The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Up by Marie Kondo book

@maezee (41985)
United States
February 15, 2019 1:56am CST
Has anyone else read this book, or follow Marie Kondo? I hadn't heard of her until recently after her Netflix show came out and someone suggest I watch it. I don't love the show and still have only seen two episodes, but her cuteness/cheerfulness is super contagious and even uplifting. Which is strange to say. Her Netflix show, Tidying Up (I believe it is called) is a reality show where she goes and helps couples or families learn tidying techniques and tidy up their homes in "her" way, which is defnitely....different. There are a few strategies, though, that I have to admit work REALLY well - such as her method of folding blouses and shirts REALLY saved me a lot of space in my dresser. Honestly! So, of course I had to buy her book just because, why not? I was curious to know if there were any other good tips or techniques to take from this. I finished it this evening. Have you read this book? If so, what did you think of it, take away from it, or do you agree or disagree with any of her techniques? Basically, this book is step-by-step how she organizes and makes a living helping people organize. Here are some of her suggestions that I truly liked: *Keeping only "what sparks you joy" (this is her big catch phrase, but it makes sense). I only wonder about those things we NEED but absolutely hate. Yanno? *Touching each item as you go through your items for donation/discarding and showing appreciation for all items *Folding saves much more space than hanging (and in her method of folding shirts and pants, really works!) *When tidying, start with clothes and take EVERYTHING out and go through it one at a time. She suggests you hold each item in your hand you decide if it sparks you joy. My idea, which I feel like more realistic, is to physically try everything on as well, since at least for me, a lot of my decision of whether to keep something or not depends on how it fits and looks. *She states the importance of having a clean/tidy/organized home in keeping your mind clutter-free, and I totally agree that having your home clean/tidy/organized frees up your mind for other projects. *Buy what you need, tend NOT to over stock. I certainly have this problem, a little bit of OCD, where I like to have a stock pile of things like laundry detergent. But I never run out at least. A few things I did not love about her method: *Some of her suggestions feel a bit over the top. For example, she states you should empty out your purse or messenger bag every day. I don't know what other people's purses are like, but mine certainly just holds the necessities for me. Keys, makeup, wallet, change, cigarettes....and nothing more. So I refuse to find this useful. *Kondo suggests not putting away seasonal clothes in storage bins but rather tucking things like winter coats into the backs of closets. I don't know why, but I like storage bins. The less I have to SEE my winter garb in the summer, the better. *Kondo also states that shampoo and any items for the bath/shower should be taken out of the bath/shower, dried with a towel, and put away somewhere else. This makes for easier clean up in the shower and keeps it more organized. I mean, who is going to do this?! Let me know if you agree or disagree with any of my thinking. Have you seen her show, and if so, what do you think? Or have you read this book, too?
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@LadyDuck (502957)
• Italy
15 Feb 19
I have heard of her but books like the one she wrote also existed in the past. I fully disagree about shampoo and bath soap, you need them where you use them. I keep in a cabinet what is not in use.This is pretty ridiculous, but nobody is perfect of course.
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@maezee (41985)
• United States
15 Feb 19
Me too! But items I am actively using....are staying in the shower. Plus I know I have gotten in the shower forgetting to grab a new bottle of shampoo or body wash and that’s always a crummy feeling to have to get back out again!
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@LadyDuck (502957)
• Italy
16 Feb 19
@maezee Correct! If you forget to bring with you what you need, it's not at all comfortable to get out wet to search for after shampoo or other stuff.
@hereandthere (45628)
• Philippines
15 Feb 19
i don't like folds in my clothes. we don't have 4 seasons, but i agree with you about storing winter clothes instead. they're bulky and take up room. for me i'll stock up on some things, but not on others because the people i live with aren't as conscientious in using stuff. i need to check my wallet. it's full of paper again. i think just take out the bath/shower items on the day you clean the area and assess. drying them, putting them away then taking them to the shower again would be three unnecessary steps if you shower 2x a day.
