To love or being loved

@iniaku (2157)

Indonesia

July 24, 2018 5:36am CST

My mom always said, better find a man that loves you than you love him. Sometimes, if we like someone, he/she didnt like us, or maybe we dont have a courage to tell our feeling and let it be one sided love until we forget him/her In the other side, if someone we just know and he/she have interest in us, even we dont feel comfort around him/her or our conversation didnt match each other.how is that? Share me your opinion^^

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@amitkokiladitya (171935)

• Agra, India

24 Jul 18

Always go for a person who loves you. Then all shall be well

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@amitkokiladitya (171935)

• Agra, India

24 Jul 18

@iniaku yes...both sides should have a balance

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@iniaku (2157)

• Indonesia

24 Jul 18

yes i think so, for me better find someone who loves me but ofcourse the important things is i comfort with him

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@lady1993 (27225)

• Philippines

24 Jul 18

well, my mom always said the same thing... and i do agree

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@iniaku (2157)

• Indonesia

24 Jul 18

mom know the best, right?

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@lady1993 (27225)

• Philippines

25 Jul 18

@iniaku they sure do.. most of the time

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@Debscrochet (1947)

• United States

29 Jul 18

It needs to be both ways

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@iniaku (2157)

• Indonesia

30 Jul 18

yes, thats will be great if i like someone and he love me back

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@rakski (112925)

• Philippines

24 Jul 18

Yes, I agree. Most mother will tell you that.

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@rakski (112925)

• Philippines

24 Jul 18

@iniaku you do not need to find it. If it is for you, it will find you.

@iniaku (2157)

• Indonesia

25 Jul 18

@rakski totally agree

@iniaku (2157)

• Indonesia

24 Jul 18

i'm relieved not only my mom who said like that

let it flow like a river, i will find my soulmate soon...^^

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@dgobucks226 (34499)

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28 Jul 18

Always find someone who reciprocates your love... True love lasts forever it never ends

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@iniaku (2157)

• Indonesia

29 Jul 18

yes. thank you. hope to find it soon.^^

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@Icydoll (36717)

• India

24 Jul 18

That's almost every mother give that same advice..I Think that's the better in life

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@iniaku (2157)

• Indonesia

24 Jul 18

yes i think so. but still i want to love someone that love me back, is it selfish?

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@May2k8 (18123)

• Indonesia

28 Jul 18

Better to be loved than to love someone who is not necessarily in love with us. If we are being loved then we can automatically love that person wholeheartedly.

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@iniaku (2157)

• Indonesia

28 Jul 18

yes, you are right!

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@quantum2020 (12040)

• Ciudad De Mexico, Mexico

26 Jul 18

When you give love to someone, there is some love in return. So is much better to love

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@iniaku (2157)

• Indonesia

30 Jul 18

yes. but give love and get the love back is hurt. so better both way

@DianneN (247216)

• United States

25 Jul 18

My mother always told me the same thing. As it turns out, my husband and I love each other to the moon and back equally.

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@DianneN (247216)

• United States

27 Jul 18

@iniaku I wish the same for you!!!!! Thank you!

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@iniaku (2157)

• Indonesia

25 Jul 18

i hope i can find my future husband and will build my own families like you do

so happy see your relationship with your families

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@ridingbet (66857)

• Philippines

31 Jul 18

an advice of my mother was "marry the man who loves you, not necessarily the man you love". i did that and now, i am separated. hahahahaha

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@ridingbet (66857)

• Philippines

1 Aug 18

@iniaku that is true. the marital problem arose when we had our son already.

@iniaku (2157)

• Indonesia

1 Aug 18

@ridingbet always wish you all the best^^ yourself and your son

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@iniaku (2157)

• Indonesia

31 Jul 18

sorry to hear that. if we married someone we love, at least we get someone we want for the rest of our life

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@acelawrites (19273)

• Philippines

27 Jul 18

Follow your Mom's advice; find a man who will love you so much and you will easily feel the same for him.

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@iniaku (2157)

• Indonesia

28 Jul 18

havent found yet. hopefully this year.lol

@Jessabuma (31700)

• Baguio, Philippines

24 Jul 18

Yes I agree with your mom, it's better to find a man who loves you than you love him

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@Jessabuma (31700)

• Baguio, Philippines

25 Jul 18

@iniaku yes that's true

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@iniaku (2157)

• Indonesia

25 Jul 18

yeah nomatter what, at least find someone we comfort each other

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@Rashnag (30594)

• Surat, India

25 Jul 18

True indeed. Thanks for sharing dear

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Lissa Marie Fudotan

• Philippines

24 Jul 18

That's the advice the moms usually give to their daughters. She wants someone who will love and take care of you. Your mom is right, choose someone who loves you so much but only you are ready to give back that love to him. If you know to yourself you can't see yourself being together with that man in the future, you must be fair too because he deserves to find the happiness that he will never find in you. But I believe that you will learn to love someone when his love for you is real. For me, don't choose your partner because of your passion for him. Choose him because you see him as a suitable and good person that you can see yourself waking up with every morning.

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@iniaku (2157)

• Indonesia

24 Jul 18

thanks for your advice

find a suitable person that i will never regret to married him