Do You Appreciate If I Convey My Thanks In My Responses?
By AKRao24
@AKRao24 (27422)
India
April 28, 2018 2:21am CST
I am from India. We are taught when we are young that we should always pay respect to others to get respect from them. 
So often like other Indians I try to be mannerly and like to use the words like ‘Please’, Kindly, ‘So Kind of You’, ‘Thanks You’ etc.
But I was told here by one of my well-wisher on Mylot, whom I respect a lot, that by using ‘Thanks’ so frequently it may lose the importance and people may not take my ’Thanks’ any more seriously.
To some extent it sounds logical too. But since I want to convey my gratitude to the members that I liked their gesture of responding to me and that is why I always end my response with a ‘Thanks’ without even realizing it!
May I know, how do you feel if someone ‘Thank You’ for responding? 
I just wanted to know do you feel it is Ok, if I am ‘Thanking’ at the end of my response.
Kindly respond, your responses will be highly appreciated!
So often like other Indians I try to be mannerly and like to use the words like ‘Please’, Kindly, ‘So Kind of You’, ‘Thanks You’ etc.
But I was told here by one of my well-wisher on Mylot, whom I respect a lot, that by using ‘Thanks’ so frequently it may lose the importance and people may not take my ’Thanks’ any more seriously.
To some extent it sounds logical too. But since I want to convey my gratitude to the members that I liked their gesture of responding to me and that is why I always end my response with a ‘Thanks’ without even realizing it!
May I know, how do you feel if someone ‘Thank You’ for responding?
I just wanted to know do you feel it is Ok, if I am ‘Thanking’ at the end of my response.
Kindly respond, your responses will be highly appreciated!10 people like this
13 responses
@mlgen1037 (29882)
• Manila, Philippines
28 Apr 18
For me, I do not find anything wrong as long as it is sincerely said. It is indeed a great way to show gratitude to another person.
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@AKRao24 (27422)
• India
28 Apr 18
That is what I too think , we are not offending others, we are just conveying our pleasure by saying Thanks, so there shouldn't be anything wrong about it! Thanks dear friend @mlgen1037 for your encouraging response!
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@mlgen1037 (29882)
• Manila, Philippines
28 Apr 18
@AKRao24 You are always welcome, my dear friend. Never mind what they say. Just continue what you are doing. 
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@AKRao24 (27422)
• India
28 Apr 18
@mlgen1037 , That is so nice of you! Stay blessed!
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@anamika161088 (11866)
• India
2 Jun 18
Polite and humble words are always appreciated.
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@AKRao24 (27422)
• India
2 Jun 18
Nice to know that @anamika161088 ! Hope you are having a great time at your mom's palce with all your siblings, near and dear ones! Take care! Stay blessed! Thanks!
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@AKRao24 (27422)
• India
2 Jun 18
@anamika161088 , Nice to know that! I think there is a great Movie theater in Jaipur by tyhe name of 'Raaj' No?
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@anamika161088 (11866)
• India
2 Jun 18
@AKRao24 Yeah having great time here. Will visit market in the evening with mom to buy groceries. Planning to watch movie later.
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@Jessabuma (31696)
• Baguio, Philippines
28 Apr 18
I always feel good when someone thanking me.. for me it's a sign of showing gratitude ..
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@AKRao24 (27422)
• India
28 Apr 18
I too have the same feeling so I like to Thank the people for their responses! I appreciate your views and Thanks a lot dear @Jessabuma!
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@Jessabuma (31696)
• Baguio, Philippines
29 Apr 18
@AKRao24 you're always welcome
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@Sreekala (34312)
• India
2 May 18
I was very particular on expressing my gratitude in the old version of mylot. Here I won't say unless and until I felt it is important to say.
To be frank, I felt you are over using the word 'thanks'. I mean saying once it is alright but saying again and again to the same person (on interaction) is not necessary.
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@AKRao24 (27422)
• India
2 May 18
I agree, what if a person likes this? I am getting more positive responses here! I understand you won't mind my other close friends won't mind if I don't say Thanks! But in every day's life I am meeting many new people and they like may Thanks!
Am I wrong? Thanks dear @sreekala....that way habits they die hard! Stay blessed!
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@lovinangelsinstead21 (36847)
• Pamplona, Spain
28 Apr 18
I find that very nice and polite.
Me in public I find it difficult to say thank you to anyone as they just stare at you.
So I appreciate a place where we can say please and thank you and we were also taught that as well.
Thank you for posting this one.
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@AKRao24 (27422)
• India
29 Apr 18
I am so happy to know that you appreciate the idea and believe that is nice and a polite gesture! Nice to know that you people are also taught how to be polite and mannerly right from your childhood! Thanks a lot @lovinangelsinstead21 for your positive and encouraging response! God bless!
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@lovinangelsinstead21 (36847)
• Pamplona, Spain
29 Apr 18
@AKRao24
God bless you too and thank you and have a lovely Sunday ahead even if its a bit late now over there.
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@vandana7 (102698)
• India
28 Apr 18
I thank once. May be twice. I give recognition to help received a couple of times. Gratefulness remains in heart and when needed I hope and pray nothing stops me from rising to the occasion and show my gratitude. I think the brevity the word is supposed to import gets destroyed when it is used once too often.
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@AKRao24 (27422)
• India
28 Apr 18
I appreciate your views, as far as the daily life is concerned, I am talking about using this on this site every time I am responding ! What is the problem if by making such gesture if I am making many people happy here? Thanks a lot for expressing your valuable vies here!
@PurnaSharma (2562)
• Guwahati, India
28 Apr 18
I feel good when someone thanks me or comment to my response.It makes me feel that he/she cares my words.
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@AKRao24 (27422)
• India
28 Apr 18
Thanks a lot dear friend for making me happy by your encouraging words! I appreciate that! Stay blessed dear @PurnaSharma !
@AKRao24 (27422)
• India
28 Apr 18
You have made my day by encouraging me! In fact I want to see people happy around me....if this gesture of mine makes people happy then what is the problem! Thanks a lot dear friend @caopaopao !
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@caopaopao (12395)
• China
28 Apr 18
@AKRao24 You're welcome, dear friend.Have a nice weekend.
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