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@maezee (41985)
• United States
15 Feb 19
That’s what I am thinking! Or even once per day it feels like a big effort to me!
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@maezee (41985)
• United States
16 Feb 19
@hereandthere That's what I was thinking! Maybe those who have their head on straighter than mine wouldn't have any problem. But I know I would struggle with that.
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• Philippines
16 Feb 19
@maezee and on mornings when you're in a hurry or mentally planning things, you're likely to forget some of the stuff on the way to the shower
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@Aquitaine24 (12000)
• San Jose, California
2 Mar 19
Some things that don't spark joy: stiletto heels,sugar -free candy,the electric bill. ;)
• Midland, Michigan
18 Apr 19
I have either that book or one like it on my kindle reader/app, but I don't expect to follow everything she suggests either. I work in a store that sells groceries and clothing along with other things and I will buy a new top most years just to change up my wardrobe. I should do better getting rid of the extras, but once I'm not working the job where I wear a uniform I might find I need more options later in life. So, at present I'm keeping most of my things and I will say my some of my dresser drawers are stuffed. I did take time to get rid of dresses that looked awful or didn't fit anymore and also some other things. I don't remember her suggestion for folding. I think you can also watch her on youtube, but maybe it's just netflix. Possibly I would consider catching one of her shows when I'm off with my knee recovery in June. Btw, I saw this in the sidebar and since I was familiar with her thought I'd pay this a visit.
@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
15 Feb 19
I haven't heard of her or her book. I agree with you about the bath/shower. Some of it sounds logical, but I'll stick to my way of tidying up. It works for me.
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@maezee (41985)
• United States
15 Feb 19
Me too! She did have some good wisdom to share however.
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@yoalldudes (35028)
• Philippines
15 Feb 19
I like the idea of keeping only those which sparks joy.
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@maezee (41985)
• United States
15 Feb 19
Me too! I have been using that tool. Like, do I really even LIKE this too?
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@toniganzon (77346)
• Philippines
16 Feb 19
Haven't read the book but just started watching the show on Netflix yesterday and I like the idea of getting everything out of the closet and getting rid of those that doesn't spark love to me. That one I plant to do in the summer season because summer season here means school vacation as well. My son's closet is full of clothes, tons of clothes and I know that most of them don't spark love to him at all! I agree with emptying out my purse because my purse contains a lot of receipts and some trash which I put in there whenever I go out. Some of the receipts are there for years and years already. So far I agree with most of Marie Kondo's ideas maybe because I'm Asian and our culture is very much similar.
@Fleura (35173)
• United Kingdom
15 Feb 19
I haven't read her book or seen the show, but I'm going to comment anyway. I have a lot of stuff, but I am also reasonably organised, it's not as if I have to rummage through clutter to find anything, I know where things are. I don't agree with 'extreme tidying' because as soon as I get rid of something I'm having second thoughts about, you can guarantee I will need it about a week later. Not that I never get rid of things, I do pass things on to charity shops, Freegle and through Ebay all the time, but if I think it might be useful at any point I keep it and usually it is, sooner or later. I especially hate clothes shopping so I have loads of clothes I've had for years but I can pretty much guarantee that in my wardrobe there is a garment for any occasion that comes up. Funnily enough I have adopted 'drawer tidies' made from boxes covered with pretty paper - it looks nice and makes it easier to control socks, underwear and smaller garments like summer tops. As far as winter clothes etc. go - here they need to be kept in some sort of enclosed container or bag if possible or the moths get them! What did make me laugh though was your final point - I do exactly this! I hate to get in the shower and have to paddle around among the bottles other people have left in there! I always remove them, dry them and replace on the shelf. It's not that hard though - only a quick dab of two or three things. And yes we also always scrape all the water out so it doesn't grow that nasty black mould. I'm adding a picture of my tidy drawers!