Leaving Your Kids In Cars Alone
By DB
@dgobucks226 (37621)
May 22, 2018 7:00pm CST
From time to time we hear of children being left by their parents unattended in a car. And it's not just deaths in summer from heat exposure in a hot car. Here are a couple examples I found from a news story from a local New Jersey (U.S.) radio station which really upset me.
Police found a 2 year old girl toddler wandering aimlessly around an active parking lot at a shopping center. The child had fallen asleep in the car and the mother decided to leave her there while she went shopping inside the Burlington Coat Factory store. She could have been killed. Or taken. The mother was charged with endangering the welfare of a child and only given a summons and released.
In another case someone noticed outside a bar four kids ranging in age from 1 year old to 8 years old left unattended in a pickup truck. Police were called who determined they had been left there for half an hour. Inside the bar police found the mother and father shooting pool. The man and woman were both charged with four counts of endangerment. The man also was driving without a license and operating an unregistered motor vehicle. The couple also had no car seat for the children. When the police found he had warrants, he was taken to the Ocean County jail. The mother was charged with endangerment and, just as the other mother, released.
Why were the mothers allowed to go home instead of being booked and jailed? I know they will have to appear in court for the summons, but should not the penalty be more severe? After reading this story It seems odd to me there is no universal punishment for child endangerment?
In these instances the women received what amounted to a slap on the wrist. Is this how the law should treat abandoning children? How is this adequately protecting the child?
Tragedies can happen! What if someone stole the car with children still inside. Or worse. What if that toddler wandering in the parking lot was hit and killed by a car.
There should be tougher laws and uniformity for this offense.
Do you consider any of these penalties appropriate:
-a small fine
-a heavy fine of $500 or more
-10 days in jail
-90 days or longer in jail
-remove children from home
What is your opinion about this issue and what punishments do you believe should be instituted?
Source- NJ 101.5 FM
Photo- huffingtonpost.com
Police found a 2 year old girl toddler wandering aimlessly around an active parking lot at a shopping center. The child had fallen asleep in the car and the mother decided to leave her there while she went shopping inside the Burlington Coat Factory store. She could have been killed. Or taken. The mother was charged with endangering the welfare of a child and only given a summons and released.
In another case someone noticed outside a bar four kids ranging in age from 1 year old to 8 years old left unattended in a pickup truck. Police were called who determined they had been left there for half an hour. Inside the bar police found the mother and father shooting pool. The man and woman were both charged with four counts of endangerment. The man also was driving without a license and operating an unregistered motor vehicle. The couple also had no car seat for the children. When the police found he had warrants, he was taken to the Ocean County jail. The mother was charged with endangerment and, just as the other mother, released.
Why were the mothers allowed to go home instead of being booked and jailed? I know they will have to appear in court for the summons, but should not the penalty be more severe? After reading this story It seems odd to me there is no universal punishment for child endangerment?
In these instances the women received what amounted to a slap on the wrist. Is this how the law should treat abandoning children? How is this adequately protecting the child?
Tragedies can happen! What if someone stole the car with children still inside. Or worse. What if that toddler wandering in the parking lot was hit and killed by a car.
There should be tougher laws and uniformity for this offense.
Do you consider any of these penalties appropriate:
-a small fine
-a heavy fine of $500 or more
-10 days in jail
-90 days or longer in jail
-remove children from home
What is your opinion about this issue and what punishments do you believe should be instituted?
Source- NJ 101.5 FM
Photo- huffingtonpost.com11 people like this
10 responses
@FayeHazel (40230)
• United States
24 May 18
Some people should have to take classes before reproducing.
Remove children from home seems reasonable.
Take parenting class with some kind test to pass before getting kids back seems right too
Remove children from home seems reasonable.
Take parenting class with some kind test to pass before getting kids back seems right too2 people like this

@FayeHazel (40230)
• United States
25 May 18
@dgobucks226 I agree. It would be more safe for the kids to be out of the home until the parents can learn responsibility
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@dgobucks226 (37621)
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25 May 18
Letting a child roam free in a parking lot while shopping shows lack of common sense as does the parents playing pool. They would be doing the kids a favor removing them from the home until the parents reassess their priorities!!!
