What makes you angry???

@Hhappy (56)
October 16, 2017 3:21am CST
I have a teenaged daughter and anything and everything I tell her falls on deaf ears and to top it up she has such an attitude/air on,it makes me fume .
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simplyme
@m_audrey6788 (58485)
• Germany
16 Oct 17
May I know how you tell your daughter about anything?
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Rebecca Sam
@Hhappy (56)
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16 Oct 17
Was that supposed to be a joke??
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simplyme
@m_audrey6788 (58485)
• Germany
16 Oct 17
@Hhappy No. It`s not a joke as you only indicated in your discussion about you being angry as I can imagine that you`re shouting at your daughter when telling something because when I was a teenanger, The more my mom showed me anger and shouts without telling me the reason why I should or must follow her will gets me confused and not do anything about it as I can`t understand her point
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Rebecca Sam
@Hhappy (56)
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16 Oct 17
By anything I mean anything!
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kiran8
@kiran8 (15348)
• Mangalore, India
16 Oct 17
I agree , going through that stage can be a difficult and trying experience for both teenagers and parents. The best and only thing to do is communicating with them and overlook many of the annoying things they do.
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kiran8
@kiran8 (15348)
• Mangalore, India
17 Oct 17
@Hhappy Dont get stressed because it makes the situation worse. It is a transitionary period which lasts for a few years only..
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Rebecca Sam
@Hhappy (56)
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16 Oct 17
Thanks for understanding.it really is trying and it's telling on my health
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Rebecca Sam
@Hhappy (56)
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17 Oct 17
??thanks for the encouraging words
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Ithink
@Ithink (9980)
• United States
19 Oct 17
Very normal for teens, I think girls are harder then boys too. I have 6 girls and 2 boys. Only 1 child at home now as the others have all left the nest to make their own lives. The one home is our 10 year old daughter. Having gone thru 5 teen girls I do feel for you. Try to remember how it felt when you were a teen. That can help sometimes.
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Ithink
@Ithink (9980)
• United States
20 Oct 17
@Hhappy My mom had us 2 and had to work 3 jobs, respect her so much. She said she was lucky I was a good teen and took care of my younger brother. I wanted to make her proud as she did so much for us. However most don't realize what we all do and give for them.
Rebecca Sam
@Hhappy (56)
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19 Oct 17
Wow!8 children!i find it difficult to handle 2,can't just seem to remember my teenage days,respect for my parents have gone up.
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Paras Pandey
@parpande (1515)
• Bangalore, India
16 Oct 17
@Hhappy that is common attitude for a teenager , but you should not always be angry about it.Talk on the topics you both have a common interest over, if not just find something she is interested in.Though this doesn't mean you are compromising to please her overly rather at times it is necessary to wear a parents' attitude.
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Rebecca Sam
@Hhappy (56)
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16 Oct 17
Hmmm I try to but once in a while I do fly of the handle and then it becomes a shouting match
Mohit Arora
@mohit459 (12568)
• Haldwani, India
16 Oct 17
I get angry and irritated on little things !!...
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Sherwin martin
@Sherwinmrtn (869)
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16 Oct 17
Lol, its Teenage, they wont understand anything
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Rebecca Sam
@Hhappy (56)
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17 Oct 17
Really,whatever I say falls on deaf ears,it's like talking to walls!
wongchoiyee
@wongchoiyee (7413)
• Malaysia
16 Oct 17
When my mom scolds me and never listen to me.
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Rebecca Sam
@Hhappy (56)
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16 Oct 17
Oh!thats what she also tells me!!
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Marlina
@marlina (154166)
• Canada
16 Oct 17
Not easy to deal with teenagers, especially these days.
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Rebecca Sam
@Hhappy (56)
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16 Oct 17
Not at easy,trust me!
Djhoanna li
@Friendlypink (3805)
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16 Oct 17
Both of you just needs to sit down and talk and try to hear her too. Most of the teens down get it that what we want for them is whats best for them. When was the last time you and your daugther had a good chat or bonding?
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Rebecca Sam
@Hhappy (56)
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16 Oct 17
We do have a talk once in a while.but later on every promise we made vanishes when she wants to have her way and I put my foot down!!
Nancy_Nikki
@Kind4321 (826)
• Nairobi, Kenya
17 Oct 17
Its the adolescent age that she is in.Don't be angry you are wasting your energy.Find a way to communicate with her and be her friend.Trust me it will work so well if you go that route
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GUOL07
@averagejane (448)
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16 Oct 17
oohh the rebellious stage. goodluck .
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Rebecca Sam
@Hhappy (56)
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16 Oct 17
Thanks.i need your wishes and prayers