What did you find most and least sexy in your courting and sparking days?
By The Horse
@TheHorse (238406)
Walnut Creek, California
April 7, 2019 12:52pm CST
I know we're image-challenged right now, but I just looked at the "Hot Asian Babe" in a MyLot ad to my right, and it got me to thinking about what I found most and least sexy in women, especially during my more active courting and sparking days.
On my "most sexy" list were/are pretty eyes, intelligence, and slightly large calves, suggesting the ability to hike with me. Musical ability is a plus, but not a requirement. Oh, I almost forgot: a good sense of humor. On my "least sexy" list were/are stinky breath, not being curious about the world, and trying too hard to be sexy.
I tried to copy the photo of the "Hot Asian Babe" in the add, but I doubt I succeeded. She is trying hard to be sexy on the beach, with her oversized breasts and sunglasses, and the add made me chuckle and think up this post.
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@andriaperry (118793)
• Anniston, Alabama
7 Apr 19
LMAO, he was a little overweight.
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@paigea (36143)
• Canada
7 Apr 19
@TheHorse You are surely fit enough for me to consider reasonable. I only draw the line at having given up! You can ride a bike.
Speaking of bikes, it is 12° C (52°F) here. I am going for my first bike ride and Hubby is going for his second motor bike ride.
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@andriaperry (118793)
• Anniston, Alabama
7 Apr 19
Hmm, my most sexy list would be a man that can take care of himself, cooking and doing laundry,cleaning ( I am not a maid but I do my part) and a must is intelligence. Not take life so serious. Must be comfortable in his own skin.
Of coarse bad breath and body odor makes me run but being an azz hole to people is a super turn off. Jealousy is a turn off. Know it all is a turn off.
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@wolfgirl569 (136120)
• Marion, Ohio
7 Apr 19
Kind to kids and animals is a big turn on. Being a bully and always having to be right is a big nono
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@TheHorse (238406)
• Walnut Creek, California
7 Apr 19
@wolfgirl569 High on my list, actually.
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@1creekgirl (44560)
• United States
7 Apr 19
I always did love those southern boys with dark eyes and black hair (aka Elvis?) My husband was all of the above and still gets the sparks flying after all these years.
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@1creekgirl (44560)
• United States
7 Apr 19
@MALUSE You're right, I had forgotten about that! How could I forget those gorgeous eyes? But my husband still reminded me of Elvis.
@ihasaquestion (8273)
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8 Apr 19
I would try to answer on the male version too. But I'll start off with the female counterpart. The most sexy would be having a mind of her own and the least sexy will be to not have their own fashion identity; be it clothing or accessories..
For male, the most sexy is being a great conversationalist and the least sexy will be trying too hard to be funny..
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@jvicentevalera (13671)
• Santiago, Chile
7 Apr 19
You know the usual good looks, intelligence, good manners, personality, education and independent.
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@TheHorse (238406)
• Walnut Creek, California
12 Apr 19
@jvicentevalera I am bored with those who think they know everything.
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@jvicentevalera (13671)
• Santiago, Chile
12 Apr 19
@TheHorse I agree with you. Both parties should be able to make interesting questions in order to lead the conversation to different levels.
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@scarlet_woman (23463)
• United States
8 Apr 19
stinky anything has always been a turn off for me.
if you've been working on something,i can understand that.but for god's sake do take a bath at some point that day.
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