Is it saying sorry hard to say?

@JustBhem (70555)
Davao, Philippines
August 4, 2018 12:27pm CST
When is the time to say sorry? Do you apologize to someone if you did something bad to them? How do you feel after apologizing? Because of ego and pride, there are some people who can't even say the word. Just a simple sorry to end up a heated argument can stop it. Why a simple word "sorry" is hard to say sometimes. But that does it mean that you have to say it every time. Sorry, can mean a lot to someone who does not seem to be okay after a fight. A sorry can make someone happy too. A sorry can mend a heart that was broken after thousands of years of bleeding. A sorry can start a new relationship as well. Just say sorry if you are sorry.
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@MALUSE (69390)
• Germany
4 Aug 18
My answer is here.
1. The appropriate apology If you insult someone with words or deeds, unwillingly or willingly, a heartfelt apology is appropriate. It's the most difficult one....
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
5 Aug 18
Thanks.
@LeaPea2417 (36588)
• Toccoa, Georgia
4 Aug 18
I try to apologize quickly.
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@LeaPea2417 (36588)
• Toccoa, Georgia
5 Aug 18
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
5 Aug 18
We should especially if it's our fault, right?
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@marlina (154165)
• Canada
4 Aug 18
I have no problem saying those words and mean them,.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
5 Aug 18
Aside from saying them, we need to mean that we are really sorry.
@kobesbuddy (75108)
• East Tawas, Michigan
4 Aug 18
Apologizing is far too hard, for some people. If I don't apologize, it makes me feel miserable inside.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
5 Aug 18
I feel you. Whenever I did something bad, I sometimes hesitated to say I'm sorry. But on the later part, I try my best to amend.
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@kobesbuddy (75108)
• East Tawas, Michigan
5 Aug 18
@JustBhem If I was ashamed, it was hard to face that person.
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@asternoel (214)
• India
4 Aug 18
I agree that for me it's very hard to say sorry sometimes..
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
5 Aug 18
We take back sometimes whenever we feel we need to say it because we are afraid or it's either it's very awkward.
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4 Aug 18
Saying sorry is SO HARD... But it's not impossible. At first, you must recognize what exactly you did and tell to the other person you really know how bad you know it feels... It's not only say that, is to feel that. When you are sincere and clear the situation, it's easier to speak, even if you're crying... You say "I'm sorry" to ease the pain of the others and to ease your own pain...
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
5 Aug 18
Exactly. Whenever we say it we also mean it.
@popciclecold (35636)
• United States
5 Aug 18
If I have wronged someone in any way, I will say I am sorry.
@May2k8 (18123)
• Indonesia
4 Aug 18
The biggest factor that makes us difficult to apologize is ourselves. A sense of pride, fear if we will not be forgiven, feeling confused about how to start apologizing are internal factors that prevent someone from apologizing. I make a habit to immediately apologize for whatever I feel is not right. Suppose it's 10 minutes late to attend an appointment with a friend, apologize for the delay. Even though our friend might think there is no problem. Similarly, when offending other people.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
5 Aug 18
Exactly. I believe this. Thanks for your view.
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@LadyDuck (460403)
• Switzerland
5 Aug 18
I have no problem apologizing if there is a reason to apologize.
@DianneN (247216)
• United States
6 Aug 18
I have no problem saying it. When it's rejected, then it's a problem.
@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
5 Aug 18
why, hija? are you emotionally hurt now? saying sorry should be in its sincerest manner. saying sorry just for the sake of saying it, is not nice at all. i hope there is nothing wrong between you and your boyfriend, or you and your family members.
@andriaperry (116860)
• Anniston, Alabama
4 Aug 18
Its all in how you say sorry. Saying it and then adding you don`t know why you have to be sorry for saying whatever is not meaning it at all.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
5 Aug 18
Saying sorry and you mean it makes us a lot better inside.
@Kandae11 (53769)
4 Aug 18
I have no problem with saying I'm sorry.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
5 Aug 18
Me too, it can make our self-relief.
@iniaku (2157)
• Indonesia
4 Aug 18
yes say sorry so hard especially fo adult. i usually teach my nephews and niece to always say sorry if they are do naughty to others (their siblings) but sometimes for myself, easy to say sorry to stranger than to my own family (if i am doing something not good). usually we solve problem not more than a day
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
5 Aug 18
Me too. I always make sure that my nieces and nephews say sorry if they did something awful or bad.
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