It is a Different World

@akalinus (40493)
United States
May 2, 2019 11:38am CST
The other night, I went into the shower building in the rec area near where I live. I opened the door and ran into a guy coming out, towel and body wash in hand. Why was he in the women's bathrooms? I don't know. The men's rooms were just a few feet away and I knew they were empty because the lights were off. I wonder why he felt entitled to be in the women's rooms. Was he stalking someone or waiting for someone in there? It is a different world than what I grew up in. This would not have happened in my life. I am wondering if he will be back and if I should avoid the rec area. What do you think?
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10 responses
• Agra, India
2 May 19
Was the women's room empty?
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@akalinus (40493)
• United States
2 May 19
Yes, except for him. When I went in I was the only one there.
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• Agra, India
3 May 19
@akalinus ohh..maybe that was a mistake on his part.
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@akalinus (40493)
• United States
9 May 19
@amitkokiladitya Maybe he can't read. There are signs saying women and men.
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@resukill22 (25052)
• Las Pinas City, Philippines
2 May 19
Oh I think he do some bad move there
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@akalinus (40493)
• United States
2 May 19
I will be on the lookout and hope that if he comes back, he will know which one to use.
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@akalinus (40493)
• United States
2 May 19
@resukill22 If I see men using the women's bathrooms, I will report to the management.
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@resukill22 (25052)
• Las Pinas City, Philippines
2 May 19
@akalinus I think that is good idea
@amadeo (111948)
• United States
2 May 19
can you report this there to someone.
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@amadeo (111948)
• United States
2 May 19
@akalinus yes he is a creep.Be careful there
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@akalinus (40493)
• United States
2 May 19
@amadeo There are a lot of people coming and going here. It makes it interesting but you never can tell about people in transit.
@akalinus (40493)
• United States
2 May 19
I don't know who he was. I never saw him before and hope never again.
@Bensen32 (27519)
• United States
2 May 19
Seems very odd, I might avoid showering there if at all possible.
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@akalinus (40493)
• United States
2 May 19
It is kind of weird since there is a men's facility feet away.
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@akalinus (40493)
• United States
2 May 19
@Bensen32 He did not look like a woman. He wore men's clothes, had a beard, and some pretty impressive muscles. But, you never know these days. Anything is possible.
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@Bensen32 (27519)
• United States
2 May 19
@akalinus That is odd, did he think he was a woman?
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@Shivram59 (31845)
• India
2 May 19
@akalinus I think,there should be a guard or some security arrangement in the shower building.I can't say what his intention was,but a security arrangement must be there.
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@akalinus (40493)
• United States
2 May 19
I don't know how they would do that. I don't think anyone wants a camera peeking at them in the shower.
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@Shivram59 (31845)
• India
2 May 19
@akalinus No,I don't mean a camera or any device.A security guard should be there to ensure men don't enter in women's room.
@akalinus (40493)
• United States
9 May 19
@Shivram59 I think we are just supposed to call the police if we have a problem. This guy did not speak to me or touch me so I just let it go.
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@Nakitakona (56302)
• Philippines
21 May 19
Two different worlds. We live in two different worlds. He has the reason why he did. Why not ask him?
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@akalinus (40493)
• United States
23 May 19
I just ran into the nearest stall and locked the door until I was sure he was not coming back.
@allknowing (130064)
• India
2 May 19
Did not know you had public shower rooms. Do you have to pay.? Is there also a bath tub in there?
• United States
2 May 19
well now, these days such'd be the 'norm' - men claimin' to be women 'n vice verse. i don't fully comprehend this 'identity crisis', but i'd been most unnerved myself. perhaps ya should get'cha one 'f those wee cans 'f mace to carry with ya? jest'n case...
@garymarsh6 (23393)
• United Kingdom
3 May 19
Hmm it may have been an innocent mistake! Be aware if it happens again and report him if he does. Always err on the side of caution!
3 May 19
Good Lord! Better buy your own bathroom... LOL!
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@akalinus (40493)
• United States
3 May 19
It is across the street. They clean and sanitize it every day and they never run out of hot water. I don't mind it but sometimes use mine when I am in a hurry.