The jobless me

@adnileb (5256)
Philippines
April 18, 2019 7:32am CST
December 21of last year was my last day at work. I worked there for 11 years. So now I am jobless. BUT a full-time mother. I get to play with my son and also take care of him now. So grateful for it BUT I have no money. There are some things that we have to accept. You have to look into the bright side because not every downfall is bad. Do you have things like these that happened to you but still grateful?
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@louievill (28851)
• Philippines
18 Apr 19
Perhaps this is a good opportunity to think of some kind of small business that is if you have the inclination, you are still young and have all the time.
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@adnileb (5256)
• Philippines
19 Apr 19
@louievill We actually have a sari sari store. But other neighbors have them too so the buyers decreased. My mom cooks peanut adobo and i tried selling them before when i was working. Good profit
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@adnileb (5256)
• Philippines
18 Apr 19
Yes. We tried doing the barbeque business. But we stopped due to tight schedule of my mother. Now I am still thinking of a good business. Do you have something in mind?
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@louievill (28851)
• Philippines
19 Apr 19
@adnileb sometimes business that we do should be based on our talents and what we enjoy doing. Barbecue is a little time consuming cause you have to watch over it. For small capital perhaps you can cook adobo peanuts or boiled peanuts to repack or make polvoron, at least you can put this things in a bag to make " alok" to your friends until you make a base of regular orders, you can also supply it to " sari -sari" stores
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@josie_ (9763)
• Philippines
18 Apr 19
Not a good way to start the new year. Did you loss your job because the company down-sized or close?
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@adnileb (5256)
• Philippines
18 Apr 19
They said before, they will only down size.. but then, it closed. Many employees lost their job.
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@adnileb (5256)
• Philippines
21 Apr 19
@cacay1 yes. Sad. The friendship and the money... all gone
@cacay1 (83220)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
20 Apr 19
@adnileb so sad,
@rsa101 (37969)
• Philippines
18 Apr 19
That’s sad that you lose a job that you have invested a long time. I hope you have been paid for that service years you have rendered.
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@rsa101 (37969)
• Philippines
18 Apr 19
@adnileb That’s good to know then. If you’re still in the 30s it’s easier to get a new job. But if you’re older it’s harder. If you can find online better because it would not take you to commute every day.
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@adnileb (5256)
• Philippines
18 Apr 19
Yes. We were paid. It's what I use now for everyday expenses. Soon, I would like to have another job. I just want to take this opportunity to relax and just spend time with family.
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@adnileb (5256)
• Philippines
19 Apr 19
@rsa101 I am 34 now. I guess a little early to retire. Been searching for good online sites but nothing beats mylot.
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@Hannihar (129625)
• Israel
18 Apr 19
@adnileb That is a long time to work somewhere. I am glad you can play with your son but not having money is a problem. I have had two jobs that I liked but both closed down so was not happy so had to figure out what to do next.
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@adnileb (5256)
• Philippines
18 Apr 19
Money is really important for the family to survive. As of now, I am still enjoying my time with my son.
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@Hannihar (129625)
• Israel
19 Apr 19
@adnileb I understand how money is important to survive. I know that very well.
@Hannihar (129625)
• Israel
3 May 19
@adnileb Yes it is important for people to survive and not just a family. I am glad you are enjoying your time with your son.
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@Bensen32 (27529)
• United States
18 Apr 19
I would like to argue the point of you not having a job, you might not have a job that pays you in money but being a full time mom is a job for sure and not one I think I would want. It does pay you but it pays you in the memories and time you will remember spending with your son.
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@adnileb (5256)
• Philippines
19 Apr 19
@Bensen32 Good thing you won the custody over your son. Yes, it will be really hard but the result is overwhelming. You get to be with your son as he grows old.
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@adnileb (5256)
• Philippines
18 Apr 19
You are right. Being a mom is a forever job. Even if I have a real job, I still do my job as a mother. The moments shared are really priceless.
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@Bensen32 (27529)
• United States
18 Apr 19
@adnileb I was a single father (divorced and had custody) for 5 years and it was hard but wouldn't have changed it for anything.
@janethwayne (5193)
• Philippines
18 Apr 19
Yes when I work abroad and now I am back in the Philippines and I am grateful because I am with my daughter and look after them but money is kinda tight because I don't have a income like when I am overseas.
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@adnileb (5256)
• Philippines
18 Apr 19
Why did you go home? Did you finish your contract already? Salary here in the Philippines is sometimes not enough. When I was still working, I still have sideline jobs for additional income.
@KrauseHome (36448)
• United States
21 Apr 19
Many times, and you learn to take the Good with the Bad and accept things as they come. But for me I also continue to Pray and seek God for his will from there
@adnileb (5256)
• Philippines
21 Apr 19
Yes. I agree. Everything goes well when you pray. It also helps you clear your mind of worries. Whenever there is good, there is bad.
@hereandthere (45651)
• Philippines
18 Apr 19
if your son is too young and there's no one to care for him, then you'll just have to make do with one income, your husband's, for the meantime. or you can try to sell stuff from the house that your neighbors can buy.
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@adnileb (5256)
• Philippines
18 Apr 19
My son is 3 years old. My mother took care of him while I was working before. Now, my husband is looking for a job since we both lost the job.
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@adnileb (5256)
• Philippines
19 Apr 19
@hereandthere YES. Sad to say, we are on the same company. And yes, luckily, we were paid for our years of service.
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• Philippines
19 Apr 19
@adnileb oh, i thought you just gave birth and he's an infant. when you say you both lost your jobs, do you mean you and your husband worked for the same company and you were both let go? i hope they paid you for your years of service.
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@cacay1 (83220)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
20 Apr 19
I hope you can find another job, but there is Mylot you can earn some though cannot support our daily needs, but a better help to forget some pains of nothing.That feeling of yours now is just a temporary feeling. I feel you.Cheers!
@adnileb (5256)
• Philippines
21 Apr 19
Yes. This will take only for a short time. Praying that my husband can get a job soon.
@resukill22 (25052)
• Las Pinas City, Philippines
18 Apr 19
Yes