Why I veer away from people who hurt me.

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It started as a choice, I simply do not like the company of people who deliberately hurt me. If I couldn't consider them friends, definitely I would not like them to be my enemies, for I will be compelled to love them. So, I veer away from them. Then, strangely, I noticed that something bad happens to people who hurt me. Take for example a master carpenter whom I trusted, I found out that he approved of the stealing of materials for the repair of my house. I did not confront him, for he was old. Five months later, he suffered a fatal heart attack. Then, there is this lady in church, for some reason, she would negate all my ideas and projects. When I reached a saturation point, I simply left the service, so as not to prolong her abhorrence. A couple of years after, her husband died of cardiac arrest. Might be coincidence, one would argue. But then there is lady doctor whose mother has become my friend. She hates her mother and calls her mother her biological parent. I restricted her viewing of my facebook page. She unfriended me. Fine, I thought. Yesterday, I learned she has colon cancer. What could be the odds? Might be it is just their time. Still, I do not want anyone hurting me because I do not want bad things to happen to them.