Traveling alone....

@rsa101 (37932)
Philippines
June 25, 2019 9:00pm CST
Tonight I am scheduled to travel back to my home province. About a couple of weeks ago, we went there as a family to attend to a happy family occasion the wedding of my cousin, but here I am going back alone to attend to a sad event in the family the death of one of my dearest uncle who just passed away. I did not bring with me my wife and son since they are busy with school and couldn't leave. I decided to travel home alone this time since I am the only blood relative to him. Although my wife and son is also close to him but they just cannot do. Tomorrow will be his funeral services and I will be arriving just before those would happen. I just hope to travel smoothly this time since its a lean season and traffic wouldn't be a hassle. I will be back here in the metropolis by Sunday morning.
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@Sreekala (34312)
• India
26 Jun 19
I am sorry to hear about the loss of your uncle. RIP to him
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@rsa101 (37932)
• Philippines
26 Jun 19
Thanks and I will pay my last respects for him tomorrow when I arrive home.
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@Nakitakona (56302)
• Philippines
26 Jun 19
Sorry to hear the loss of your dear uncle. Condolences to his bereaved family.
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@rsa101 (37932)
• Philippines
26 Jun 19
Thanks for that one. This one is the saddest trip back home for the past 6 years.
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@rsa101 (37932)
• Philippines
26 Jun 19
@Nakitakona and that is a must that we are to do as part of the family....
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@Nakitakona (56302)
• Philippines
26 Jun 19
@rsa101 I know you go home to enjoy family reunion, family members birthdays, weddings, christening and you're excited and hsppy about it. But this time is to join with your family in sadness.
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@allknowing (130067)
• India
26 Jun 19
Such sudden and unexpected events sometimes involve travelling alone Hope you will cope well with the situation.
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@rsa101 (37932)
• Philippines
28 Jun 19
After all the emotional day yesterday, it took us almost the whole day before we parted ways with the family members. I was exhausted from the bus that after dinner I decided to sleep early and it was really good sleep I had. I just missed home and retiring for the night was just too relaxing for me.
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@rsa101 (37932)
• Philippines
28 Jun 19
@allknowing yeah that’s true. I know everyone was tired and wanted to be home as well. Right after the burial we just said goodbyes to one another and we were eager to be home as well. The occasion was just too sad to be really be in the mood to enjoy each other’s company.
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@allknowing (130067)
• India
28 Jun 19
@rsa101 This experience you had most have it that is meeting and parting.
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@velvet53 (22528)
• Palisade, Colorado
8 Jul 19
I am very sorry for your loss. Even though you had to travel your wife was still with you.
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@rsa101 (37932)
• Philippines
8 Jul 19
Nope my wife could not make it since it's a workday. So I was literally along when I was traveling back home.
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@rsa101 (37932)
• Philippines
8 Jul 19
@velvet53 Oh ok, I get it.... I was not thinking like that when I was reading your post.
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@velvet53 (22528)
• Palisade, Colorado
8 Jul 19
@rsa101 Oh but she was with you. She was holding your hand even if you did not feel it.. She was with you in spirit. This is the way I believe.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
26 Jun 19
Have a safe trip.
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@rsa101 (37932)
• Philippines
26 Jun 19
I just hope you are not bothered to be in this part of my post. I understand it if you are not comfortable with it.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
26 Jun 19
@rsa101 It’s okay.
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@sophie09 (34246)
• Indonesia
26 Jun 19
i am so sorry for your loss :( hope everything will be fine asap and you take care on your trip to home province :)
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@rsa101 (37932)
• Philippines
26 Jun 19
Although I am not their direct family member, I still feel some sorrow for their loss. This uncle of mine was really the one that help us when my mom(her sister) was still alive. He would drive my mom from the province to the city to get her treatments back then.
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@rsa101 (37932)
• Philippines
26 Jun 19
@sophie09 I will and will bade my final farewell for him tomorrow....
@sophie09 (34246)
• Indonesia
26 Jun 19
@rsa101 yeah i have felt that too :) just stay strong to you and your whole family
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@rakski (112925)
• Philippines
26 Jun 19
That is a sad news. I am sorry to hear that
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@rsa101 (37932)
• Philippines
26 Jun 19
Yes there is mixed emotions traveling back home because it is not a happy occasion that I will be attending but I have to pay my last respects to the man that serve my mom during her sickness.
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@rakski (112925)
• Philippines
26 Jun 19
@rsa101 that is so true
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@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
8 Jul 19
My deepest condolence my friend, sorry for your loss, but that is life we all have to face. I pray for your safe trip back and forth.Take care during your journey. May God console your aching heart and bereaved family of your uncle.
@JudyEv (325348)
• Rockingham, Australia
26 Jun 19
I wish you safe travels on such a sad occasion. I'm sure your attendance will be appreciated.
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@rsa101 (37932)
• Philippines
28 Jun 19
Thanks it’s done already. We had the whole day to make our final goodbyes before he got cremated and finally buried. Today I just relaxed back home and bonded with my father. Exchanging stories back and forth then rested. Tomorrow will travel back to my family again.
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@Deepizzaguy (94287)
• Lake Charles, Louisiana
26 Jun 19
I am deeply sorry for the loss of your uncle. Get some safe and just remember the good time you had with your late uncle.
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@rsa101 (37932)
• Philippines
26 Jun 19
Yup lots of it actually. His service to my mom when she was the one who was sick is really remarkable for me since he was the one to drive her from our home province to here to have her treatments here in the metropolis. That service alone was really am felt that I am indebted to him in gratitude. I am just sad that I could not do the same for him when he was suffering from his illness anymore.
• United States
26 Jun 19
im sorry for your loss
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