
28 Aug 17
She is having a hard time too. I said to her get use to him but she also can't get used to his behavior. So we just feel upset
@AkoPinay (11544)
• Philippines
28 Aug 17
I guess it's part of old age.
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@averygirl72 (37716)
• Philippines
28 Aug 17
Even when he is not yet old he is always like that moody and grumpy
@AkoPinay (11544)
• Philippines
28 Aug 17
@CoralLevang I'm not good at this topic. I just read something related to it.
Ask A QuestionFind CareCaregivingCare GuidesLogin Your changes have been saved.Why do aging parents become so hostile and angry?Asked by ivoryrose11My Mom is 83 years old and acting up. Follow this question Following Answer this question Share your answer
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@AkoPinay (11544)
• Philippines
28 Aug 17
@CoralLevang to be honest my dad was my idol when I was a teen but now I hate his attitude too as he is also like @averygirl72 's father. That's why my comment is like that
@Neiltarquin (1062)
• Rass, Saudi Arabia
28 Aug 17
It's becauae they're hiding their true feelings. They want to look tough like action stars. In reality, they are as frail as you are. They act that way because that is how he was brought up. And as the saying goes, "you can't teach old dogs new tricks". The best thing you can do is to reach out and look for his soft spot. Make him feel that someone loves him. With that, I am sure he can give a smile or two for you.
@averygirl72 (37716)
• Philippines
28 Aug 17
He is kind at times but I really don't like his grumpy mood but his siblings are that kind of people too
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• Rass, Saudi Arabia
29 Aug 17
@averygirl72 Just let him be. Being grumpy is sometimes cute.
@averygirl72 (37716)
• Philippines
29 Aug 17
@Neiltarquin Being grumpy is normal to him. If you find him in a good mood it's a miracle