Status

By sofs
@sofssu (23660)
January 26, 2019 8:21pm CST
Well this isn't about what we normally think status in society, its about fakebook status, whatsapp status and social media status. Do you read what people post on their status? I don't often. Yesterday I took some time to read what people had posted and I was in tears, no I wasn't sad or feeling bad, I was just laughing till tears ran down my cheeks. This is what I learned, most people write things they didn't even think twice about before posting, some people write things that are so fake I wonder of they believe it themselves, there are some who live in a world of dreams that has no contact with reality, some are outright silly and then there are those who mourn and weep and want the whole world to know. There were just one or two that made me think, made me feel that here is someone that I might want to interact with. I am happy that I am out of this game. I never post status anywhere. I hardly post on social media. I am glad to know that I don't miss much. Maybe I am wrong. What do you think about the status people post on their profiles?
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@DianneN (254949)
• United States
27 Jan 19
I am rarely on social media these days except for close friends and family. Some people are pathetic, and I can’t bear to waste my time there when I can myLot. lol
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@sofssu (23660)
27 Jan 19
@DianneN I never use FB for contacting loved ones, I either Skype them or use whatsapp to call. I know what you mean , some people are pathetic indeed.
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@DianneN (254949)
• United States
27 Jan 19
@sofssu We usually FaceTime, but I love to see photos of my granddaughter and grandson.
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@sofssu (23660)
27 Jan 19
@DianneN I understand that a lot of people connect with family that way. I have no issues with that.
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@Shiva49 (28371)
• Singapore
27 Jan 19
Some people want to escape from their real world and just fake it in social media. That is not me. I write to depict who I am to make it meaningful and fulfilling to me - siva
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@marlina (154103)
• Canada
27 Jan 19
So much time wasted on those sites by so many people.
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@sofssu (23660)
27 Jan 19
@Shiva49 Same here I'd like to be the real me LOL
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@sofssu (23660)
27 Jan 19
@marlina Honestly. I wonder if even care about anything else.
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@suni51 (3431)
• India
27 Jan 19
After reading your discussion I am feeling guilty of posting one photo after a long gap of few months in my timeline. Maybe you will laugh more after watching my profile.
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@suni51 (3431)
• India
27 Jan 19
@sofssu I hope you watched what I posted on my FB yesterday!
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@sofssu (23660)
28 Jan 19
@suni51 Nope , I have no clue what is your name on FB, either ways I guess yesterday would be the my last visit to FB in a long time. I hope you post your picture here so all of us can enjoy.
@sofssu (23660)
27 Jan 19
@suni51 I like to see pictures of people, I have nothing against that but some people keep posting only pictures of themselves in unimaginable postures and styles. It makes me want to There is this one guy, who makes videos like Jackie Chan and posts as his status literally everyday.
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@jstory07 (148731)
• Roseburg, Oregon
27 Jan 19
Some people like to make like they are bigger than what they are,
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@sofssu (23660)
27 Jan 19
@jstory07 Yeah i totally agree.
@LadyDuck (502234)
• Italy
27 Jan 19
I used to go on facebook, but it's almost two month that I do not even check my account. Honestly I never checked the status of people on their profiles.
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@sofssu (23660)
27 Jan 19
@LadyDuck I have never looked at status so far today was my first experiment and It was a tear jerker. More because I know some of the people so well.
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@LadyDuck (502234)
• Italy
27 Jan 19
@sofssu I have one fb account that is "private", my profile can only be visible by friends.
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@LadyDuck (502234)
• Italy
28 Jan 19
@sofssu People just try hoping to find something interesting to steal.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
27 Jan 19
What I don't like is posting selfies on their wall as their status. Like every hour.
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@sofssu (23660)
27 Jan 19
@JustBhem LOL everyhour? thank god I never go there.
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@sofssu (23660)
28 Jan 19
@JustBhem Hmm .. now that can get very annoying.
@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
27 Jan 19
@sofssu Yes, like every hour sometimes every 30 minutes, and what I did, I unfollow them.
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• United States
27 Jan 19
I try to read people's status and I'd like to think most of them are genuine, but I tend to be naieve that way! LOL
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@allknowing (153544)
• India
27 Jan 19
I have long given up going there There are some there who give such a false picture of themselves.
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@allknowing (153544)
• India
28 Jan 19
@sofssu I have copied everything from there and kept in a zip file. You can do that.
@sofssu (23660)
28 Jan 19
@allknowing yeah, my thoughts too. I may visit the site once a year if there is a reminder, but now I have muted everything,but not closed my account.
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• Valdosta, Georgia
28 Jan 19
I think social media like anything else can be used for good or bad. Personally, I use it to share my faith and to share the gift God gave me which is photography. Also, I have so much more peace and joy in my life since I stopped worrying about what others do and focused on my own walk with God. =)
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• Valdosta, Georgia
28 Jan 19
@sofssu That's their cross to bear, no one elses. We will all be judged on judgment day. I won't allow anyone else's sin to cause me to sin.
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@sofssu (23660)
28 Jan 19
@LovingMyBabies Agreed I have nothing against sharing your skills or your faith on social media. Anything that is used for good is always appreciated , but the majority of the world uses it for sharing fakeness and negativity.
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@marlina (154103)
• Canada
27 Jan 19
Gave up on Facebook a long time ago. Can't stand that stuff.
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@sofssu (23660)
27 Jan 19
@marlina Me too, I haven't gone there in years, but you get the updates on your email from time to time. I went there to change my email preferences.
• United States
28 Jan 19
i confess that i rarely read their woes 'n some i've muted due to their incessant nonsense. bad, i know... wouldn't be'n facebook 't all, but 'tis the only way i get pics 'f the grands.
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@sofssu (23660)
28 Jan 19
@crazyhorseladycx I have done the muting thing on so many sites. I don't want to be caught up in other peoples negativity. Thankfully most of the stuff there drives me off the site, I hardly spend time there.
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• Santiago, Chile
27 Jan 19
I find their stories interesting sometimes. I say so because I always find out things throughout their stories on social media that certainly make me learn more about what is happening in the world. Sometimes they post such unhelpful and dumb status, but most times I am curious to know more.
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@sofssu (23660)
28 Jan 19
@jvicentevalera I have no doubt that social media can be put to good use. I used to be part of groups which were involved in rescuing pets, gardening and such . I have learned a lot from there, but majority of social media is fake or that is what I think.
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• Santiago, Chile
28 Jan 19
@sofssu You are right that we might be fooled by social media and all the fake news around there. That is why We need to be more curious and learn more from other sources, then We will be well-informed. :)
@Sheali (7461)
• India
27 Jan 19
I like to write about my experience and sometimes try to know other's view points about a particular topic. I never write about the negativities in my life, as I feel discussing them here will in a way draw me more towards the negativity.. I am here to divert my mind if I am sad.. At the same time, I think it is ok if some one write something about something bad that happened to them.. maybe for them it is the place where they can share their sadness and get relief, knowing that no one is going to judge them.. and even if some does, it doesn't matter..
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@sofssu (23660)
27 Jan 19
@Sheali Let me present the practical side of the story, They don't have to weep and mourn on a public forum, it just shows that all they are looking for is sympathy not working on solutions to their problems. It invites predators who could befriend them and use the information against them. I would rather speak to a friend or elder who can help me. Our private life is none of other peoples business, we hate it if others interfere with it, but we ask for public attention through what we post.. LKet me put it this way, you hate it when someone reads your diary, but now FB has become people's diary. I am not judging, they ask for judgement.
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