his last chance
By Ms Rae
@carebear29 (32002)
Wausau, Wisconsin
February 5, 2019 1:02pm CST
so i am giving my husband one last try at this. he claims hes getting rid of the girl he likes. i am giving him the benefit of the doubt. this is his very only last chance he gets and if he screws it up im out. he knows this. i am trying to be strong through this but i am trying. i even scored me a job. he is upset he still wants me to be a stay at home mom but this will help pay bills and i can also build my scentsy inventory at the same time as needed and eventually go to scentsy as my main income again. business has been slow so maybe having this job will help us both out. lets see how it goes with him...so far nothing much has changed with him...
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12 responses
@LovingMyBabies (85923)
• Valdosta, Georgia
5 Feb 19
He had a girl on the side while being married to you?
I'm sorry. That job will help you in many ways. Not only for an income but confidence too that you can do anything you need to do. =)
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@carebear29 (32002)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
5 Feb 19
i am thinking so too but we will see
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@Tina30219 (82978)
• Onaway, Michigan
5 Feb 19
Congrats on the job . Save all the money you can even if you are giving him another chance that way if he does not change you have money and can get a place or kick him to the curb you have the kid you need a place. You are right this will help you with your scents business and more I am happy for you.
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@Hate2Iron (15724)
• Canada
5 Feb 19
i HOPE that he is being honest... but I think that I would always wonder! I think having your own income is a very good idea!!
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@Happy2BeMe (99353)
• Canada
5 Feb 19
At least you are trying and if it doesn't work then you know that you did all you could do to make it work. If he doesn't make an effort then it is on him. You can't change him. Take care of you and your son and do what is best for the both of you.
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@carebear29 (32002)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
5 Feb 19
thanks.. oh i will be lol but working on me and saving money all i can do
@shaggin (74987)
• United States
16 Mar 19
How are things now with him? I recall you having a boyfriend while you were married to him so maybe he feels it's only fair he can do the same? I think it's great you got a job so that way if your marriage does end you can support yourself and not panic not having any money.
@noni1959 (13058)
• United States
5 Feb 19
You need to get an account with only your name on it and put a child or other person you trust as a beneficiary. He wants you home so he can keep you dependent on him so he can run around and still have you there. I'm sorry, but that is selfish of him and you don't deserve this. I hope you build some confidence and learn to love yourself and get away from this.
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@Courtlynn (67089)
• United States
7 Feb 19
I think you're giving him one last chance too many. As he already proved he wasn't in the marriage like he should be. But i hope the job works out for you, and you can find some happiness and strength.
