They look at me like a freak
@Cristi_Ichim (3750)
Bucharest, Romania
May 24, 2018 6:00am CST
Hello my friends. Ever happened to you that some of your friends consider you a freak due to being different from the majority?
But first things first: let me tell you what inspired me to post this discussion. In the world of civil engineering certain people make tons of money by buying cheaper materials than the ones prescribed by the project.
Some of my fellow egineer colleagues have told me something like “let us be honest with ourselves. We would do the same if we had the chance” to which I replied with something like “no, I wouldn’t. Speak for yourself” to which they reply with “yes, you would” and I would reply “no, I wouldn’t” and they would look at me like a freak because of that.
Another reason why people look at me like a freak is because I am vegan. They are like “omg, you don’t consume milk either?” to which I reply “yes, I don’t” consume milk either. Apparently for those people being honest and vegan is like being a freaky alien coming from another planet.
What is your opinion on this issue?
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@josie_ (10033)
• Philippines
24 May 18
Being honest in the midst of corruption would make you the odd man out. It's hard to stand up for your principles when there is peer pressure. But consider the job you're in, using cheaper and inferior construction material have safety consideration that might prove fatal.
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@Cristi_Ichim (3750)
• Bucharest, Romania
24 May 18
When it comes to building roads using cheaper materials is not fatal at all.
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@josie_ (10033)
• Philippines
24 May 18
@Cristi_Ichim _Fatal for you if the substandard road is investigated by quality control inspectors.

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@Cristi_Ichim (3750)
• Bucharest, Romania
24 May 18
@josie_ that is not fatal especially when the inspector is bribed to shut his mouth
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@lynnief (1203)
• Australia
24 May 18
There are some times when it is good to be different, and being honest in a dishonest world is definitely one of those times. As for being vegan, I'm not, and I never want to be, but I don't see that being so makes you freaky. It would be a very boring world if we all thought the same about everything.
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@Cristi_Ichim (3750)
• Bucharest, Romania
24 May 18
I agree that it is ok to be different because if we were all the same life would be boring but I disagree with people being rude because of being different
@lynnief (1203)
• Australia
24 May 18
@Cristi_Ichim that's true. Just remember that their rudeness says far more about them than it does about you.
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@LovingMyBabies (85923)
• Valdosta, Georgia
24 May 18
I am looked at crazily every day of my life because I love Jesus but I don't mind! I would rather please my Father in Heaven all the days of my life. =)
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@Cristi_Ichim (3750)
• Bucharest, Romania
24 May 18
I don’t mind it either but I just find it interesting that they are weirded out by the fact that some people are honest or vegan. They are amazed. They can’t believe it.
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@Cristi_Ichim (3750)
• Bucharest, Romania
25 May 18
@Shavkat believer in God, a supreme deity, being
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@caopaopao (12395)
• China
24 May 18
I'm sure you're normal. Don't care what they say. Just listen to your heart.
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@caopaopao (12395)
• China
24 May 18
@Cristi_Ichim Some people do things for their own benefit. Some people do things out of their conscience.
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@Cristi_Ichim (3750)
• Bucharest, Romania
24 May 18
I am not affected by their views. I posted it as a discussion topic to see what people think of it.
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@Jessabuma (31696)
• Baguio, Philippines
29 May 18
Just don't mind those kind of people, as long as you don't harm anyone, there's nothing wrong with being honest and being different from others.
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@Cristi_Ichim (3750)
• Bucharest, Romania
29 May 18
@Jessabuma I do ignore them in the sense that I do not get sad over it.
@Jessabuma (31696)
• Baguio, Philippines
29 May 18
@Cristi_Ichim hahaha!!! Then just ignore them..
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@celticeagle (189793)
• Boise, Idaho
25 May 18
I would probably look at you funny too because I am a foodie.
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@Cristi_Ichim (3750)
• Bucharest, Romania
25 May 18
Haha. You are being honest though
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@mlgen1037 (29882)
• Manila, Philippines
24 May 18
It is really hard to please others and by that it means being honest with yourself and they dont.
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@Cristi_Ichim (3750)
• Bucharest, Romania
24 May 18
I am not trying to please anyone.
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@mlgen1037 (29882)
• Manila, Philippines
24 May 18
@Cristi_Ichim Yes. Doing the right things will never be accepted by many and I am glad you are an upright and honest person, Christian. 

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@Cristi_Ichim (3750)
• Bucharest, Romania
29 May 18
Don’t worry. I am not sad over it or anything.
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