Giving up ones career to raise a family

@Berrygal (5834)
April 2, 2018 11:52pm CST
I'm almost done with school and will be thinking of getting a good a job before raising a family. From experience which will be better raising a family for few years or running my career before raising a family. Which sides works better?
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6 responses
Jessa Bumagat
@Jessabuma (31696)
• Baguio, Philippines
3 Apr 18
You should choose career first before raising a family. How can you raise a family without career?
Jessa Bumagat
@Jessabuma (31696)
• Baguio, Philippines
3 Apr 18
@Berrygal well, you are right dear friend.
enyi ada
@Berrygal (5834)
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3 Apr 18
Sometimes we still need to dump our careers when the kids get in the way, so I was thinking one could finish with child's care so as to concentrate on career
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The Fly One
@aureliah (24687)
• Kenya
3 Apr 18
I would start with my career first and raise a family a bit laterbut it also depends on your age
enyi ada
@Berrygal (5834)
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3 Apr 18
I'm still in my tweeny, but one will still need to give up the career when kids come in
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The Fly One
@aureliah (24687)
• Kenya
3 Apr 18
@Berrygal Then you can start with you career
Ria Roy
@ria1606roy (2797)
• Kolkata, India
3 Apr 18
Having a good career first for a few years will be beneficial....then you can enter the family life with a stronger base and expectations of unbridled joy
enyi ada
@Berrygal (5834)
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3 Apr 18
well noted. Thanks
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Judy Evans
@JudyEv (382693)
• Rockingham, Australia
3 Apr 18
I think the answer to this varies with each person. It might be hard to get a job later if you go straight from school into raising a family.
enyi ada
@Berrygal (5834)
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3 Apr 18
But getting a job doesn't mean we can't still dump it when family demands creep in,so getting a job after then might still be difficult.
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Louise Crisologo
@mlgen1037 (29882)
• Manila, Philippines
3 Apr 18
Congratulations in advance. I would choose career first before family. My motto in life is to provide a good life for my future family and me without the need to rely on others (unless necessary). I do not want my children to suffer the consequences of my action because I was irresponsible.
Debashri Das
@deba12 (2946)
• India
3 Apr 18
Find a good job. The money and experience you will get from it will help you to raise your family in a better way.