At what point do older people stop understanding younger people

@mydanods (6513)
Nigeria
March 4, 2018 1:50am CST
Older people have a lot in their favor. They have the experience. They have lived 50-70 years and should know a lot about the world and its ways. They have a lot to teach other younger people. But I find that this is not always the case. Older peoples all the time seem not to understand the younger generation. There is a gap; a void that makes one wonder why. So, I was wondering: at what point in their lives do older people stop understanding younger people?
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@sprite1950 (30461)
• Corsham, England
4 Mar 18
I don't know if they stop understanding but they have probably made mistakes and can see a younger person heading the same way and want to protect them, certainly when it comes to parents. I'm older and had some real rows with my kids about things they wanted to do but now they are grown up they understand why I tried to stop them.
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@sprite1950 (30461)
• Corsham, England
4 Mar 18
@mydanods Sure I do. I am old school, there's nothing wrong with that. Everyone will be old school one day. We can't stop the passing of time or differences in thinking between the generations.
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@mydanods (6513)
• Nigeria
4 Mar 18
@sprite1950 I love that. Everyone will be old school one day. I was laughing when I read that.
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@mydanods (6513)
• Nigeria
4 Mar 18
But do you understand when they say you are of the old school?
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@Hatley (163772)
• Garden Grove, California
4 Mar 18
when younger pope start quaking every mistken the books an stop l isteing oioi us oiilder eopleanything we sia ito them we are old fddy didud
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@mydanods (6513)
• Nigeria
4 Mar 18
That's what older people always say. They make the same mistakes that have been repeated before. Why don't they just listen and learn. The cycle keeps repeating itself.
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@Hatley (163772)
• Garden Grove, California
4 Mar 18
@myd perhaposif yiyubg oeioke eated us with resect and not as old foiols we would be alt iore apto heo y ung opeiooke iut wirds itg ways y
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@mydanods (6513)
• Nigeria
5 Mar 18
@Hatley Thanks
@DianneN (254926)
• United States
4 Mar 18
This is an age old question with huge culture gaps.
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@mydanods (6513)
• Nigeria
4 Mar 18
It's really a mysterious question. People wonder why the old don't transfer their knowledge cheerfully; instead they just get turned off.
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@mydanods (6513)
• Nigeria
5 Mar 18
@DianneN Have you experienced it before? Has there been an occasion where it did not happen successfully in your case or it happened successfully?
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@DianneN (254926)
• United States
4 Mar 18
@mydanods It depends on who is giving their knowledge and who is listening.
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
4 Mar 18
the younger generation should understand the older people before the older will understand the younger. an example is what i read on Facebook about a tattooed woman who is in the cashier asking a woman to have her own plastic bag because 'apparently the woman did not think about the future green thing, to which the woman responded as-- before, they use paper bags instead of plastic bags, milk were in bottles and given back to be cleansed thoroughly for refilling, rather than those tetra-packs that will be disposed of after using...'
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@mydanods (6513)
• Nigeria
5 Mar 18
@ridingbet Not some young people; many young people. They tend to look down on older people because they are frail.
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@mydanods (6513)
• Nigeria
4 Mar 18
That is the question. Why don't they understand themselves. Putting the blame on the younger people won't help matters. There are lots of young people that try to understand the older people but they can't. The gap is just there all the time. Why do the older people stop; they just turn their systems off to the younger people.
@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
5 Mar 18
@mydanods it can be the other way around. some young people refuse to listen to the older ones.
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@JohnRoberts (109841)
• Los Angeles, California
4 Mar 18
When observing how stupid young people are.
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@Hatley (163772)
• Garden Grove, California
4 Mar 18
stupid heling stupoid io nes doess ot work ssimeionehas ti be snarter
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@mydanods (6513)
• Nigeria
4 Mar 18
Is that true? You got me laughing.
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@Raj7779 (3669)
• Canada
4 Mar 18
I don't believe in this but i t depends on the person mind.
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@mydanods (6513)
• Nigeria
4 Mar 18
It happens several times. It's not a figment of the imagination. But there's no problem if you don't believe in it. By the way, why do you say so?
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@mydanods (6513)
• Nigeria
4 Mar 18
@Raj7779 I understand. Have a lovely weekend.
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@Raj7779 (3669)
• Canada
4 Mar 18
@mydanods I don't know
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@marlina (154103)
• Canada
4 Mar 18
It has always been that way
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@mydanods (6513)
• Nigeria
4 Mar 18
Will it and can it change?
@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
4 Mar 18
The generation gap was in existence when I was a kid. I swore my parents didn't understand me. Then I had kids and my kids felt the same way about me.
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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
4 Mar 18
@mydanods Yes, it will.
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@Hannihar (130150)
• Israel
4 Mar 18
Maybe it is the other way around and the younger generation does not want to listen to the older generation thinking they do not know anything about life.
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@mydanods (6513)
• Nigeria
4 Mar 18
Why do they think like that? Maybe you could help explain?
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@Hannihar (130150)
• Israel
5 Mar 18
@mydanods Nnaemeka, because there are those in the younger generation that think they know all.
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@mydanods (6513)
• Nigeria
5 Mar 18
@Hannihar What about those that are humble and willing to learn? They still experience the generation gap.
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@Kandae11 (57230)
4 Mar 18
The generation gap is the culprit here. Older folk are finding it more difficult to give advice to the younger ones.
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@mydanods (6513)
• Nigeria
4 Mar 18
But should a gap exist at all? Isn't is supposed to continue from one generation to the next?
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@mydanods (6513)
• Nigeria
4 Mar 18
@Kandae11 I can't fault that statement.
@Kandae11 (57230)
4 Mar 18
@mydanods There will always be a gap.
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@dgobucks226 (37621)
4 Mar 18
As with many young people today when I was their age I felt I knew more than my elders. As you grow up and become more experienced in what life is all about you realize those older people were not so dumb after all.
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@mydanods (6513)
• Nigeria
4 Mar 18
That's the truth. If many youths will understand that today.
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@dgobucks226 (37621)
5 Mar 18
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