If love is blind, Marriage will open your eyes.

Nigeria
May 18, 2018 6:27am CST
Love is blind is a popular saying. When we are in a loving relationship we fail to see our partners flaws. We see everything through the eyes of love as such they are "perfect". No human is an angel, we all have our strength and weaknesses. Therefore, it won't be wise if we fail to tell our partners their weaknesses so that we can work on them together. Rather than closing our eyes to them. It is true that people can pretend in relationships but never in marriage. Marriage is reality. As such, we shouldn't blind our eyes to flaws we see in relationships. • Is love really blind? • what is your own understanding of love is blind?
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@Sreekala (34312)
• India
18 May 18
I think your title is apt, Lol, No one is ready to understand or accept the reality when they are in love. Later when they experienced the same in real life, it will be too late.
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• Nigeria
18 May 18
That's the point. That's why there is heart break and divorce everywhere
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@suni51 (3429)
• India
18 May 18
Thanks God, mine was arranged marriage so we were not blind but we accept all our blemishes with open eyes!
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• Nigeria
18 May 18
@suni51 you're funny. Thank you accepted each others in reality
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@arunima25 (85884)
• Bangalore, India
19 May 18
True love is not blind ...it sees things in the light of reality and is based on trust, respect and acceptance. Marriage is a strong bond of love. It is the fantasy of love that is blind
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@suni51 (3429)
• India
18 May 18
Love is not blind but the lovers don't want to accept the realities in some cases or disclose the flaws of their partners. But once married and out of their infatuation they start finding mistakes.
• Nigeria
19 May 18
That's were the problem lies. It takes maturity, patience and determination to make it work
@aureliah (24321)
• Kenya
19 May 18
Very well said. Marriage really opens your eyes
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@porwest (78757)
• United States
18 May 18
Love just makes you see a person in a totally different way than others might. It can be both a good thing and a bad thing.
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