The Third Party

Philippines
July 8, 2019 11:11am CST
I have this 8 year relationship that ended because of a third party. That person has always cheated on me and I have always forgiven him every time, to note that I have already sacrificed a lot for that relationship. And there's that girl who is the EX of his bestfriend. Of course, I knew about their history. We get along well as we often had chats, and I even give this girl advice about the shortcomings in her life. I treated her as a friend. But what I didn't know was that, this girl has something with my then partner. And she just kept it until that day. To make the story short, I caught them in the act cheating on me. What's worse is that, my then partner chose that girl over me. So nice right? With that, I have come to some realizations and that's a cheater will always be a cheater and a snake will always be a snake. It's just so funny how this girl is enjoying her place right now. How she is so proud of the stolen love that she has. And how my then partner, pinpoint me as the one who has all the fault why he cheated. Hahaha Anyways, I just wished them luck. I am happy with what I have become now because of that. I have learned so much from that relationship and I can say that I already have a guide for the future relationship that I will enter into. As the saying goes, a heartbreak is a blessing in disguise. It is a way to lead you to the right one, to that one destined for you. Ciao!
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6 responses
@NJChicaa (115899)
• United States
8 Jul 19
Like you said once a cheater always a cheater
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@wiLLmaH (8801)
• Singapore, Singapore
3 Aug 19
Learn from that relationship and pray for someone that will never cheat on you again.
• Valdosta, Georgia
8 Jul 19
Some doors definitely close because God has someone way better ahead! Forgive and get ready for your new, and better door to open. =)
@ShyBear88 (59272)
• Sterling, Virginia
8 Jul 19
I have to agree a cheater is a cheater!
@janethwayne (5193)
• Philippines
9 Jul 19
Since you are young there are plenty of opportunities that will still come your ways and when it comes to a relationship even how many years you are together that is not the guarantee that things will last because plenty of trials that will happen to tests like a marriage.If he cheat let go him and focus on other things and make your self happy.Anyway if you are really meant for each other then time will still come that you will be together in the end.
@Aansh13 (11251)
• New Delhi, India
8 Jul 19
Well... He cheated on you many times I believe... End of the story.... Kick him and move on....