Incessant Chatter

Daytona Beach, Florida
January 31, 2019 7:33am CST
I'm a pretty verbose person myself, but there is a lady here at the shelter that never stops talking. It's become a bit annoying, and I am usually not one to complain. I try to be understanding and compassionate to all the types of persons that walk through those doors. Tired, beat down, frustrated and alone. The path to heaven leads through miles of clouded hell, it's a line from an Imagine Dragons song and it rings especialy true to me. Because I do have a purpose here on this Earth to help others, to bring light to the darkness. I try to listen patiently, but sometimes I just tune her out, there are 58 other bleeding hearts, and everyone deserves a turn. How do you handle someone like this? I don't want to be mean, because maybe nobody listened to her and that is why she is here. Lots of shelter residents have family close by, and it's a kicker to be told by anyone that you don't deserve to be loved or to have a roof over your head. I consider the common room my office, and today I feel a bit like a therapist. Until 10, and then I have kitchen duty where I will be in charge of cutting desserts. It's not so bad here really, and I am grateful.
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@maclanis (2405)
• Belgium
31 Jan 19
I can get quite annoyed by overly chatty people as well. I don't get why people do this, surely it can't be fun to just keep on talking and never listen? I guess when you've simply had enough, you should get away from her for a while.
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@Mavic123456 (21891)
• Thailand
31 Jan 19
i am a chatty person here in mylot because I want me and another member to earn. *to be honest but in person i am not really this chatty. Anyway, people come in different packages, i had encountere one at my previous work and another one in this work. Sometimes i hide under the table if I see him coming.
@responsiveme (22923)
• India
31 Jan 19
I think you are doing a wonderful job
@Happy2BeMe (99353)
• Canada
31 Jan 19
Glad things are good there for you and you are right there are so many different people who find themselves there for many different reasons. She probably doesn't realize how much she is talking and that it can annoy others. She is probably just thankful to have a place to be where people understand the struggles.