our soulmate can be two or more persons

Japan
November 27, 2006 10:34am CST
well, this is the topic that my friend had asked me before. "do we only have one soulmate?" and i can't answer at that time. and then, i was thinking... for me, soulmate is someone you married with and still with you till the end of your life. so, your wife/husband can't be said as your soulmate yet. you can divorce, right? in the case when your husband/wife dies before you,i believe you are his/her soulmate. but, after they died, you can marry someone else, and find another soulmate. then you have 2 soulmates. yor ex wife/husband and the newest one. and what about someone who do polygami? are all of his wifes his soulmates? and can he be the soulmate of some women? ..... i don't have many knowledge about this "soulmate" matter. i'm not marrying any men. but maybe you can help me.. what is a soulmate for you? can we have more than one soulmates like in the cases i said above?
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9 responses
• Indonesia
27 Nov 06
i don't really believe in soulmate. 'the right person' for you is not to be found, it's something you have to work on. a relationships requires active efforts from both sides.
• Japan
28 Nov 06
humm... i can't find the right word for something that i want. is "jodoh" = soulmate in english? well, whatever!
@esphyka (158)
• Philippines
11 Sep 08
before i usually believe in soulmate they said that person is destined for you but now i don't believe it anymore because some people love 2 persons at the same time. so how will you know if you already find your soulmate.
• United States
28 Nov 06
i believe that 90% of people do not even meet their soulmate so i believe your soulmate could only be one person but your husband /wife could be right for you.
@rmuxagirl (7559)
• United States
28 Nov 06
I honestly think that a soulmate could more two or more people. And I think that there is no gender to your soulmate. I believe my best friend is one soulmate because we are too much alike, and the man i love is another because it's as if we were made for each other.
• Greece
28 Nov 06
soulmate - soulmate has a deep connection with us
I think soulmate just like best friend but they have more deep connection with us. Or simply could be say that they have radar cennected with us. They can feel what we feel, or they feel or know that something happen to us. That's my opinion
@kittykatzz (1132)
• United States
27 Nov 06
i believe that a "soulmate" is not a person or 2 people out there that are meant to be for you.. more so like a definition of anyone that you could be happy spending the rest of your life with..so there fore according to my opinion.. the type or kind of person you are would dictate how many "soulmates" there are for you "out there"!
@abagslife (1212)
• Italy
27 Nov 06
i do not believe in love at first sight
@minxy67 (2708)
27 Nov 06
i am my wifes soulmate but alas her best friend is her soulmate
• Indonesia
27 Nov 06
i don't really believe in soulmate. 'the right person' for you is not to be found, it's something you have to work on. a relationships requires active efforts from both sides.