Can we birth kids if a husband isnt forth coming

I brought up my children alone after my marriage failed and it wasn't easy especially financially but if you have no choice it is possible. As long as your child is loved and his physical and emotional needs are met you can do it.

You do what you have to do, and to heck with the husband. Can you take him to court in your country to at least get financial help @Berrygal ?

Societies differ all over the world. What is acceptable in one country may be frowned upon in another country.

@Berrygal There are methods that can be done if you are not married that you can have a child.

I believe you just just move on. Not everything works for good

I think you have a point. But this depends on the situation. But I find it really awesome for women who are able to take care of their children alone without a husband. I am in awe at their strength that a man is not needed. Of course, we do not know the circumstances that these women went thru. I salute the women who did not depend on the birth fathers of their children. That is just something I admire.

I think "birth" can also be adopting kids. I think it is possible just as long as you explain it to your kid or kids. I do understand that this is not an ideal life but I guess what we can only do is to guide our children. We can't protect them from this harsh world... we can only be there to be an ear to hear them out, a shoulder to cry on and their support group when things get too tough!

I think there's nothing wrong with being a single mom if having a husband would only cause a burden and not help.

I think this should not be a problem in your country.

@Berrygal I think children need both mother and father.

Yes we can but child rearing can be difficult under any circumstances. Without a partner , the stakes are higher. As a single parent you might have sole responsibility for all aspects of a day to day child care.