“Have you ever shouted at someone?”

@Shavkat (141906)
Philippines
December 8, 2017 6:22pm CST
We are still humans. It is inevitable to hold back our emotions when experiencing annoyance towards others. Honestly, I can’t tolerate disrespectful act. It wasn’t a picture perfect world to keep oneself in calmness when the situations are out-of-control. I am saying this because one of my neighborhood is shouting at my mother. The reason, my mother asked the neighbor to move his car away from our house front gate. It is the morning routine of my mother to clean the mess outside the house. I was awakened early Saturday morning when this man keeps on shouting and disrespected my mother. It is personal instinct to defend my mother and asked this man to walk away. If not, he will face the consequences of his unacceptable act. He managed to stop and move his car away from the house. Did you ever shout at someone? Why did you shout? Is it acceptable to shout at elders? Image Credit: pixabay.com
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
9 Dec 17
i shouted (over the phone) to this customer service representative regarding my deducted load from TM. sometimes too, i shout at someone who does not listen to my requests. this man who shouted at your mother is the most rude person ever. doesn't he know he has a mother too? how would he feel if somebody else shouts at his mother?
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@Shavkat (141906)
• Philippines
9 Dec 17
That's what I pointed out to him. He is the rudest person. I am sorry that the customer service cannot able to address your concern accordingly.
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@Shavkat (141906)
• Philippines
13 Dec 17
@ridingbet Some of the customer service agents are like this. That's the reason why I just let go. But I can be pushier if it is my internet service provider's down system.
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
11 Dec 17
@Shavkat hahaha! kabsat, right after my interaction with this customer service representative, TM sent me a series of questions about how this BRIAN did his job. i rated him low, as in 1 or 3. when they asked me why i gave that rating, i said, "eh kasi nagnanakaw kayo ng load. yan din and reklamo ng mga colleagues ko" ( because you steal loads and that too is the complaint of my colleagues).
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• Philippines
9 Dec 17
Oh, there was one time I got mad at my grandma for being too much controlling at the house. I regret it later but Mom was happy because She knew I'm no longer the one that needed to be controlled anymore.
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@Shavkat (141906)
• Philippines
9 Dec 17
I had a shouted incident with my uncle before. He had humiliated me in front of my grandma. I was being accused of something that I didn't do it. Thus, I need to defend myself without the support of the elders.
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@Shavkat (141906)
• Philippines
10 Dec 17
@Letranknight2015 At this point in time, my uncle and the rest of his siblings don't exist in my life anymore. They are all going to be forgotten soon.
• Philippines
10 Dec 17
@Shavkat It's just a nightmare when your own uncle treats you like something else. Something I need to remember by the time my own nephews and niece becomes adults..
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@Ithink (10106)
• United States
9 Dec 17
Well seeing he was disrespcting your mom, you had all the right to yell at him. I would do the same thing. I have yelled when mad, but never at my mom.
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@Shavkat (141906)
• Philippines
9 Dec 17
I agree. My coolness lost without limit a while back. This guy needs a big lesson.
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• Calgary, Alberta
9 Dec 17
I am usually a very calm and quiet person but I do explode sometimes when I reach my boiling point. I have a sharp tongue when I am mad. I don't curse but I hit where it hurts.
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@Shavkat (141906)
• Philippines
10 Dec 17
I think we have the same personality, my friend. If I say things, it will be hard to swallow.
@averygirl72 (38849)
• Philippines
13 Dec 17
I shouted once out of anger with my uncle. But I am wrong I accused him of something but I feel sorry for doing that. I don't usually shout. I try to remain as calm as possible
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@Shavkat (141906)
• Philippines
13 Dec 17
I had an experienced with my uncle, too. The worst thing has he accused me of doing something which is not.
@jstory07 (148731)
• Roseburg, Oregon
9 Dec 17
He should not be parking in front of the house gate to begin with. He was very rude to yell at your mother.
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@Shavkat (141906)
• Philippines
9 Dec 17
He was really a nonsense individual. He shouldn't park his car there.
@snowy22315 (208840)
• United States
9 Dec 17
Yes, many times. It happens.
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@Shavkat (141906)
• Philippines
9 Dec 17
I do think that we can handle such situation gracefully.
@Bluedoll (16770)
• Canada
9 Dec 17
I shouted at my open wooden cupboard door. Sorry if you thought I was shouting at you.
@JudyEv (381950)
• Rockingham, Australia
9 Dec 17
I think it is terrible that he shouted at your mother. Very disrespectful and rude.
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@Shavkat (141906)
• Philippines
9 Dec 17
It was so rude. In the first place, this guy is just a tenant in our neighborhood. He acted like owning the place. What a pity of him.
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@Deepizzaguy (122123)
• Lake Charles, Louisiana
9 Dec 17
Due to health problems I cannot yell at someone but I would only do it as a last resort to correct a wrong.
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@Shavkat (141906)
• Philippines
9 Dec 17
I do think that we need to conceal our feelings. If things are out of control, then we can seek help from the authority.
@Hannihar (130150)
• Israel
12 Dec 17
I had horrible neighbors before this guy and he is also horrible. It doesn't do anything because I try to ignore but it got so on my nerves that I got sick of it so had to get it off my chest at those that deserved it. It felt good to get it out but didn't help in anyway. Now, I have one person that makes so much noise and there is no one to report to. The one that showed him the apartment was here on a Friday and all the time he was here I was trying to work on the computer and he dragging and dragging furniture up there.
@Shavkat (141906)
• Philippines
12 Dec 17
Honestly, I don't like these people. My former neighbors who keep on making noise pollution were being confronted by me. It is a hell fight and I won the battle.
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@Hannihar (130150)
• Israel
12 Dec 17
@Shavkat I can't reach them and have no one to help me. I am happy for you.
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@Shavkat (141906)
• Philippines
12 Dec 17
@Hannihar I hope someone can help you out there,