Nice but gabby neighbor
By bonnie
@bunnybon7 (50970)
Holiday, Florida
    December 18, 2017 3:17pm CST
                         
            My neighbor  is so sweet. She does all she can for her family  and is teaching her  teenage  kids  good work  ethics. She is the one that sends over someone to mow the yard  when it needs it. One time I did not even have the money  but she said I could pay  her son later. She even  had her daughter come do it once  because we needed  it and  her daughter needed  some shoes. How wonderfully  old school is that. I really love this lady. 
   She came by to bring us a Christmas  card  this morning and daughter was on the back porch relaxing  before  laying down to sleep because she works tonight.(my daughter, not neighbor)
    I feel I should ask her in as she is  nice and it is only  courteous. plus  she has several  health issues and always inquires about mine. But, the lady (neighbor) really loves to talk  I can relate because I love to talk too. But there is a time you start feeling like  (or I do) you have to go on about your business or like myself  just lay back down. How do you do that without being rude?
  Daughter had come in by then prepared to lay down  and I could tell she needed to  but no one knew how to break the conversation.
 I can relate because I love to talk too. But there is a time you start feeling like  (or I do) you have to go on about your business or like myself  just lay back down. How do you do that without being rude?
  Daughter had come in by then prepared to lay down  and I could tell she needed to  but no one knew how to break the conversation.  Finally I just said " oh J. , I can see you are getting sleepy  and need your rest. "  to my daughter. Right away  neighbor  picked up on it and said she needed to get back. she seemed okay with that too. So I just hope she doesn't feel I did wrong to her. she seemed fine with it. How do you handle this?
And heres another nice card we can hang up.
  Finally I just said " oh J. , I can see you are getting sleepy  and need your rest. "  to my daughter. Right away  neighbor  picked up on it and said she needed to get back. she seemed okay with that too. So I just hope she doesn't feel I did wrong to her. she seemed fine with it. How do you handle this?
And heres another nice card we can hang up. 
 I can relate because I love to talk too. But there is a time you start feeling like  (or I do) you have to go on about your business or like myself  just lay back down. How do you do that without being rude?
  Daughter had come in by then prepared to lay down  and I could tell she needed to  but no one knew how to break the conversation.
 I can relate because I love to talk too. But there is a time you start feeling like  (or I do) you have to go on about your business or like myself  just lay back down. How do you do that without being rude?
  Daughter had come in by then prepared to lay down  and I could tell she needed to  but no one knew how to break the conversation.  Finally I just said " oh J. , I can see you are getting sleepy  and need your rest. "  to my daughter. Right away  neighbor  picked up on it and said she needed to get back. she seemed okay with that too. So I just hope she doesn't feel I did wrong to her. she seemed fine with it. How do you handle this?
And heres another nice card we can hang up.
  Finally I just said " oh J. , I can see you are getting sleepy  and need your rest. "  to my daughter. Right away  neighbor  picked up on it and said she needed to get back. she seemed okay with that too. So I just hope she doesn't feel I did wrong to her. she seemed fine with it. How do you handle this?
And heres another nice card we can hang up. 
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            11 responses
        @bunnybon7 (50970)
 • Holiday, Florida
                            20 Dec 17
                                    
                            oh yes and i have been told i don't  always say things the way they are  meant. just glad i didn't offend her.
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                            @bunnybon7 (50970)
 • Holiday, Florida
                            20 Dec 17
                                    
                            @LadyDuck yes and part of you don't want to, but  with me i really have to lay down after a bit. i sat with my feet on the floor  and in the chair so long, my leg fell asleep. not good. i have to watch  things like that.
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                            @LadyDuck (486090)
 • Italy
                            20 Dec 17
                                    
                            @bunnybon7 One of my neighbor is very kind, but when she starts talking she never stops. It's hard to find a way to stop without being rude.
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 @moffittjc (125999)
 • Gainesville, Florida
                    21 Dec 17
                    There's been times when I have flat out said, "It's been great talking to you, but I'm in a rush..." or "I'd love to talk more with you later, but right now I have to get going..." 
Most people are understanding of our time constraints.
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@bunnybon7 (50970)
 • Holiday, Florida
                            23 Dec 17
                                    
                            @moffittjc  takes more strategy  for sure
 takes more strategy  for sure
                             takes more strategy  for sure
 takes more strategy  for sure1  person likes this
                                
