a skill, a shower, and anger management
By bonnie
@bunnybon7 (50970)
Holiday, Florida
May 17, 2018 1:32pm CST
So this week has been hard with having to just wash nasty places on me from a sink bowl. I know, awful mind sight 
My time for visits ran out for nurses and shower help. I don't mind the nurse part but showers was very much needed for help. They called from doctors this morning to ask some questions in order to get my insurance to agree to more help come here. I told the lady I just mostly needed the shower help and she said I can't have just that, its like a package
I have to take something else to help with a skill ! 
What? what skill? This language of medical insurance I just don't understand. Like I told her, I think the nurses were coming just to check on me over the feet thing, or maybe the COPD or arthritis, any number of things ! not a "skill" 
she said she would work on thinking of how I could get back the shower help.
Next thing today , Clay is of course upset over something he is not getting. Gosh this man needs anger management. the noise gets on my nerves so bad. 
That's it ! I will tell them the skill I need is how to stay calm and collected and keep my blood pressure under control with this guy around 
My time for visits ran out for nurses and shower help. I don't mind the nurse part but showers was very much needed for help. They called from doctors this morning to ask some questions in order to get my insurance to agree to more help come here. I told the lady I just mostly needed the shower help and she said I can't have just that, its like a package I have to take something else to help with a skill ! What? what skill? This language of medical insurance I just don't understand. Like I told her, I think the nurses were coming just to check on me over the feet thing, or maybe the COPD or arthritis, any number of things ! not a "skill" she said she would work on thinking of how I could get back the shower help.
Next thing today , Clay is of course upset over something he is not getting. Gosh this man needs anger management. the noise gets on my nerves so bad.
That's it ! I will tell them the skill I need is how to stay calm and collected and keep my blood pressure under control with this guy around 7 people like this
9 responses
@bunnybon7 (50970)
• Holiday, Florida
17 May 18
that is my daughters man, bf, fiance, whatever. Lol. sorry, i forgot that not everyone on here has been reading my posts for 10yrs. my bad. have to live with him because i have to depend on daughter so much
@bunnybon7 (50970)
• Holiday, Florida
18 May 18
@thislittlepennyearns usually i say daughters bf but that was confusing to some. though not as many. guess i will go back to that.
@thislittlepennyearns (68246)
• Defuniak Springs, Florida
17 May 18
@bunnybon7 oh I have read your posts in the past but don't recall his name.
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@mlgen1037 (29882)
• Manila, Philippines
17 May 18
Same exact question on my mind.
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@bunnybon7 (50970)
• Holiday, Florida
18 May 18
i am sorry. i should have said. he is daughters man that lives here with us. its the 3 of us in the house.
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@BelleStarr (61463)
• United States
20 May 18
I hope that you can get your care back. For my mom when she was at home, we paid $35 for private care to come in and help her to shower. We did it every other week because that was what she could afford but it was worth it.
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@bunnybon7 (50970)
• Holiday, Florida
20 May 18
oh i am sure it is worth it. if i could find one that reasonable, i guess i could do that. my insurance was paying all of it before. just hope it will again.
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@bunnybon7 (50970)
• Holiday, Florida
21 May 18
@BelleStarr i could look into that if i don't get help from here again
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@BelleStarr (61463)
• United States
21 May 18
@bunnybon7 We used Interim healthcare to get our aid, in a pinch, it might be able to work for you.
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@bunnybon7 (50970)
• Holiday, Florida
18 May 18
they check to see just how much help i need and if i have that. but they don't always get the complete picture of how daughter does not have time nor energy to do so. work nights and try and get sleep during the day. its tough.
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@LadyDuck (502343)
• Italy
19 May 18
@bunnybon7 I have been unable to help my mom when she came out of the hospital. The nurses have the habit to lift people, I made a big effort to help and then I needed physiotherapy because I strained my wrist.
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@bunnybon7 (50970)
• Holiday, Florida
19 May 18
@LadyDuck oh so sad. my daughter has hurt her back at work and can't seem to help me either
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@Courtlynn (67089)
• United States
18 May 18
Sorry you ran out of visits. Really hope they can find away to get you more.
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@bunnybon7 (50970)
• Holiday, Florida
18 May 18
thanks. they sent out a nurse again today to evaluate me again. it might work. 
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@mlgen1037 (29882)
• Manila, Philippines
17 May 18
I remember Kerokerroppi in that image.
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@bunnybon7 (50970)
• Holiday, Florida
18 May 18
are you talking about Kermit the frog ? i got the image from pixabay free images. i like it so i just use it at times. 
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@bunnybon7 (50970)
• Holiday, Florida
18 May 18
@mlgen1037 oh. guess i should read up more on Hello Kitty. I do love frog things. I used to collect them.
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@mlgen1037 (29882)
• Manila, Philippines
18 May 18
@bunnybon7 Hehehe Keroppi is I think in Sanrio with Hello Kitty. Kermit the Frog is different.
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@lologirl2021 (5541)
• United States
17 May 18
After reading all that you posted i hope your night is better then the day was for you and i sure do hope you get the help you need.
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@bunnybon7 (50970)
• Holiday, Florida
18 May 18
thank you. in fact they just called and said a nurse is coming tomorrow to check me out
@lovinangelsinstead21 (36847)
• Pamplona, Spain
20 May 18
So sorry Bun that is just what you don´t need.
Could your daughter not help you out with a shower say twice a week.
As for the other one he does need to do anger management by the sound of it.
Sending you good wishes for him to behave better and let you have some peace.
Also a big hug for better times for you goodness knows you need it.
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@bunnybon7 (50970)
• Holiday, Florida
20 May 18
no she has hurt her back at work and can't help lift if i need a little support. plus she does not hardly have time.
@bunnybon7 (50970)
• Holiday, Florida
18 May 18
i have had a shower chair for 12 yrs now and these days i even have the handles to hold on to on the wall, but i still have trouble breathing and washing etc. all at the same time, so i have had to give up my modesty. so i need help in case i get faint and can't step out etc.
so i need help in case i get faint and can't step out etc.1 person likes this
