Extending My Medical Leave
By Miss Nikki
@MissNikki (5234)
Maple Ridge, British Columbia
February 26, 2019 1:40pm CST
I saw my family doctor yesterday to see what she thinks about my current medical condition, and whether or not I should be returning to work next week.
She did recommend that due to the added anxiety and depression caused by my recent miscarriage, I should not be returning to work yet. We are going to increase my anti-depressant medication again as we think lowering it was not the right thing to do. She is also referring me to a reproductive psychiatrist to assist me in making better decisions regarding my medication once I do get pregnant again ... and just to help me in general with my depression and anxiety.
So, looks like I won't be returning to work for another while yet. I feel incredibly guilty about this, but I have to do what is right for me...
Wishing everyone a great day.
(Photo is of my living room, where I spend a lot of my time lately.)
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@Happy2BeMe (99353)
• Canada
26 Feb 19
You have to take care of yourself. That is the most important thing right now. You have been through a lot and you are still dealing with it.
You have a beautiful home.
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@MissNikki (5234)
• Maple Ridge, British Columbia
27 Feb 19
Thanks so much Laurel 
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@bunnybon7 (50970)
• Holiday, Florida
28 Feb 19
so sorry sweetie. i know it is a terrible thing you went through. you need the time to greive and recoup . try and have friends over to help you think of other things or find a project you enjoy. you will make it. i will pray for you.
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@MissNikki (5234)
• Maple Ridge, British Columbia
1 Mar 19
That is very sweet of you, thank you so much.
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@MissNikki (5234)
• Maple Ridge, British Columbia
27 Feb 19
It took many years to make it to be able to have this home. Thank you!
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@akalinus (44366)
• United States
1 Mar 19
@MissNikki I love it. That picture gives me something to strive for. I love it!
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@MissNikki (5234)
• Maple Ridge, British Columbia
2 Mar 19
@akalinus That's great!
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@MissNikki (5234)
• Maple Ridge, British Columbia
26 Feb 19
Thank you very much Carol
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@dodo19 (48166)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
27 Feb 19
@MissNikki I can understand. It's a hard position to be in. On one hand, you don't want to let others down, but at the same time you want to do what is best for you. Not easy.
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@MissNikki (5234)
• Maple Ridge, British Columbia
27 Feb 19
I agree - I just hate feeling like I am letting my coworkers down. But I know logically I have to do what is right for me.
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@LovingMyBabies (85923)
• Valdosta, Georgia
27 Feb 19
I am so sorry for the miscarriage you had and the hard time you're having. I am praying for you. =( Your living room is GORGEOUS! Thanks for sharing it with us. =)
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@MissNikki (5234)
• Maple Ridge, British Columbia
27 Feb 19
Thank you for the kind words - I appreciate that. 
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@Letranknight2015 (52665)
• Philippines
1 Mar 19
Good luck with the theraphy, if you think you need it then go for it. Ihope your co workers understand.
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@MissNikki (5234)
• Maple Ridge, British Columbia
2 Mar 19
Yes, I got my appointment so we will see how it goes. Thank you.
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@Hate2Iron (15724)
• Canada
2 Mar 19
Anxiety is nothing to fool around with. If the doctor thinks that you need time at home, you should take it. Take care of yourself first!!
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@MissNikki (5234)
• Maple Ridge, British Columbia
3 Mar 19
I agree - for the past couple years I just kind of got through it but now I need to take time for myself. Thank you.
@Missmwngi (12915)
• Nairobi, Kenya
26 Feb 19
Sorry for the miscarriage and may all go well with you.
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@VivaLaDani13 (60812)
• Perth, Australia
5 Mar 19
@MissNikki Your loungeroom is so awesome! It's so neat and inviting.
I'm sorry you feel guilty but I really agree with you having to do right by you. You're a very hard worker and you've been through a lot and you definitely deserve and need to be sorting things out for yourself before returning to work again. So I'm glad you got some more time off.
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@Hannihar (130150)
• Israel
8 Mar 19
@MissNikki
I had a miscarriage and it is hard on the person that was pregnant. Take your time and mourn in your way. I am so sorry for your loss.
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@Hannihar (130150)
• Israel
10 Mar 19
@MissNikki
It is very hard and I do know from my experience of losing a baby.
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@MissNikki (5234)
• Maple Ridge, British Columbia
8 Mar 19
Yes, it is hard. Thank you for understanding.
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@LowRiderX (22901)
• Serbia
3 Mar 19
I want you to overcome the problems quickly
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@yoalldudes (35028)
• Philippines
26 Feb 19
You have been my inspiration to focus on my health. My doctor has been supportive. I feel so much better now. But I have a lot of room to get better. Do not feel guilty. Please take care of your self. Your place is lovely.
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@MissNikki (5234)
• Maple Ridge, British Columbia
27 Feb 19
Wow, that is so very sweet of you to say! I'm glad you decided to focus on yourself. And thank you.
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