Do you think life changed after marriage.....
By Saurabh
@saurabhrmp (2283)
Hyderabad, India
September 16, 2018 1:20pm CST
I married ~6 years back and i saw my lige changed after that. Even my thinking changes after that. I usually a friends hang up person but that also becomes very limited now. Also i became so scared about my future also as responsibility came on my schoulder.
As in my previous post i told that happiness goes out of life and while deep diving i found that i am thinking too much about my future as that also started after marriage. So, marriage also making me thinking too much about future....
Whats your experience about your marriage....
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6 responses
@saurabhrmp (2283)
• Hyderabad, India
18 Sep 18
I dont know why i am thinking too much about future after marriage. I know that is wrong but i need to have some backup so that my future thinking will stop
@Wowtalk (592)
• Jamaica
19 Sep 18
@saurabhrmp
Don't worry about it too much. if you decide to get married go in it with the mind that it will work. Ensure that you know each other likes and dislikes, and ensure that whatever fault you find with the person it is something you can live with, before tying the knot.
Please note that no relationship is perfect and it's a matter of helping each other whether up or down.
I hope I didn't get too carried away. Just felt like sharing how I do it.
@saurabhrmp (2283)
• Hyderabad, India
18 Sep 18
Are you working or you are house wife. I think for me it changed because my health is also not good now a days
@Sreekala (34312)
• India
19 Sep 18
@saurabhrmp I am working. I also take care of my house and children.
For girls, it won't make much changes in their life. But for boys,it is not like that.
@saurabhrmp (2283)
• Hyderabad, India
18 Sep 18
Yes completely agree with you. Foe me also it chnaged a lot after my daughter
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@wolfgirl569 (135847)
• Marion, Ohio
16 Sep 18
Getting married didnt change anything for me.
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@wolfgirl569 (135847)
• Marion, Ohio
18 Sep 18
@saurabhrmp No but it still did not change us except our last names are now the same. I have my likes and he has his. We dont have to be together 24 7 and do not play the possessive jealous games either. We work together to make life happy for both of us the same as we did before we got married after we met and started dating. Everyone has responsibilities to meet and should be thinking about their future as they will not stay young forever. So we were both already doing that stuff anyways.
@saurabhrmp (2283)
• Hyderabad, India
18 Sep 18
I dont know how your thinking is not changed. Are you and your spouse both working? In that case might be you are correct
@saurabhrmp (2283)
• Hyderabad, India
18 Sep 18
That is good for you, hope you remain together for more number of years. For me it changed might be i am the only earning person in my family and my healthis also not good
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@saurabhrmp (2283)
• Hyderabad, India
18 Sep 18
I dont know why i am so scared from my life. I think that is due to my job unsecurity. As in my current company job security is big concern
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@aureliah (24687)
• Kenya
23 Sep 18
@saurabhrmp Do not less your job stress you. Just work as you look for new opportunities. All the best
