Are you a good adviser?

@WiseGhots (14603)
January 9, 2019 10:59am CST
Yesterday, I was talking to a friend about this. another friend of ours is kind of out of patience to give advice and usually gets right to the point, and with that, he ended up hurting a friend of a long time and now he's kind of out of the blue to apologize. today I ended up meeting with him and gave one single advice: "Grow up and learn to apologize and if possible, improve your temperament." How do you see yourself in this situation?
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@amadeo (111937)
• United States
9 Jan 19
your right on this.Many people do not apologize.I do if needed and feel good about it.
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@amadeo (111937)
• United States
11 Jan 19
@WiseGhots are you feeling more comfortable now here
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@WiseGhots (14603)
11 Jan 19
Yeah.
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11 Jan 19
@responsiveme (22923)
• India
9 Jan 19
People don't like to listen to advice unless they want to.
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@WiseGhots (14603)
9 Jan 19
You have a good point here.
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• India
9 Jan 19
@WiseGhots once they are in a state of mind to accept then it is OK but otherwise I don't think it works unless very close friend
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@WiseGhots (14603)
9 Jan 19
@responsiveme I agree.
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@allknowing (153544)
• India
10 Jan 19
Gone are the days when people listened to advice given and now I hear them say 'Do not lecture" (lol)
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@JudyEv (381739)
• Rockingham, Australia
9 Jan 19
Some people don't really want 'advice' but just want someone to listen to them. If we could just listen without trying to fix everything, people find their own solutions.
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@WiseGhots (14603)
11 Jan 19
Yeah. Most of them just want to be listened.
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@JohnRoberts (109841)
• Los Angeles, California
9 Jan 19
I don't bother with advice. People don't want it.
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@WiseGhots (14603)
9 Jan 19
It's kinda true.
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• Philippines
13 Jan 19
I think im a good adviser to my friends.. hahaha.. but if i were in your shoes, ill just say, reflect on your actions... haha
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@WiseGhots (14603)
13 Jan 19