CRYING INSIDE..Is it ok?

Germany
September 1, 2017 5:35am CST
When I was young, my expressions are limited to be strong. It`s like when you feel bad and wanted to cry but must not because you don`t want your sibblings to be affected with your own feelings since they will not understand. You wanted to talk to your parents of something that made you felt so bad but can`t since they were both busy in solving financial problems , Then I cry inside Do you cry inside?
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22 responses
• United States
1 Sep 17
I am not really a cryer..I am more of a raging person..I always was stubborn and raging and it kept me alive against the hardships.
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• Germany
4 Sep 17
Wow! I think that`s great! If that will keep you alive and strong against hardships then it`s good
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• United States
4 Sep 17
@m_audrey6788 Thanks my friend.
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• Germany
4 Sep 17
@TiarasOceanView ..You`re very much welcome my friend ..How`s your day?
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@Sreekala (34312)
• India
1 Sep 17
I can't cry inside but only outside. I really can't hide if anything inside, if it is happiness, angry, sad etc. It will be in my face.
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• Germany
1 Sep 17
OH! That`s good I guess, need to learn to "CRY IT OUT" now
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@Sreekala (34312)
• India
1 Sep 17
@m_audrey6788 Crying out will clear our mind and we will be alright.
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• Germany
1 Sep 17
@Sreekala ..You`re right but sometimes, there are situations that you can`t just cry it out because you don`t want to bother them of your own feelings
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@Juliaacv (48415)
• Canada
1 Sep 17
I have cried inside, but it usually is a prelude to real tears.
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• Germany
1 Sep 17
Oh ok..For me not but you can still see sadness in my face
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@sol_cee (38223)
• Philippines
4 Sep 17
It is okay not to be okay. ;)
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• Germany
4 Sep 17
Yes..Thanks
@cintol (11261)
• United States
2 Sep 17
Yes, I have done that and cried out loud when no one is around
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• Germany
4 Sep 17
Yes..I also cry it out when no one is around
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
2 Sep 17
i am transparent, and when i am disgusted, it shows in my face. when i am happy, my eyes show it too. no, i don't cry inside. when i stress a point and i am not listened to, i stomp my foot (like what i do to my sister) and tell my opinion.
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• Germany
4 Sep 17
Oh..well..I`m only expressive of myself when a person is really trying their best to pissed me off, Then my reaction would be like a kid who needed to stomp my feet
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• Germany
6 Sep 17
@ridingbet ..Sad to say..You`re right! It`s like "Hello! Please listen!
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
6 Sep 17
@m_audrey6788 indeed, we can be sensitive and emotionally unstable when nobody listens to you.
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@annierose (18926)
• Philippines
4 Sep 17
Yes, I have experienced that too when I was a student. Teenage years are enjoyable yet very depressing at times. It was during my high school days when my parents worked hard day and night just to help me finish my studies.
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• Germany
4 Sep 17
Yes..Good thing you managed to handle it by your own
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• Germany
4 Sep 17
@annierose ..Oh My..It`s good that you didn`t! Always think that, Every Problem has a solution
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@annierose (18926)
• Philippines
4 Sep 17
@m_audrey6788 Yes, that is true. I was still very young that time and as well know the teen age stage is a difficult stage because it is the period that we don't know if we are still a child or already a grown up.
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@kixsh101 (2103)
• Philippines
1 Sep 17
It's normal to cry, to cry out loud to cry deep inside. Its sad to hear though that you don't have somebody to lean on to.
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• Germany
1 Sep 17
Yes..It was so hard but you know at that time we have a "BLESSED SACRAMENT" where I can visit to pray and let me cry out a little and noone would mind
@JudyEv (325755)
• Rockingham, Australia
1 Sep 17
I cry inside. Sometimes I can share things on myLot that I wouldn't want to share with any of my family.
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• Germany
4 Sep 17
Yes..I think I`m the same..I release most of my hardships here, a big crying out release . Thankful with mylot and mylot friends for bearing with my CRY OUT release
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• Germany
4 Sep 17
@JudyEv ..Yes..I guess you`re right
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@JudyEv (325755)
• Rockingham, Australia
4 Sep 17
@m_audrey6788 We all need someone to vent to.
