What do you do when you break up with your lover

Malang, Indonesia
October 3, 2018 5:35am CST
I have never broken up, but I often see people break up. They look very sad. Here I will discuss about the love that has been lost? If ever how did it feel? write down your opinion.
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13 responses
• Philippines
3 Oct 18
I cried myself to sleep. But it was a good decision, actually. It was a toxic relationship. I have been cheated on/lied to for so many times.
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• Philippines
4 Oct 18
@praetyo Yes, already found him
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• Malang, Indonesia
4 Oct 18
• Malang, Indonesia
4 Oct 18
@freelancermariagrace thank you for your opinion, your method is quite great. My advice is you should be more careful in choosing a partner
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@Janet357 (75656)
3 Oct 18
I cried a lot and didnt talk to anyone.
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• Malang, Indonesia
3 Oct 18
@jeigh elle thank you for your opinion, now I know it's like breaking up, hopefully you don't break up again
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@Janet357 (75656)
3 Oct 18
@praetyo no, he married me. And we are ok now. Hahahha
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• Malang, Indonesia
5 Oct 18
@Janet357 OK, that's good
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@m_audrey6788 (58485)
• Germany
3 Oct 18
I broken up only once and it was not easy. I tried to busy myself with something else until I get over it and moved on to another phase of my life then I met a much better one in life
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• Malang, Indonesia
3 Oct 18
@simplyme thanks for your opinion, now I know that breaking up is not easy. I hope you don't break up again
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• Germany
3 Oct 18
@praetyo I`m married now with a much wonderful partner in life forever
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• Malang, Indonesia
3 Oct 18
@m_audrey6788 I hope you stay together and be happy every time you are old
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@Ladanger (14582)
• United States
3 Oct 18
Sadly I never wanted things to end but I chose the wrong people to date.
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@Ladanger (14582)
• United States
3 Oct 18
@praetyo very true
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• Malang, Indonesia
3 Oct 18
@ladanger thank you for your opinion, yes you are right no one wants this but yes that's how we make it ourselves sometimes.
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• Malang, Indonesia
4 Oct 18
@Ladanger Yes thank you
@a_jerobon (2304)
• Eldoret, Kenya
4 Oct 18
I have broken up many times and each was not easy but as time goes by, you learn how to deal with it. I usually let myself grief it all then I let go and love myself more.
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@a_jerobon (2304)
• Eldoret, Kenya
4 Oct 18
@praetyo thank you for your advice. I will do that.
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• Malang, Indonesia
4 Oct 18
@a_jerobon thank you for your opinion, that's good but my advice you must keep your relationship from breaking up again
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• Malang, Indonesia
4 Oct 18
@a_jerobon You are welcome
@pgabiv (2)
• Cebu City, Philippines
3 Oct 18
I will probably be sad for a few days. I've been in this situation 2 years ago. I lost a lot of weight because I did not want to eat. After I have recovered, I'm starting to get out and surround myself with my friends because I'm sick of being sad all the time. I did not return the things she gave me tho because I throw it all away. Lol
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• Malang, Indonesia
3 Oct 18
@pgabiv thanks for your opinion, you are right when you are injured or in distress you go to your friends. because they are the ones who can help you
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• Malang, Indonesia
3 Oct 18
@pgabiv yes you live only one time, it's better to just have fun than to think about things like that
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• Cebu City, Philippines
3 Oct 18
@praetyo Yeah! It is really boring to be sad all the time to be honest. There is so much more in life to discover, so why stay sad all the time?
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@cupkitties (7421)
• United States
3 Oct 18
Not something I have to worry about but I would tell them have a nice life. I will never spend a day crying over them. Some people will break up to test you. I dont play that
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• Malang, Indonesia
4 Oct 18
@cupkitties thank you for your opinion, you are a wise person.
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@rakski (112925)
• Philippines
3 Oct 18
Being heartbroken is a lonely situation.
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• Malang, Indonesia
3 Oct 18
@rakski thanks for your opinion, you are right the atmosphere will be quiet when the person you consider important goes
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• Germany
3 Oct 18
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• Malang, Indonesia
3 Oct 18
Thanks for your advice
• Malang, Indonesia
3 Oct 18
Tanks
@grakhee (70)
4 Oct 18
This is really hard. Situations like this make life miserable. Take time and move on that is what I did.
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• Malang, Indonesia
4 Oct 18
@grakhe thank you for your opinion, that's good, keep doing things that can make your sadness become happiness
@Babino (5761)
• Morocco
3 Oct 18
Well, i cry, and i go out with a lot of friends, everyday, and i keep reminding myself why it's better this way and that i'm not alone !!
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@Babino (5761)
• Morocco
3 Oct 18
@praetyo sometimes i go out with other guys to remind myself that i can find a better one easily, that it's okey that he's gone..
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• Malang, Indonesia
5 Oct 18
@Babino thank you for your opinion, what you do is good when you lose And of course going with other people is good
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• Malang, Indonesia
3 Oct 18
@babino Thanks for your opinion, you are right when you are injured or in distress you go to your friends. because they are the ones who can help you. I myself am more happy with friends than girlfriends
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@debjani1 (7207)
4 Oct 18
I never gone through this situation.
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• Malang, Indonesia
5 Oct 18
@debjani thank you for your opinion, that's good, because most of the people who break up are feeling sick
• Quezon, Philippines
8 Oct 18
DeFinitely that will hurt whatever the resson and yet moving on is really hard too