chiquita1977

@chiquita1977 (1706)

United States • Age 48

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That Poor Child

Brian @wolfie34 (26770) • United Kingdom 2 May 07

I was out shopping today and I saw this woman who was quite plump (but wasn't fat) she had this low cut top on showing her midriff and she was with a three or four year old child and at the same time she was on her mobile,...

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chiquita1977 yes,i see alot of this behavior being done.I could not even imagine behaving like that in front of my children then treating my child like that cuz i was on the phone.no way.a child does not deserve to be treated like that.this is why kids turn out the way...

2 May 07

My Husband Didn't Come Home Friday Night..

dfinster @dfinster (3528) • United States 16 Apr 07

My husband works at a day job from 5 am until 2:30 in the afternoon. He also has his own business on the side. He's a very good carpenter who is never in need of additional work. I'm used to him being gone until after supper while...

accident

excuses

husband

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chiquita1977 well your husbands behavior is very suspicious.I would of been upset if i was you to.if he was at his friends house why wouldn he answer his cell or at least call you to tell you he was at a buddy's house just so you wouldnt worry?and the way he acted when you...

16 Apr 07

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my 16 year old

suzzs02 @suzzs02 (631) • United States 15 Apr 07

help my daughter is becoming lazy like me on the housework, and i dont want her to end up like me. and this is the first time i have been able to admit in public tha t im lazy on housework... she does work but has cut her...

children

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chiquita1977 it sounds like your daughter might be taking after you.she has watched you be lazy doing the housework so now she thinks that its okay for her to be the same way.maybe if you try not to be lazy on the housework she will pick up on that after all our kids learn...

15 Apr 07

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Tragedy in our home - My guilt is huge.

keithandlisa @keithandlisa (192) • United States 13 Apr 07

I've always taken all the extra precautions to make sure that my two boys were safe. Two days ago, tragedy happened and now I am filled with guilt and all of the things I wish I would've done differently at that moment. I had just...

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chiquita1977 poor guy.no matter how hard we try to prevent accidents reality is they do happen you should not feel guilty for it.your son will be fine.i know from experience because my daughter pulled a tv on her head and her face was messed up for a while because of...

13 Apr 07

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Should i stay or should i go

ckloeckner @ckloeckner (216) • United States 6 Apr 07

i am having serious trouble making this decision and i feel as though i am drowning. i have the opportunity to leave my boyfriend who is controlling and manipulative but it doesnt change the fact that i love him and he is very...

relationships

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chiquita1977 if you have a chance to leave then i would leave because guys like that usally eventually end up being violent.you may love this guy but eventually you will realise he was not right for you and it was best for you and your kids that you left.people like this...

6 Apr 07

Be Carefull,My Computer Was Hijacked.On Mylot.Trojan Horse

classy56 @classy56 (2880) • United States 6 Apr 07

i just wanted to let everyone know.that my computer was hijacked by clicking on links here on mylot.my computer has been down for days.trying to get rid of the hijacker.the hijacker website is www.nb88.cn/allhtm im not clicking on...

hijacker

trojan horse

virus removal

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chiquita1977 thank you for the advice i usally dont click on any links but i will remember not to just in case im tempted to thanks again.its awful how people would want to hijack someones computer.

6 Apr 07

Can you really trust people on the Internet?

mssnow @mssnow (9484) • United States 6 Apr 07

I have many friends on the Internet. I love them dearly. But do I really know these people. You can be anyone you want too here. A man could play a woman and visa versa. Someone could say they love you and be saying it to six...

internet

trust

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chiquita1977 I dont think i could truely trust someone on the internet unless i know them or if i met them in person because alot of people on the internet actually do lie about their age and alot of other things.i dont but alot of people do.

6 Apr 07

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Tips you can give to ease labor pain...

AVirtualAssistant @AVirtualAssistant (57) • Philippines 5 Apr 07

It's my 9th month on my third baby. My youngest is already 4 and a half year old. So, it's been that long since my last delivery. I still can remember the pain i've gone through which was horrible. I never knew where all that pain...

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chiquita1977 i gave birth to four babies without any kind of medication.with my last baby what i tried is everytime you have a contraction breath it tends to make the pain less painful and it really did work for me.and my labor was not painful when i used this...

5 Apr 07

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Does a certain ammount of Domestic violence strengthen marriage Relationship?

Nic @academic2 (7000) • Uganda 5 Apr 07

In my culture,a woman who is not slapped and scolded alittle by her husband feels she is not loved enough! This is strange but true.You will always hear such a woman complaining to her colleagues while on their way to a nearby...

marriage

raltionships

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chiquita1977 I know where i am from this kind of behavior constitutes as abuse and a man can end up in prison for this kind of behavior.and it definatly does not help a relationship it might ruine it.and if you hit a women then it means you do not love them.

5 Apr 07

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What would you do in this situration?

TeeandMe @TeeandMe (104) • United States 5 Apr 07

I allowed a friend of mine ( she has been a friend for almost 7 years) to take my 7, 5, and 4 year old and My Fiance's 9 year old with her to this Easter thing they were doing at Toy's R Us this past Saturday. Upon picking them up...

children

parenting

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chiquita1977 well i sure would not let this friend ever take your kids again.she should of known as being a parent herself that you never ever leave a child alone everything their is to many things that could happen to a child left alone.that was just very irresponcible of...

5 Apr 07

What's the most unordinary food you've ever eaten?

borzack @borzack (597) • Malaysia 5 Apr 07

I have to say the brain of an ox/cow. lol. it's true though. usually it's made 'kurma' style. i think it's one of the famous delicacies in Padang, Indonesia, i'm not quite sure. it taste quite good actually. soft like a bean curd....

food

strange

weird

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chiquita1977 I think the most strangest thing i have ever eaten was peanut butter,ranch dressing,and bolone sandwhich.it was good at the time because i was pregnant but now i think about it it is pretty disgusting.

5 Apr 07

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Have I become old now that I am a mother?

dipasrisamanta @dipasrisamanta (121) • United States 5 Apr 07

After giving birth to my son, almost three years have passed. I cook, do all the chores around the house and take care of my baby. After all these years, I suddenly find myself older and not being able to do things I used to do so...

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chiquita1977 im also a full time mom im 29 and i have the same problem.i think it is just because you are a full time mom which takes alot of energy to keep up with the kids so you are just tired it has nothing to do with getting old because your not its just that you use...

5 Apr 07