Why are married people still looking at somebody else besides their spouse ??

It means that he's a healthy male with a normal appetite. If it bothers you, then it's almost certain that it's you that has the problem - with unfounded jealousy. Better deal with that first because it makes most men want to look elsewhere.

When people get married, they usually don't get blind. Who doesn't look at another person, when he or she is beautyfull? The important point is, that our attitud is limited to have a look, but don't become unfaithful.

I think that men especially are designed to enjoy looking at an attractive woman. It doesn't mean he's going to be untrue to his mate.

What's wrong with *looking*?

Lol, as long as people remain as matter(science) the eye will always see them. A spouse looking shouldn't be an issues but making a move more than looking should be the issue

I think it's okay to appreciate beauty but not to the extent that he'll flirt. I'm very much confident on how i look and how i am as a wife and mom to our kids. I'm not the jealous type.

Well there’s many reasons why I can’t spill them all out in here but I could mention a few. Most common is men’s appetite for more adventures in his married life. Infidelity starts when men give in to the call of their biological urges. I am not saying this as the truth but it is what is commonly happening in marriage that encounters problem in their marriage.

It's natural to look but if it goes beyond that then it means they are selfish, unkind and unloving!

It's but natural to appreciate beauty, married or whatever.

I think it's normal

That's a reaction, kinda when I see icecream!!! I left a guy on a date once for looking at other girls!!!

Because they have wandering eyes.

Well I do not believe that looking at other people ever stops.