"Family Matters" and Rape Culture

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I have been rewatching the show Family Matters on Hulu recently. I haven't seen the show in years. I remember loving it as a kid. Unfortunately it doesn't quite hold up. Steve Urkel, the "lovable" nerd who was the star of the show, isn't so lovable when filtered through today's standards. He just comes across as a creep. He doesn't take "no" for an answer and harasses Laura Winslow relentlessly. Plus he stalks her and tries to run off every guy who expresses interest in her. I don't know if the character was always creepy or if it's just that times have changed and now with all the talk about consent and sexual misconduct, the character doesn't seem the least bit funny. Steve's excuse for his behavior is that he "loves" Laura, but that isn't love, it's obsession. And whenever Laura stands up for herself and runs him off, she's made to feel guilty and ends up apologizing to Steve. I know it's just an old show, but no wonder people have weird ideas of what's okay and what's not. Hollywood sure has set some weird "standards" that have been broadcast in our homes over the years. Many things we used to laugh at just don't fly now.