Do You Still Go To A Lot Of Family Gatherings?
By Super Singh
@thesupersingh (42067)
India
May 1, 2018 8:20am CST
I think some of us do like to attend family gatherings and they do enjoy a lot as well. I used to have good time there earlier as well but after some time i started hated those gatherings as i don't like to be much in the gatherings and mostly if they are family gatherings.
I would better stay home or work rather then be at those Family Gatherings.
What About You? Do You Still Go To A Lot Of Family Gatherings? Please Share.
9 people like this
11 responses
@JohnRoberts (109845)
• Los Angeles, California
1 May 18
I have no family to gather.
3 people like this

@ramapo17 (30441)
• Melbourne, Florida
6 May 18
I would like to go to another one as it has been years the entire family got together. Actually I never remember all the family together ever. There are way to many of us. My dad was the baby of 13 children. He had nephews the same age as he was. There are so many that I have never met yet. I always lived on the east coast of the USA and many relatives live on the west coast and some even in Europe. At least with the internet now, I have managed to get in touch with a lot of them and some I never met in person.

@Shellyann36 (11383)
• United States
3 May 18
We do attend. They are few and far between because everyone has such busy lives but we try to make as many of them as we can.
2 people like this
@thesupersingh (42067)
• India
3 May 18
Yeah it's best to attend and have a good time there
2 people like this
@vandana7 (102134)
• India
1 May 18
I shun them. LOL. There is too much of nonsense in them. We Indians really need to bring down socializing like those.
See generation one...parents, two children, each two children. Effectively, there are 2+4+4= 10 people who would have something or the other to celebrate. Now consider spouses' families. Parents, siblings and their children. So 30 celebrations line them across various years 1 each year that is fine. But you have birthdays, engagements, baby showers, bridal showers, marriage receptions...that is near about 50 functions! 50 days of life are lost and money that could remain for old age spent away. Why complain children are not looking after me, when money was spent away carelessly? In ancient days, traveling was tough, so only few of those functions were attended. Now every little thing becomes a reason to celebrate, housewarming, promotion. You name it. Spending so much time on such things leaves little time to be bringing up children right. Time we reflected on such things.
2 people like this

@vandana7 (102134)
• India
6 May 18
@ramapo17 If you take a gift of less than $50 you are not even covering the meals and invitation expenses. So high have these expenses gone. Formerly, it was like call few families from North, few from south, few from east, and few from west to witness the ceremony, and bless them with wishes that should any differences arise, these wise people would be around to be the witnesses and reconcile the couple. Now it is just cacophony. Honestly, 50 events is simply too much! And if you don't attend one, they take offense. If you are not invited they take offense, if you give better gift in one because you are closer to them, they take offense. Back then, the custom was give bride and groom whatever is needed to begin their new life, so clothes, vessels, linen. Now, if you don't give gold and diamond ornaments, you are kind of looked down upon, and may not be invited. When did we Indians become so money minded? God knows.
1 person likes this
@thesupersingh (42067)
• India
1 May 18
Thanks for sharing your thoughts. Take care
2 people like this

@mlgen1037 (29885)
• Manila, Philippines
1 May 18
Not as much as we used to when I was younger. 

2 people like this
@thesupersingh (42067)
• India
2 May 18
@mlgen1037 lol it's opposite in my side lol
2 people like this
@mlgen1037 (29885)
• Manila, Philippines
1 May 18
@thesupersingh Yeah but only in the father side. In the mother side, never mind.
2 people like this

@tso1960 (225)
• United States
1 May 18
I live too far away from my family to go. But last summer I went home for the first time in 6 years. I spent two weeks back home and had a great time. I even let classmates of mine that I would be home at that time so several of them also came. I hope that I can do this again in a couple of years.
2 people like this
@ramapo17 (30441)
• Melbourne, Florida
6 May 18
It is always fun getting together with old classmates and friends. I am still in touch with many of my friends that I met when I was 9 years old and I am now 75. I see a lot of them when I go up north to visit my kids and grandsons.
@thesupersingh (42067)
• India
2 May 18
Yeah it is for sure. Wishing you a very great day
2 people like this
@munhozmib (3836)
• Sao Paulo, Brazil
1 May 18
Greetings,
I'm not sure about what you mean with family gatherings... whether it is something usual or something that happens once in a while. But yes, I do like to be reunited with my family. Once in a while we try to make a barbecue, with everybody around. There are small gatherings (me, my wife, my parents and my brother, for example) and there are times we make a big gathering (with grandmothers, aunts, uncles, cousins, etc).
I believe it's a good opportunity to have some joy in meeting people you don't see so often. When we are young, we tend to think that they will be always there, and that the relationship with them is "stated" or "given". After we grow up, we realize that they won't be there forever, and it's a built relationship - you have to work your way to maintain it.
Regards!
1 person likes this

@ramapo17 (30441)
• Melbourne, Florida
6 May 18
You are so right @munhozmib. Time goes by so fast and before we know it we run out of time or lose some of out health to make any trips to see everyone.
1 person likes this


@ramapo17 (30441)
• Melbourne, Florida
5 May 18
@thesupersingh Thank goodness for the internet as I am in touch with so many relatives. My dad was the 13th child and all of his siblings had many children and they have children. One day I would like to create the family tree. That would take a long time to do it.
@ramapo17 (30441)
• Melbourne, Florida
5 May 18
@thesupersingh I keep in touch with many of them.
1 person likes this
@thesupersingh (42067)
• India
4 May 18
I can understand. Still better to be in touch with them
1 person likes this

@thesupersingh (42067)
• India
1 May 18
That's very nice to know. Thanks and have a great day
2 people like this
