alone in my bed

March 19, 2018 2:15am CST
I'm not, by the way. I'm actually on the bus {who'd have thunk, eh?}. However, I was alone in my bed last night. Husband has left me. He's tootled off to stay in a hotel somewhere far away. He'll be back, you mark my words. By the week's end he'll be home, tail between his legs, making me nice cups of tea. Why is it that when I get the bed to myself I still sleep as if two of us are in it? I could sleep diagonally if I wanted. I could sleep smack bang in the middle, or on my back with my arms outstretched, in a Jesus pose. I could get out of bed on his side, nearer the bedroom door and thus saving me twenty seconds, but I don't. I did use his pillows to prop myself up whilst supping on my bedtime cuppa and watching the tellybox. I watched something I knew he'd hate, just because I could. The Marvellous Mrs Maisel. It was jolly good fun. And I think I've spelt it correctly. I was even able to get dressed in the bedroom! Oh my golly gosh. Heaven! And so, another day at work will soon begin. Lessons on Forest Schools and maths, before home to another lonesome evening of doing whatever I want to do. Happy day! {Don't panic! Husband is simply on a course for a few days, learning work-y type stuff.}
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@amadeo (111948)
• United States
19 Mar 18
I love to be free at times.Time for myself.
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@amadeo (111948)
• United States
19 Mar 18
@Poppylicious we all love our spaces.
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19 Mar 18
I do love my space.
@LadyDuck (460403)
• Switzerland
19 Mar 18
I do the same the very few times my husband does not sleep at home. I sleep as he was there in the bed with me.
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@LadyDuck (460403)
• Switzerland
19 Mar 18
@Poppylicious My husband often get up more than one hour earlier. I never take up more space during that hour.
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19 Mar 18
I might try to take up more space tonight. I fully expect to awaken in the same position as always though!
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@KrauseHome (36448)
• United States
8 Apr 18
There are times being by myself is Freedom, and that is why most of the time since I cannot work, I enjoy the time alone. Enjoy the break and take time to do something Fun
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9 Apr 18
I'm with my Mummy right now. That's always fun. :)
• Preston, England
20 Mar 18
I think we are creatures of habit so we tend to sit, stand and lie in the same places, almost accepting territorial boundaries
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• Preston, England
20 Mar 18
@Poppylicious yes, and just as tetchy if someone / something else grabs our place
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20 Mar 18
We're like cats, leaving our mark.
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@xFiacre (12499)
• Ireland
19 Mar 18
@poppylicious I never sleep well when alone in the marriage bed so if she’s away I sleep in the spare room or just fester on the sofa.
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19 Mar 18
Awww, bless. I tend to wake up and panic when he isn't in bed with me!
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@xFiacre (12499)
• Ireland
19 Mar 18
@Poppylicious Oncein her absence (childbirth) I sprayed her perfume on the pillow to represent her presence but that just made me miss her more and led to a most restless night.
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20 Mar 18
@xFiacre You're a soppy lad. :)
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@pgntwo (22408)
• Derry, Northern Ireland
19 Mar 18
So true. Take every opportunity you can. Hubby's probably trying to get comfy in a rickety bed in a B&B somewhere, or worse yet, in some stuffy, overheated shoebox of a room in a business hotel somewhere.
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@pgntwo (22408)
• Derry, Northern Ireland
19 Mar 18
@Poppylicious That just takes the biscuit - paid-for and unusable Internet access!
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19 Mar 18
Premier Inn. He paid for the better weefee and it didn't work. Lolz.
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@RasmaSandra (74146)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
19 Mar 18
Interesting about the sleeping arrangements. Since my husband past away I still only sleep on one side. On the other side, I have books and some clothes but I will only be comfortable sleeping on one side. Enjoy your time alone then you will be more willing to share when he comes home.
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19 Mar 18
I find sleeping arrangements always make me smile. When we go away, we sleep on the same sides as we do at home. When I stay somewhere without him, I still sleep on the same side as I do at home! I am definitely a creature of habit.
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@JohnRoberts (109857)
• Los Angeles, California
19 Mar 18
Have a good Monday.
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19 Mar 18
Thank you. It isn't over yet so I am probably tempting Fate, but it's been most pleasant.
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@peachpurple (13890)
• Malaysia
19 Mar 18
Isn't it nice to have the whole bed ?
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19 Mar 18
Yes, but it is also quite nice when he's in it too!
@YrNemo (20261)
22 Mar 18
Thanks for explaining. I was a bit worried there .
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@fei1125 (607)
• Chengde, China
19 Mar 18
It's good to have rest.
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