Ever Have One Of Those Days?
By StacyB
@Srbageldog (7716)
United States
January 21, 2018 1:41am CST
Ever have one of those days where you wake up on the wrong side of the bed and everything just rubs you the wrong way?
...Yeah. It's been one of those days.
I'm grouchy, irritable, and just angry at pretty much everything. You know you are irritable when you even manage to irritate yourself, which I have managed to do multiple times tonight.
I'm not feeling well (which is probably contributing to my irritability) and I really wish my gynecological oncologist would get my surgery scheduled so I could get this issue dealt with once and for all. Endometriosis is making my life miserable. And on top of it, I feel like I'm getting a migraine.
Maybe I should just crawl back into bed and hibernate until this all passes.
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@Srbageldog (7716)
• United States
22 Jan 18
Thank you. I am going to call tomorrow and ask what's taking so long.
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@LadyDuck (502427)
• Italy
22 Jan 18
@Srbageldog May be that is the flu epidemic now, but it's better to ask.
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@JohnRoberts (109841)
• Los Angeles, California
21 Jan 18
Those days are only too common with me.
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@Srbageldog (7716)
• United States
22 Jan 18
I'm sorry. They used to be frequent with me, but then I sort of mellowed out (taking an antidepressant helps.) But yesterday I felt ready to rip everybody's head off. 
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@Ithink (10106)
• United States
22 Jan 18
Awww I feel for you, I'm now trying to decide on surgery, leaning more to doing it now. Going thru this pain is starting to wear me down. Another problem now is hubby only has 2 days he can take off for the rest of the year already since he used 3 while he was sick. Then to finding one that I think can do it. I sure hope they get their act together for you, so you can get yours done.
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@Ithink (10106)
• United States
26 Jan 18
@Srbageldog Well it isn't fun that is for sure, had a major episode last night. Feeling a bit better tonight thou. Have you heard anything?
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@Srbageldog (7716)
• United States
26 Jan 18
@Ithink I'm sorry. I hope you are feeling better now. 
I have not heard anything yet. I keep meaning to call and keep procrastinating and putting it off. I guess I'm scared about actually getting it scheduled and having to go through with it. But at the same time I want it over and done with! So, tomorrow. (Or today, as it's now after midnight.) I will make myself call, even if it's just to leave a voicemail message. I need to get the ball rolling, especially since there are events coming up within the next couple months that I would like to attend, but I feel like I can't make definite plans for anything since I'm still in limbo about surgery.
I have not heard anything yet. I keep meaning to call and keep procrastinating and putting it off. I guess I'm scared about actually getting it scheduled and having to go through with it. But at the same time I want it over and done with! So, tomorrow. (Or today, as it's now after midnight.) I will make myself call, even if it's just to leave a voicemail message. I need to get the ball rolling, especially since there are events coming up within the next couple months that I would like to attend, but I feel like I can't make definite plans for anything since I'm still in limbo about surgery.@Srbageldog (7716)
• United States
25 Jan 18
Oh no, that makes it even more difficult for you to have surgery. I hope you're able to find someone who can do the surgery for you and work all the details out. You can't keep living in pain all the time. 
I hope you're able to find someone who can do the surgery for you and work all the details out. You can't keep living in pain all the time. 1 person likes this
@Morleyhunt (21741)
• Canada
21 Jan 18
I have days like that. Fortunately I am in good health. Usually a large drink of water (dehydration makes me cranky) and a walk in the great outdoors helps me make an attitude adjustment,
I need spring so I can resume my regular daily walks.
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@Srbageldog (7716)
• United States
22 Jan 18
I wish I felt safe enough in my neighborhood to go walking. I used to, but the last time I went for a walk (to the park up the block from us,) I got harassed by a carload of men who threatened to kill me. So now I won't walk that way, and I will only walk with someone else.
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@Morleyhunt (21741)
• Canada
22 Jan 18
@Srbageldog that would discourage walking. I haven't walked much lately because of the cold and the snow...but the last couple of days the edge of the road is clear enough that I can walk with running shoes and not need to put on the heavy boots. The recreational trails are not cleared of snow in the winter so they aren't much of an option this time of year.
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@Courtlynn (67089)
• United States
22 Jan 18
Oh no! :(
And I'm sure coming here last night didn't help either! :(
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@Srbageldog (7716)
• United States
22 Jan 18
No, everything was rubbing me the wrong way and I finally just had to step away from my computer and go lay down. I'm feeling more like my normal self today.
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@Courtlynn (67089)
• United States
22 Jan 18
@Srbageldog yeah i wouldve been flipping in my head.. glad you're better today
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@kobesbuddy (78833)
• East Tawas, Michigan
21 Jan 18
I had endometriosis and it's sure not a picnic in the park! It makes a woman miserable, not to mention, I couldn't go anywhere without threats of a heavy blood flow:( Once you get that surgery, things will be much better, I passed through that dark tunnel in 1990. It was terrible!
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@Srbageldog (7716)
• United States
22 Jan 18
I'm sorry you also suffered with this! I am hoping that the surgery will improve things. They aren't doing a hysterectomy yet, so I might still have problems, but they will be "cleaning things up" in my abdominal cavity and taking out my tubes, which are damaged and glued to my bowel. So fingers crossed that that helps, and doesn't make things worse!
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@Srbageldog (7716)
• United States
25 Jan 18
@kobesbuddy Because I'm having a lot of symptoms in connection to my bowel, we are hoping that removing the things that are glued to my bowel will alleviate the symptoms. (Plus my tubes are engorged and pose a risk for a tubal pregnancy or rupturing at some point.) I'm not sure why they won't just perform a hysterectomy while they're at it, maybe because of my age or because the insurance might not cover it if it's not absolutely necessary.
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@kobesbuddy (78833)
• East Tawas, Michigan
22 Jan 18
@Srbageldog Why will they take only your tubes? I don't understand how this would alleviate the endometriosis.
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@m_audrey6788 (58468)
• Germany
21 Jan 18
Oh! I hope you get your surgery soon I had those days when I have so much pain and vomit due to PCOS that I didn`t know but good thing I was able to solve it right away with medicines
I had those days when I have so much pain and vomit due to PCOS that I didn`t know but good thing I was able to solve it right away with medicines 1 person likes this
@Srbageldog (7716)
• United States
22 Jan 18
Thank you. I am so sorry you also suffered! I've heard that PCOS is very painful too.
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@scarlet_woman (23463)
• United States
22 Jan 18
y'know i got perimenopause..so,y'know my answer to that.
they're lucky they're all still alive today.
but yea,endo is a whole other level of suck.
but yea,endo is a whole other level of suck.2 people like this
@Srbageldog (7716)
• United States
25 Jan 18
I feel sorry for Shawn whenever I got through perimenopause. 
I remember how my mom was when she went through it.
Yeah, it sucks.
I remember how my mom was when she went through it.
Yeah, it sucks.1 person likes this
@Srbageldog (7716)
• United States
25 Jan 18
Thank you. I'm going to call tomorrow and ask what's taking so long. I keep putting it off.
@RasmaSandra (98005)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
21 Jan 18
When I get really bad and I wake up teary-eyed in the morning and start yelling at myself for being stupid then yes, back into bed and get up when the first storm passes. Hope you feel much better soon and virtual hugs.
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@Srbageldog (7716)
• United States
22 Jan 18
Thank you...hugs back at you. Sleeping it off seems to help me.
Sleeping it off seems to help me.2 people like this
@andriaperry (118793)
• Anniston, Alabama
23 Jan 18
Oh yeah! been there many times
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