INSENSITIVEsister!
By ingrid
@ridingbet (66854)
Philippines
August 23, 2018 8:18pm CST
It is a ranting Friday here to my end. I just had a heated argument with my sister.
She is so insensitive! When I call her attention, she says her ‘signature line’ of “never mind, I won’t comment again!” And this made me boil again.
Why are there people who are so insensitive to the feelings of others? When she says she is sick, am I not too? She wants to be always understood, but how about me?
I could not contain my anger that I stomped my feet and raised my voice.
How can one be so insensitive?
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7 responses
@caopaopao (12395)
• China
24 Aug 18
I think so too. Some people's character is difficult to change. So we don't have to be mad at these people.
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@LadyDuck (502148)
• Italy
24 Aug 18
@caopaopao My mother was like the sister of Ingrid. Sometimes I was upset, but I had learned not to get angry and move on. I knew that nobody would have changed her
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
25 Aug 18
i should already have gotten used to her attitude, that sometimes i feel like i am already stone-cold to her, but she knows how to play with my emotions and that is what irks me.
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@simplfred (20641)
• Philippines
24 Aug 18
Maybe she is not. Considering her line, it means, it was affected her.
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
25 Aug 18
she is insensitive with her remarks. if you, for example, has made a mistake, and i, for example say, 'it is nice i don't use that', i am being insensitive to your feelings and you are already down and depressed about that.
how about a word of encouragement?
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@simplfred (20641)
• Philippines
25 Aug 18
@ridingbet Maybe you both need to sit sometimes and have some heart to heart conversation.
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
28 Aug 18
@simplfred we always do that. we are poles apart, but we certainly love each other.
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
25 Aug 18
that is good to know. even though my sister and i have clashes, i still love her, though i dislike some of her attitude.
@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
25 Aug 18
good Saturday morning. yes, it was draining my energy yesterday that was why i went to do my personal errands until evening. i had to move away from her so she knows how it is to be alone not talking to anybody.
@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
28 Aug 18
@thelme55 yes she is. a few minutes from now, she is going to the hospital for her check-up...again!
@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
25 Aug 18
yes, i believe she is sick in thought, in word, in deed. no, she is not mentally deranged. she often says "good thing i am NOT as intelligent as the 2nd brother and the kid brother" thingy, to which i say, you are still intelligent, and that is already a delusion of grandeur on her part.
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@thelme55 (79311)
• Germany
26 Aug 18
@ridingbet oh I see. She is that kind of a sister.
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
25 Aug 18
yes it is really maddening. last night when we started talking to each other again, she complained of many body pains again. i took her blood pressure reading because according to her, she feels dizzy (after taking her anti-vertigo tablet). it was normal, but she insisted she is having high BP. i left her room
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
28 Aug 18
@Courage7 i would not even want to be anxious about what she will do next, but i am trying my best to be civil with her
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@Courage7 (19626)
• United States
25 Aug 18
@ridingbet Oh gosh I see what you mean that is so annoying. You are good to put up with her.
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
25 Aug 18
she side-commented something about my son driving the car.
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