Voracious Brother!

@JustBhem (70555)
Davao, Philippines
December 6, 2017 9:03am CST
I feel very mad about my 5th Brother at the moment. Because we have pork steak for dinner, siblings are happy. We seldom cook meat this time because I and Mother are sick, so we cook simple dishes like fried fish, chicken and sometimes if lazy eggs to the rescue. This time, we have leftover pork steak. So the mother told us not to touch it anymore because we will have it for breakfast, she wants to pair it with fried rice in the morning. This voracious 5th Brother cook rice at this moment though he already ate 3 times for dinner earlier. I told him, not to cook rice because we are saving but he did it anyway. And ate the remaining leftover pork steak. To think he is not helping us with paying the bills and only eat and go. Never helping us here. But so greedy! Now my heart is in pain again. What should I do with this kind of Brother? No work, only rely on others fortune, always drink liquor, eat and go, not helping us at all.
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@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
6 Dec 17
He should not be living there if he is not helping out. He needs to follow the rules or get out.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
6 Dec 17
And to think he is old enough to look for a job. Still, he is doing those things as if he is coming from a wealthy Family.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
7 Dec 17
@Happy2BeMe Nah, Mother doesn't care about that. She always yells most of the time and that's it.
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@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
6 Dec 17
@JustBhem that is a sin. Mom needs to put her foot down!!
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@Ithink (9980)
• United States
6 Dec 17
I kick his lazy butt out and not feed him, time for him to grow up!
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@Ithink (9980)
• United States
8 Dec 17
@JustBhem Well from experience as long as he is supported, he will never grow up and nothing will change. You need to cut him off and let him hit bottom for him to grow.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
8 Dec 17
@Ithink Nah, I don't think he will learn. I always keep reminding them most of the time.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
7 Dec 17
Yeah, he always relies on people and to us. I hate this kind of attitude to think he is stronger than us.
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@SIMPLYD (90717)
• Philippines
7 Dec 17
I think it should be your mother who should tell him already to better be sharing or find his own place. Your brother is so unshameful. Maybe because it was you who told him not to eat the left-over pork steak and not cook rice anymore, that is why he played a deaf ear. I can feel your anger over this inconsiderate brother of yours.
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@SIMPLYD (90717)
• Philippines
7 Dec 17
@JustBhem I think, you should already find a place of your own. Let them survive on their own if your mother is also a selfish one like your brother. Don't stress yourself by being there and seeing and hearing their bad habits and selfishness.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
7 Dec 17
@SIMPLYD I already told the boyfriend about that issue but we need more time to save. We still have bills to pay.
@hereandthere (45630)
• Philippines
7 Dec 17
maybe your father can talk to him?
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
7 Dec 17
I hope so, I thought about it. Hopefully, they will listen.
• Philippines
8 Dec 17
@JustBhem if you don't tell him what's been happening and how they have been behaving, he will never know about them, and it will get even worse. besides, it's easier to call now with cellphones. he should talk seriously with his sons.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
8 Dec 17
@hereandthere Nah, they still won't listen. It would be better if Father will talk to them personally. I like the anger my Father shows them.
@amadeo (111938)
• United States
6 Dec 17
you need a meeting with the family there.for advice and what to do.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
6 Dec 17
We already did this, and he never listens.
@amadeo (111938)
• United States
6 Dec 17
@JustBhem well then he need an old fashioned spanking there.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
7 Dec 17
@amadeo Hahaha. How I wish I can do that.
@Kandae11 (56827)
6 Dec 17
Someone needs to take a stand - let your other brothers deal with him.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
6 Dec 17
That is what I have in mind. I will let my Brother deal with him again.
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@lady1993 (27224)
• Philippines
7 Dec 17
that sounds like such a burden indeed, does he listen to anyone at all?
@JudyEv (362442)
• Rockingham, Australia
6 Dec 17
That is very unfair. Someone needs to put their foot down with him and make him pull his weight in the household.
@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
7 Dec 17
these brothers of yours, you are blood siblings, right? why does he do that to you? he should find himself a job.
@Diamond55 (116)
6 Dec 17
You need to speak to your brother and tell him to help out. what he is doing is unfair.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
6 Dec 17
I always told him about that but looks like he has a thick face not to understand them.