                            @bunnybon7 (50970)
 • Holiday, Florida
                            21 Dec 17
                                    
                            problem is i had asked  her in our house.  but the visit went way  long. and she knows i don't go any where.
 but the visit went way  long. and she knows i don't go any where.
                             but the visit went way  long. and she knows i don't go any where.
 but the visit went way  long. and she knows i don't go any where.1  person likes this
                                
                            @moffittjc (125999)
 • Gainesville, Florida
                            23 Dec 17
                                    
                            @bunnybon7 Oh goodness, yeah it would be a little harder to do if you're in your own house!
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 @nanette64 (20363)
 • Fairfield, Texas
                    19 Dec 17
                    At least she picked up on her need to leave @bunnybon7 . There are some people who just don't get it.
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                    @bunnybon7 (50970)
 • Holiday, Florida
                            19 Dec 17
                                    
                            she is a pretty smart cookie. lol. and so nice
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                            @nanette64 (20363)
 • Fairfield, Texas
                            19 Dec 17
                                    
                            @bunnybon7 It's rare to have good neighbors like that any more.
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                             @Courtlynn (67091)
 • United States
                    19 Dec 17
                    Nice card.. seems you did it in a nice way.
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                    @bunnybon7 (50970)
 • Holiday, Florida
                            19 Dec 17
                                    
                            I really hope so. she really is a sweet person.
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                             @Hannihar (130150)
 • Israel
                    1 Jul 18
                    @bunnybon7
She sounds like a very nice neighbor but when you want to get things done and your daughter needs to sleep before she goes to work it is hard to know how to end the conversation and be polite about it.
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                    @bunnybon7 (50970)
 • Holiday, Florida
                            1 Jul 18
                                    
                            i know. but  daughter could have just told her, "well i have to get some sleep. sorry. love talking with you but got to lay down" thats  pretty  polite.
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                            @Hannihar (130150)
 • Israel
                            3 Jul 18
                                    
                            @bunnybon7 
That is very polite. Hope you had a good rest.
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                             @YrNemo (20254)
 • 
                    19 Dec 17
                    I faced that problems often in the past, I got beautiful neighbors!  But some doorknockers were not so nice, so I learned to:
- twitched my nose a bit, sniff sniff, 'Oh no, sorry, I have to run, I left something on the stove and it is burnt I think'  (That happened truly one day, and that time, the person whom I talked to, sneaked into my house while I was busy with the pot, and ran away with some of our properties.  Naughty thief!)
- Oh no, the phone is ringing, I have to answer...  (happened true too, a few times, but I thought I could use that excuse!)
- etc
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                    @bunnybon7 (50970)
 • Holiday, Florida
                            20 Dec 17
                                    
                            well i am glad so far  that has not happened  here. but  did happen many years ago once in california  when we lived there with a thief  coming by
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                            @bunnybon7 (50970)
 • Holiday, Florida
                            20 Dec 17
                                    
                            @YrNemo just a very nasty  bad person was she
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                            @YrNemo (20254)
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                            20 Dec 17
                                    
                            @bunnybon7 Not so nice those people! That specific person was supposed to teach my kids piano. I found out she was a hopeless case (play worse than me!).  When I realized she also sneaked off with some of my properties while I was busy with the stove, I got a bit upset.
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@bunnybon7 (50970)
 • Holiday, Florida
                            20 Dec 17
                                    
                            she is pretty smart at times  when  off her  pain pills. she has a bunch of health issues like myself. but she is very sweet and kind too. reason why i would not like to offend her
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                            @bunnybon7 (50970)
 • Holiday, Florida
                            20 Dec 17
                                    
                            that might be another nice way to fix the problem  without being rude.
                             @LovingMyBabies (85292)
 • Valdosta, Georgia
                    18 Dec 17
                    Beautiful card. =) I think you did that in the nicest way possible.
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                    @bunnybon7 (50970)
 • Holiday, Florida
                            20 Dec 17
                                    
                            thank you. it must  be my age and a lot of experience  through the years. 
                            
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                             @BelleStarr (61413)
 • United States
                    21 Dec 17
                    I always find that being honest is the best policy. I am sure she would have understood that your daughter needed to go to sleep.
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                    @bunnybon7 (50970)
 • Holiday, Florida
                            21 Dec 17
                                    
                            yes  and she did. also i think she realized i had been  sitting  long enough.
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