“What’s in YOUR mind when saying UNWRITTEN LAWS?”

@Shavkat (141905)
Philippines
November 14, 2018 6:42pm CST
The most common unwritten law is not talking loudly in public places. It seems that some people cannot get this. This morning, I was walking around the town proper. A man was talking loudly and tried to investigate what’s his grumbling about. With a reaction of being dismayed, he was talking with his mobile phone and seems doesn’t care with the passers-by. “Have you ever encountered people who talk so loudly with their mobile phone in public?” “Do you know any unwritten laws that need to be reminded of?” Image Credit: fakingnews.firstpost.com
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@ledante (1086)
• Taipei, Taiwan
15 Nov 18
This is also known as the social contract, it varies greatly form culture to culture
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@Shavkat (141905)
• Philippines
15 Nov 18
I do agree with that. It depends on a country's culture.
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@ledante (1086)
• Taipei, Taiwan
16 Nov 18
@Shavkat it also evolves along with the culture- right now talking on the phone in public is still considered rude in most nations, but as it becomes more widespread it will be considered normal
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@Shavkat (141905)
• Philippines
20 Nov 18
@ledante That's the reason why we need to research about the country's culture before going there.
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@ilocosboy (45155)
• Philippines
15 Nov 18
So many people are like that, in plaza, inside the public bus, in office. My unwritten law is to help people in need.
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@Shavkat (141905)
• Philippines
15 Nov 18
How will you help other people?
@ilocosboy (45155)
• Philippines
15 Nov 18
Like buying the local produce vegetable they are selling to us; lending the coconut grinder; giving saltvto neighbors; praying for our neighbors in distress... there are so many ways we can help them in small ways.
@Shavkat (141905)
• Philippines
15 Nov 18
@ilocosboy Are you into volunteering?
• Pamplona, Spain
15 Nov 18
Happens all the time and I don´t like to hear their conversations at all. I feel a bit like an intruder without wanting to be and they should be much more discreet.
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• Pamplona, Spain
15 Nov 18
@Shavkat Where we were living before one person was very particular in letting us all know about herself almost right underneath our window as the houses only had one floor and with no garden to protect the front part they were able to stand right outside your windows and tell their story. Said person has a voice that grates on you. Not sorry to have left that place.
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@Shavkat (141905)
• Philippines
15 Nov 18
@lovinangelsinstead21 That's what my evil relatives do. They can't wait to be praised by other people. They are really full of themselves.
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@Shavkat (141905)
• Philippines
15 Nov 18
It is not a good thing for them to do this. In the most likely situation, they are so insensitive.
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@sofssu (23660)
15 Nov 18
Darn, I hate that and we have a neighbor who yells on his phone.. Disturbing the peace in the neighborhood. He was walking behind me yelling on his phone just a few minutes ago when I took my dog out for a walk.
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@Shavkat (141905)
• Philippines
15 Nov 18
It is really irritating sometimes. I would prefer to stay away from them as much as possible.
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@Shavkat (141905)
• Philippines
20 Nov 18
@sofssu It is not our lost without them.
@sofssu (23660)
16 Nov 18
@Shavkat I sure feel that way too.
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@LadyDuck (502573)
• Italy
15 Nov 18
Those are not "unwritten laws" those are simple "good manners" or call it etiquette if you like. People with a bit of common sense should know better.
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@Shavkat (141905)
• Philippines
15 Nov 18
I agree. Some people cannot have this sense of awareness. They just ignored doing it.
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@yoalldudes (35028)
• Philippines
15 Nov 18
Not in public. Our house is small and the househelp is talking loudly so I reprimanded her lol
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@Shavkat (141905)
• Philippines
15 Nov 18
I think we need to let people in the family to be sensitive, especially if we have neighbors.
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@AKRao24 (27422)
• India
15 Nov 18
I agree this doesn't look good to talk loudly in public places. But as far as talking on the phone is concerned we may need to talk loudly many a times because of improper signals or poor audio quality of the phone. I recall people eating in restaurants with opening their mouths wide reminding cattle or horse while having their feed!
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@AKRao24 (27422)
• India
15 Nov 18
@Shavkat , yes generally people won't do such things deliberately!
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@Shavkat (141905)
• Philippines
20 Nov 18
@AKRao24 I think for some.
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@Shavkat (141905)
• Philippines
15 Nov 18
I cannot tolerate if one of my family members does this. The good thing, they don't do it. It would be understandable if there is an existence of a low signal and the like.
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@dpk262006 (58679)
• Delhi, India
15 Nov 18
I often notice people in public transport who keep talking loudly on their mobile, oblivion of the fact that they are at a public place. It looks odd to me. I avoid taking calls when travelling in a public transport, until and unless it is very urgent. I would politely tell the caller that I would call you back after sometime.
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@dpk262006 (58679)
• Delhi, India
22 Nov 18
@Shavkat You do the right thing.
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@Shavkat (141905)
• Philippines
23 Nov 18
@dpk262006 Thanks. I think it is the right thing to do.
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@Shavkat (141905)
• Philippines
15 Nov 18
I do the same thing. I don't want to call the attention of others of talking loudly in public.
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@allknowing (153529)
• India
15 Nov 18
There are countless unwritten laws that are broken such as throwing garbage on roads.
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@Shavkat (141905)
• Philippines
20 Nov 18
I do agree with you. It is nice that you had mentioned this unwritten law.
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@jstory07 (148734)
• Roseburg, Oregon
15 Nov 18
You should go somewhere private to talk on your phone. That is what I do.
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@Shavkat (141905)
• Philippines
15 Nov 18
I agree. Why do they need to broadcast their business in public? I think it is a simple etiquette that needs to carry out.
@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
15 Nov 18
i think maybe the man cannot hear the caller's voice. even if the phone is on loud speaker. also, maybe the surroundings is noisy. my mother (+) talked aloud during the wedding of our nephew while the priest was saying his sermon. she cannot listen to her own voice.
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@Shavkat (141905)
• Philippines
15 Nov 18
It is not that kind of situation, Kabsat. The Session Road was not that crowded early this morning. It would be understandable if it is.
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@Shavkat (141905)
• Philippines
23 Nov 18
@ridingbet You said it right. He has a new model of cellphone.
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
22 Nov 18
@Shavkat yes i understand, kabsat. hahaha. i am just saying my other talked aloud during the wedding rites of my nephew. maybe the man was also boasting of his perception to the caller?
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@theend (2777)
• Gifu, Japan
15 Nov 18
This does not happen in meetings.
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@Shavkat (141905)
• Philippines
15 Nov 18
Sometimes it happens. Some people in the company are big talkers.