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@ilocosboy (45157)
• Philippines
4 Sep 17
I think that's alright but its still better when you have someone to talked to.
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• Germany
4 Sep 17
Yes..You`re right but in my situation..I find it so hard..I can`t even talked about it with my friends ..I just let all my friends enjoy with their life than spending time with me
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• Germany
4 Sep 17
@ilocosboy ..Well..I guess..I`m not lucky to have friends like that
@ilocosboy (45157)
• Philippines
4 Sep 17
@m_audrey6788 maybe you should try, true friends are always there to listen. Their comfort is more important than any tangible things.
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@FayeHazel (40248)
• United States
1 Sep 17
Yes, I do too. I think in certain cases it's alright. In my case, I don't like attention being called to my feelings, and I don't like to think people won't "get it". I highly prefer no tears in public. On the other hand I hope that your parents and siblings would be caring , and there for you.
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• Germany
4 Sep 17
I wished for that but it`s not possible in my situation It`s ok, I`m happy now with my husband and he`s there for me. Thanks for sharing your thoughts. Wish you a nice day!
@atoz1to10 (6781)
• Australia
2 Sep 17
I do cry inside now... there are things that you can't share with anyone so you keep it to yourself and it is killing you... So you are not crying inside anymore? That's good to know.
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• Germany
4 Sep 17
Yes..after a long time of crying inside, now I finally found my happiness. Thank you my friend for sharing your thoughts and views. Wish you a nice day
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• Germany
11 Sep 17
@atoz1to10 ..Oh..Thank you so much my dear friend! ..Where have you been?
@atoz1to10 (6781)
• Australia
10 Sep 17
@m_audrey6788 all the best... You can have my shoulders to lean on whenever you feel like crying...outside..
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@YrNemo (20261)
1 Sep 17
plenty of times! I think it made us stronger that way.
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• Germany
4 Sep 17
@YrNemo .. Yes
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• Germany
4 Sep 17
Hmmm..I guess..but we still need to release it by "Crying it out"?
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@YrNemo (20261)
4 Sep 17
@m_audrey6788 or we would get real mental one day.
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@Ganma7 (3664)
24 Oct 17
Sometimes if the hurt is bad
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• Germany
25 Oct 17
Yes and you don`t want others to get affected. Right?
• Germany
25 Oct 17
@Ganma7 Yes and that`s exactly how I experienced it
@Ganma7 (3664)
25 Oct 17
@m_audrey6788 Exactly right
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@bluesa (15023)
• Johannesburg, South Africa
1 Sep 17
I am an emotional person, so if I am unhappy a person will know it, but I find it tough to cry, I rather vent in other ways.
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• Germany
4 Sep 17
Oh ok..Atleast you know how to manage your emotions. Thanks for sharing..Wish you a nice day
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@acelawrites (19273)
• Philippines
5 Sep 17
I do, when I do not want family members of friends be affected by it.
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• Germany
6 Sep 17
Yes..Same with me ..But you still need to "Cry it out" ok?
@thelme55 (76476)
• Germany
1 Sep 17
Yes, I do and tell my diary about how I feel. I need an outlet.
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• Germany
4 Sep 17
That`s great..I think having a diary is another way to cry it out..Thanks for sharing
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@thelme55 (76476)
• Germany
4 Sep 17
@m_audrey6788 yes, it was and no one could read it but myself .
@Teekaaa (11580)
• India
1 Sep 17
Crying inside doesn't relive our stress... infact crying inside increase our stress..... so,it is better to cry outside.... because I believe that through our tears all our sufferings will go off...
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• Germany
4 Sep 17
Yes..You`re right..It`s just that, There are times that I find it hard to cry it out
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• Nairobi, Kenya
1 Sep 17
I sometimes cry inside but I heard it is not good for the health and you might get ulcers. It is advisable to just cry and not hide your feelings. ;)
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• Germany
4 Sep 17
Yes..It`s not healthy to cry inside
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1 Sep 17
I cry inside and outside, because that's how I feel so relaxed. When nobody sees me cry outside.
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• Germany
4 Sep 17
That`s good..I can understand you..There are situations that we can`t cry it out that easily and needed a place to release it all out.