We Can Forgive But We Never Forget
By Jandie
@tech40 (23128)
Philippines
June 25, 2019 11:28pm CST
This usually happens to me and my previous friends before (those times that I still have friends), They always make mistake and I'm here to forgive them (always) but I'll never forget everything that they've done to me, that's why I have trust issue nowadays! How about you? Do you love to forgive someone, but you never forget what they've done to you? Why do you forgive in the first place?
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@MommyOfEli2013 (82311)
• Rupert, Idaho
26 Jun 19
Sometimes it is a forgive but not forget situation, sometimes I don't forgive, depends on what happened I guess. Sometimes I just move on and don't bother to do either.
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@tech40 (23128)
• Philippines
26 Jun 19
@MommyOfEli2013 Yeah they're not good, and I don't want it to happen again.
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@MommyOfEli2013 (82311)
• Rupert, Idaho
26 Jun 19
@tech40 I would avoid them as well...that's not good!
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@whiteream (8567)
• United States
26 Jun 19
I do try to forgive. I have been hurt many times myself so I do understand what you are going through. I am most likely not to trust someone I do not know, rather than not trusting a friend, though.
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@whiteream (8567)
• United States
28 Jun 19
@tech40 People should think before, but sometime people hurt without realizing it too.
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@tech40 (23128)
• Philippines
28 Jun 19
@whiteream I agree with that, because there are times that it happened to me too, that I hurt someone without realizing, I just know it after I've done it 
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@tech40 (23128)
• Philippines
3 Jul 19
@Nickzter1331 Yeah! Lesson always remained from us 
and because of it we're making everything secured
and because of it we're making everything secured@Nickzter1331 (4229)
• Philippines
28 Jun 19
@tech40 its the easiest for me. to let go and move forward.. eventhough i will forget and forgive what happened, i will never forget the lesson that i learned from it...
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@Nakitakona (56302)
• Philippines
26 Jun 19
We forgive to have peace of mind. It's not good to harbor grudges. Better let it go.
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@tech40 (23128)
• Philippines
26 Jun 19
@Nakitakona I agree with you! It's so hard to forget something happened to you especially if you nearly get die because of them
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@Nakitakona (56302)
• Philippines
26 Jun 19
@tech40 I remember what the Bible says about it. Forgive and forget. It seems difficult but it's possible.
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@tech40 (23128)
• Philippines
29 Jun 19
@JasminRuru You're right, we should learn from it
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@rsa101 (37969)
• Philippines
26 Jun 19
It's a natural reaction of us to never forget. I think that is logical since if you forget them they may just tend to do it again to you but if you let them aware that you are always looking out for a fallout then the offender might be careful in dealing with you always.
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