Would you stay with a cheater?

@ricki_911 (21625)
Toronto, Ontario
January 29, 2018 6:18pm CST
My friend has put herself in the low of the lowest. Her husband multiple times cheated on her. She claimed she waa leaving yet never did. Now they are on 'good' terms. Why? Because she said it was fine he cheated. I honestly think she is weak and doesnt leave due to being alone with 3 kids . She would have to get a job, pay daycare, and pay bills. I couldnt imagine lower to that. Once a cehater always a cheater. He clearly has no respect.
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PLETHOS
@Plethos (13560)
• United States
30 Jan 18
she doesnt value her life nor have any self confidence. she should start to change herself by first, getting some sort of job to build up her self confidence a bit.
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Danna B.
@db20747 (43427)
• Washington, District Of Columbia
30 Jan 18
She's probably just taking her time and not worrying so much. Who needs it?!
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Ricki Dillane
@ricki_911 (21625)
• Toronto, Ontario
30 Jan 18
I offeres to put her name into my old work. But she refused and not looking much. So she just lowers herself to be with that. I told her i dont want to listen about how her marriage sucks and he's with other woman she is just as bad as him for staying.
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Danna B.
@db20747 (43427)
• Washington, District Of Columbia
30 Jan 18
Yes, She needs to do like Arthetha Franklin and demand some R-E-S-P-E-C-T!!!
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Danna B.
@db20747 (43427)
• Washington, District Of Columbia
30 Jan 18
Sometimes you can't just tell them to hit the road so fast. Once she establishes herself she might, But then again, She may just do like Wynona Judd and STAND BY HER MAN!!!
Ricki Dillane
@ricki_911 (21625)
• Toronto, Ontario
30 Jan 18
She has never been alone. His name is on everything so he covered himseld so she gets nothing.
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Ricki Dillane
@ricki_911 (21625)
• Toronto, Ontario
30 Jan 18
@db20747 She would have to take him to court. I would hope he would pay child support but the rest not necessarily unless fought in court unless he agrees outside of court which i very much doubt it. The house if you get a good judge. You are not entitled to alimony here unless she spends more in court. He really does have the upper hand.
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Danna B.
@db20747 (43427)
• Washington, District Of Columbia
30 Jan 18
@ricki_911 Now the lady would be entitled to the house, alimony and child support especially if she's a housewife?
Michelle
@infatuatedbby (95001)
• United States
30 Jan 18
Sometimes it’s easier to say than do for some.
Ricki Dillane
@ricki_911 (21625)
• Toronto, Ontario
30 Jan 18
I think she just saying it and will never leave. But i told her if she's going to whine and conplain he's off with other woman then i dont want to hear it.
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Michelle
@infatuatedbby (95001)
• United States
30 Jan 18
@ricki_911 Yeah, it does happen. Some people complain but do nothing about it. It's not a healthy relationship and I would not stay.