How can we help a bullied child

March 30, 2018 3:43am CST
I can remember my days and how I was always bullied by my mates and I never got anyone to stand up for me.but I will like to do this for my kids. How can this be rightly done
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@Jessabuma (31700)
• Baguio, Philippines
30 Mar 18
If your child tells you about being bullied listen calmly and offer comfort and support , kids are often reluctant to tell adults about bullying because they feel embarrassed and ashamed or worry that their parents will be disappointed , angry or upset. Then reassure him or her that you will figure out what to do about it together.
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• Bucharest, Romania
30 Mar 18
Did you ever experience bullying?
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@Jessabuma (31700)
• Baguio, Philippines
30 Mar 18
@Berrygal thank you.
@Berrygal (5834)
30 Mar 18
You are right
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@Berrygal (5834)
30 Mar 18
Report to the bully parents, I don't it good to beat up the child
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30 Mar 18
some parents don't care
@Berrygal (5834)
30 Mar 18
@augusta123 they will when then child is badly spanked
@jobelbojel (34744)
• Philippines
30 Mar 18
Educate the kids.
• Bucharest, Romania
30 Mar 18
Which kids to educate?
@jobelbojel (34744)
• Philippines
31 Mar 18
@Cristi_Ichim both. But I think the one who bullies should be given different lessons.
• Bucharest, Romania
30 Mar 18
You mean to educate the bullied ones?
• Bucharest, Romania
30 Mar 18
To be honest, I think bullies should be punished severely. This is the only solution to stop bullying in my opinion. Nothing else works.
• Bucharest, Romania
30 Mar 18
@augusta123 I don't understand: 1. who is coward? 2. if the bullies are cowards then isn't that a good thing?
• Bucharest, Romania
30 Mar 18
@augusta123 and how is that not gonna make them stop?
30 Mar 18
@Cristi_Ichim yea,I see them as cowards
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@aureliah (24320)
• Kenya
30 Mar 18
Encourage them to report to you when bullied.
30 Mar 18
will certainly do this
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@aureliah (24320)
• Kenya
30 Mar 18
@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
30 Mar 18
Teach them to be strong. Teach them to stand up for themselves without the need to hurt others as well.
@Berrygal (5834)
30 Mar 18
Yes,it better than beating the child
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30 Mar 18
quite true
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@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
30 Mar 18
@Berrygal that is right. There is a difference between being spanked and beating. The latter is to discipline the child. Beating is to abuse.
• Bucharest, Romania
30 Mar 18
You can put the bully's parents on notice that if their bully child ever dares to beat your child again, then the bully child shall get a severe beating for his / her behaviour. Or you can tell the bully's parents that if they will not discipline their child then you will.
30 Mar 18
quite helpful
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@anikoonline (3250)
• Hungary
30 Mar 18
I wish I knew. I will come back to read the comments here, because probably will give a useful tip.
30 Mar 18
Alright,hope the comments are helpful to you
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30 Mar 18
If you can train him to be strong and to withstand pressures , i think the bully will be reduced.
30 Mar 18
certainly