When plans come to you aka. my low key vacation
By Faye
@FayeHazel (40230)
United States
March 31, 2019 11:41am CST
I like it when plans come to me. Don't you? I didn't have any real plans for the weekend - something that usually makes me uneasy. I like having no plans during the weekdays, but weekends I like to be active or socializing, usually.
Yesterday my friend texted me in the morning. Did I want to come over and join her and her grandkids (ages 9-5) for lunch and museum trip? Sure! I don't spend a lot of time with young folks and always enjoy lunch with my friend.
Well, kids are different than I expected. They are at both times more behaved and more rambunctious than I had expected. I think the rambunctious is just the fact that kids for some reason have more energy then a lot of adults. But there is a line probably a fine one at that - between running and playing and getting energy out - and unacceptable behavior. Over all my friend did pretty good at keeping the kids in line.
and we enjoyed our trip at the museum which included a display on the 70s which was super fun, along with all the local stuff like granite quarry info and info about the Pan car - a car which was made in the area in the 1920s.
As I was about to leave my friend's place and wonder what I would be doing the rest of the day, I got a text from another good friend of mine. She does this once in a rare while --
Her parents and sister gamble at one of the casinos. We don't gamble, but we go up - use the casino's swimming pool, have a meal, and nice conversation and I really enjoy these outings. I don't like suggesting them to her - because I'm along as a guest and to suggest it feels rude. But I am happy when she offers.
Today I have no plans, and no plans are coming to me, and it's fine as I do have a few small things to do today.
How was your weekend? Do you have any small, not fancy activities like that - that you really enjoy?
Photo: Pixabay
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@DianneN (254926)
• United States
31 Mar 19
@FayeHazel You just keep on having fun days with your friends. Some people I know don't have any friends at all except perhaps one co-worker. And that isn't the same as a good friend. 

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@FayeHazel (40230)
• United States
31 Mar 19
@DianneN Thanks! I am blessed with family and friends. Im so sorry to hear of those people without friends. Actually a lot of people I know through dance say that they didn't have friends until they found dance.
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@FayeHazel (40230)
• United States
31 Mar 19
Thanks! It was such an unexpectedly fun day. Oh wow! Well Im happy you have something to do, it's nice to be able to depend on that
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@arunima25 (93194)
• Bangalore, India
31 Mar 19
Isn't it good when such wonderful plans come to you?? It sounds interesting and I am glad you had a good time.
I had some shopping done in these two days. Though this came as a planned one, we planned it at last minute.
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@FayeHazel (40230)
• United States
31 Mar 19
@arunima25 Hot weather can do that.... hope you feel better soon
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@FayeHazel (40230)
• United States
31 Mar 19
I love when this happens :-) Thanks! Did you get all the things you wanted, while shopping?
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@arunima25 (93194)
• Bangalore, India
31 Mar 19
@FayeHazel Yes, most of it. I was drained due to excess heat and so I left a little for tomorrow or maybe Tuesday.
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@shaggin (74987)
• United States
1 Apr 19
So you didn't wind up meeting up with the friend to go swim at the casino? The museum sounds fun for you but it may not have been as exciting for kids if they were having trouble not running around etc. I like museums but my kids are bored by them.
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@shaggin (74987)
• United States
2 Apr 19
@FayeHazel mine are and 11 & 14 so I don't think they will change it's just not something they are interested in.
@FayeHazel (40230)
• United States
1 Apr 19
Oh yeah - I did both, that's what made it so cool :-) The kids seemed to like it / think several things were cool , but they were having considerable trouble looking at something for longer than 2 seconds and then running to the next thing lol. I hope your kids will join you at the museum when they're a bit older maybe?
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@FayeHazel (40230)
• United States
31 Mar 19
Thanks! It was a really cool, unplanned day. Hope your day is fun
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@dodo19 (48166)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
1 Apr 19
@FayeHazel It has been a nice weekend. No complaints.
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@FayeHazel (40230)
• United States
1 Apr 19
@kepweng Alas no. The nearest beach to me is half hour drive away. We do have a lot of lakes and rivers in this state. Im much closer to the Mississippi River - but far too dangerous to swim in it. Do you have beaches near you?
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@FayeHazel (40230)
• United States
1 Apr 19
So true, I think I enjoyed the day more given it was not planned
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@Ronrybs (21492)
• London, England
3 Apr 19
@FayeHazel It involved a lot of walking and I've been recovering these last two days!
@FayeHazel (40230)
• United States
31 Mar 19
I love train rides and I hope your expedition goes well
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@snowy22315 (209009)
• United States
31 Mar 19
It's awesome the plans are coming to you!
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@FayeHazel (40230)
• United States
31 Mar 19
I love it! Now if $, and happiness could do the same lol! Maybe they will
@FayeHazel (40230)
• United States
31 Mar 19
Thanks! It was super fun. Today will be a lot quieter. That's alright though
@Courtlynn (67089)
• United States
23 Apr 19
Kids
. Its good your friend had a handle on things.
Im glad you were able to get out and enjoy yourself, and your friends.
. Its good your friend had a handle on things.
Im glad you were able to get out and enjoy yourself, and your friends.2 people like this
@FayeHazel (40230)
• United States
23 Apr 19
Thanks it was a fun weekend for not having planned anything
@DesirousDreamer (34776)
• Peoria, Arizona
31 Mar 19
That sounds like an amazing weekend! I need to have a good weekend like this haha instead I spend it drawing and playing video games. I guess that is just a mental vacation.
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@FayeHazel (40230)
• United States
31 Mar 19
Thanks! It was really cool how yesterday played out.
Nothing wrong with drawing and video games :-)
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@Hannihar (130150)
• Israel
1 Apr 19
@FayeHazel
I am so glad your friends got in touch with you and you had a good time.
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@nela13 (59365)
• Portugal
1 Apr 19
Yes, it feels good when we plans and a friend show up with something funny to do
besides it was unexpected you surely had fun.
besides it was unexpected you surely had fun. @resukill22 (25050)
• Las Pinas City, Philippines
25 Apr 19
Glad that you enjoy your vacation with friend
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@FayeHazel (40230)
• United States
25 Apr 19
Thanks it was so nice. I hope we will do it again soon
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@resukill22 (25050)
• Las Pinas City, Philippines
25 Apr 19
@FayeHazel I'm happy for you
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