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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
25 May 18
@dgobucks226 Yes, it should.
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@dgobucks226 (37621)
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25 May 18
Yes, I totally agree. Stricter enforcement for child endangerment. A universal standard should be established by every state when it comes to protecting children.
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@marguicha (230349)
• Chile
23 May 18
I´m not sure that a foster home is good. I have heard made awful things about them. But jail and maybe kids staying with someone of the family (and a big fine and according to what the parents earn).
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@marguicha (230349)
• Chile
25 May 18
@dgobucks226 I have never though that fines have to be the same for everyone. Some people are rich and don´t mind paying big fines.
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@dgobucks226 (37621)
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26 May 18
@marguicha That is a good point. Fines do not go far enough.
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@dgobucks226 (37621)
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25 May 18
Yes, those are reasonable solutions @marguicha. A stronger deterrent is needed.
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@Deepizzaguy (122232)
• Lake Charles, Louisiana
23 May 18
The rules of punish moms who leave their children inside an auto should be a fine or some courses of taking care of their children so they won't do it again.
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@Deepizzaguy (122232)
• Lake Charles, Louisiana
26 May 18
@dgobucks226 The rule of thumb is to hit the pocketbooks of the offending party.
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@dgobucks226 (37621)
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26 May 18
@Deepizzaguy Yes, if there pocketbooks are deep enough and they are not living at the poverty level.
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@dgobucks226 (37621)
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25 May 18
Yes, definitely although a fine or course may not go far enough to stop them from doing it again. But that would be a start.
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@nela13 (59365)
• Portugal
26 May 18
@dgobucks226 True, children need protection and those parents just don't give it to their child.
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@dgobucks226 (37621)
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26 May 18
Yes, I agree with your comment Manuela
Some parents are just not ready for the responsibility involved with raising children.
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@mlgen1037 (29882)
• Manila, Philippines
23 May 18
There are women who do not deserve to have children. They are so irresponsible. Other women want children and they have the capabilities to take care of children but they cant have even a single one. And these women just go on as if they can do anything. Just wow.
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@dgobucks226 (37621)
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25 May 18
Yes, if people don't want the responsibility for properly caring for their children perhaps they should have thought twice before having them! You cannot be selfish when it comes to caring for a child.
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@mlgen1037 (29882)
• Manila, Philippines
25 May 18
@dgobucks226 That is so true. The children do not deserve that. They did not asked to be born.
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@dgobucks226 (37621)
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25 May 18
At the very least! In some instances the child's life is in danger with this type of neglect 
@Happy2BeMe (99353)
• Canada
23 May 18
The kids should definitely be removed from the home and the parents should do jail time. Common sense tells you that you don't leave children alone in a car while you go shopping or to a bar or ever and if they can't figure that out then they don't deserve to have children.
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@dgobucks226 (37621)
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25 May 18
Yes, so true. Some people have no common sense or are just selfish people. They should not be raising children!
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@Daelii (5619)
• United States
23 May 18
I do not feel there is ANY reason to ever leave any child in a car alone unless they are like a teenager. Even then, I'm likely to be like "kids, come with me anyways!". So sorry, but I've heard to many stories about kids abducted by child traffickers. There was a very recent attempt locally with a van that had the tin foil over the windows!
Seriously, I will pick up my kids and put them on my coat (i keep an extra in the car- i get cold often) in the bottom of a shopping cart. Its not hard. they can keep sleeping and I can shop! if they wake up cranky? so what. They either go to sleep or settle down once they figure out whats going on.
better safe than sorry.
So I totally agree it should be a a real crime that deserves some kind of true fear "omg, if this happens to me, im worried" so people don't do it.
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@dgobucks226 (37621)
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25 May 18
My thoughts exactly! Very well stated Robin. Harsher penalties are needed!
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@dgobucks226 (37621)
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25 May 18
Thanks for your input. Imagine if someone had stolen the car with a small child inside for instance. Harsh penalties are needed to stop this sort of behavior.
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