‘Nurse’?
By ingrid
@ridingbet (66854)
Philippines
November 3, 2017 6:40am CST
Since my students have just this day of duty, I let them monitor the vital signs, and do bedside care to their respective clients.
I assigned one of my level 3 nursing student to a female client who is sick of community acquired pneumonia- high risk, coronary artery disease, and congestive heart failure.
My student Miss C, took the blood pressure of her patient as 160/100mmHg. She referred it to me. I told her to recheck the BP after 30 minutes, but still the patient’s BP was the same. Because of that, the client’s significant other who is her daughter, took the BP apparatus and stethoscope of my student and took the BP of the patient. She later said it is 140/90. I then asked her, “Are you a nurse too?” She said yes. I acknowledged her and then I checked the patient’s BP because apparently, the SO (significant other) was insinuating that my student was not correct with her BP reading.
It was 160/90mmHg. I told her that was the BP I took. The SO then said, “I was rushing in deflating the BP cuff so I misread the BP”.
I later asked my student if the SO was really a nurse. She told us (me and her classmates) that the SO graduated from nursing course but did not pass the licensure examination. I nodded. Next, I tested if she really is a nurse. I told her that I also have heart ailment, and I enumerated the abbreviations of my illness. “I also have RHD, MS, MR, LVH, and beginning CHF”. She stared at me with questioning eyes. I responded to her husband, “She knows that because she is my colleague”.
I did not mean to embarrass her, but she should be humble enough to accept and admit my student’s blood pressure reading and not indirectly point out that my student needs to learn more. Oh, if you only saw how she looked at my student when her mother’s BP reading was 160/100mmHg.
I sympathize with my student. She was misty-eyed when that SO was looking at her.
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7 responses
@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
4 Nov 17
yes, i believe so too. they are like my children when we are in the area. in fact, i call them "anak". i allow them to call me "mother" but only if we are not in the hospital.
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
5 Nov 17
@JustBhem yes that is true. we have to set a good example to those who are under our supervision.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
4 Nov 17
@ridingbet
We should need to be kind to our Juniors, I think.
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@LadyDuck (502394)
• Italy
4 Nov 17
@ridingbet Some people need a lesson to be nice to the others.
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
4 Nov 17
when i did my 'stint' to her, suddenly, she was already good to my student. when Miss C took the BP reading of her mother, she did not question anymore, and when i looked straight at her, she smiled sheepishly to me.
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
5 Nov 17
@LadyDuck i agree with you. even in this site, there are some users who are subtly rude to others, and we can give them a piece of our minds.
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@lovinangelsinstead21 (36847)
• Pamplona, Spain
3 Nov 17
I would have been hopping mad for her that woman to do that.
She was not on duty.
Its true that blood pressure goes up and down a lot sometimes but for her to act in that way is out of place totally.
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@lovinangelsinstead21 (36847)
• Pamplona, Spain
4 Nov 17
@ridingbet
Every time a doctor scares me I get that where it goes up a bit specially if he is wearing a white coat.
I told him its sure to be up and it was a bit and then he took it again it went right back to normal that is how we fluctuate.
If he talks to me then I am not scared its when they don´t talk to you that makes me a bit nervous.

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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
5 Nov 17
@lovinangelsinstead21 that is true. especially also if the group of doctors converse with each other in your distant hearing and they stare at you. you will feel anxious and stressed if they are talking about your health condition. hahaha!
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
4 Nov 17
she is really not on duty because she is not an employee of the hospital, and she is the significant other of the patient. and yes i agree that our blood pressure is not stationary; it fluctuates and rises any time of the day and under some certain circumstances.
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
4 Nov 17
yes, i believe that is one of the responsibilities of one clinical instructor who may be strict in the clinical setting but should be a 'mother' to her children. my student thanked me many times after what i did to the SO of her patient. .
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@fishtiger58 (29819)
• Momence, Illinois
3 Nov 17
Wow first of all the SO should not have taken the BP cuff and stethoscope away from your student. That was not acceptable. I feel bad for your student but she took the BP correctly.
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
4 Nov 17
yes, she had the correct BP reading. the systolic BP was 160. i listened the diastolic BP as 90 because i slowed down in deflating the BP cuff.
when the SO was staring at me after i enumerated my heart illness, i knew right there and then that she really was not a professional and registered nurse.
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
8 Nov 17
@fishtiger58 she was trying to impress me. i like significant others of patients who have educational background on nursing so they know the rationale of whatever interventions and management we do to their patients. but this lady was over-confident that i had to show her that she was wrong with her assessment to her mother.
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@fishtiger58 (29819)
• Momence, Illinois
5 Nov 17
@ridingbet I see no purpose at all for what she did. Was she trying to impress you in her own little mind or what.
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
4 Nov 17
oh, not even in emergency situations should a not-registered nurse give first aid. her actions may be detrimental to the client. that is a policy of the hospital here. she cannot even inject epinephrine to a patient in the ward who is no longer breathing.
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
5 Nov 17
@YrNemo sometimes, we think our knowledge is enough to share. i am not very knowledgeable as regards other technical skills and procedures that are way out of my professional comfort zone. i have to seek more advice from people who are excellent in those fields.
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@YrNemo (20254)
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4 Nov 17
@ridingbet I am so glad to hear that. The way she had behaved was so not nice to you. One tends to lose trust in shallow people like that.
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@m_audrey6788 (58468)
• Germany
3 Nov 17
Hi there! I`m not technically familiar with some of your nursing terms but I can see how you trully loves your students 



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