What happens to troublemakers when they grow up?

@DocAndersen (54399)
United States
July 13, 2019 10:33am CST
I was having a discussion with a Mylot friend I converse with often. One of the things that we were talking about was children that made frequent trips to the principal's office when they were school-aged. Ok, I was one of those kids. When I was still a teacher, one of the things that made me happiest was attending a meeting at the High School I had gone to for teachers. My favorite high school teacher walked over and told me to get up and come sit with him. That made me happy. He leaned as the ceremony started and he said "you are going to be a great teacher. You will know what kids are thinking before the kids realize they are thinking of doing something." I treasure that memory! Do you want to know where those smart-aleck trouble makers end up? In the end a good place, with the right guidance from a caring teacher! Were you a trouble maker in school?
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@DianneN (254926)
• United States
13 Jul 19
I love your post! I was never a trouble maker, but became an elementary school teacher and taught first grade. After being a stay at home mom, I returned to teaching as a special ed teacher. My parenting skills helped tremendously. I was nominated as Teacher of the Year several times, but turned it down. I didn't need the recognition or all the paperwork and time away from my students and family to go through with it.
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@DianneN (254926)
• United States
13 Jul 19
@DocAndersen And you were awesome for teaching those primary grades. I wish more men would do that. That's a huge cut to take, especially with a teacher's salary. So what did you wind up doing?
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@DocAndersen (54399)
• United States
13 Jul 19
That is awesome - I taught kindergarten and 2nd grade. I loved being a teacher but the clarion call of technology was far too great for me to ignore. Plus we moved (7 years experienced teacher) and the new school system wanted me to take a 6000 dollar pay cut!
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@DocAndersen (54399)
• United States
13 Jul 19
@DianneN i ended up working on a computer helpdesk. The person that hired me decided to take a risk on a teacher. After that, she only hired ex-teachers for the helpdesk!
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
13 Jul 19
Nope, I never was. Lol
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@DocAndersen (54399)
• United States
13 Jul 19
That is ok, a classroom full of troublemakers would be a hard place!
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@DocAndersen (54399)
• United States
13 Jul 19
@JustBhem i truly suspect that is the case!
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
13 Jul 19
@DocAndersen Lol, teacher will gone mad.
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@kareng (80243)
• United States
13 Jul 19
What a great teacher to give you such good encouragement. And, it was good advice. I wasn't a trouble maker so to speak. I was an honor roll student and in our small private school, had certain privileges. I do admit that those privileges were taken advantage of sometimes, but I (we) were never caught or called out on them.
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@kareng (80243)
• United States
14 Jul 19
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@DocAndersen (54399)
• United States
13 Jul 19
when you work hard for all those years - you deserve a few corners!
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@JudyEv (382107)
• Rockingham, Australia
14 Jul 19
That was quite a compliment, wasn't it? haha I was never a trouble-maker. I was lucky enough to be able to handle the lessons unlike some who were very frustrated with the whole system.
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@JudyEv (382107)
• Rockingham, Australia
14 Jul 19
@DocAndersen Certainly some kids were real ratbags but mostly most of us had a lot of respect for our teachers back then.
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@DocAndersen (54399)
• United States
14 Jul 19
I probably caused teachers more stress than I ever felt.
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@sophie09 (34230)
• Indonesia
14 Jul 19
i think once a troublemaker, always a trouble maker
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@DocAndersen (54399)
• United States
14 Jul 19
i suspect you are right on that!
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@sophie09 (34230)
• Indonesia
15 Jul 19
@DocAndersen hahah right i know
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@cperry2 (5608)
• Newport, Oregon
13 Jul 19
Not intentionally. I had a difficult time maintaining focus on what the teachers were saying. There was tons of problems at home as my parents fought about divorcing and staying together, separating and going back together. I would find my mind wandering instead of listening to the instructor. In a science class the water on the lab table leaked and I would begin drawing pictures with the water. Invariably the teacher would send me into the all for being disruptive. I was not making a sound but that didn't make her any difference. My senior year I found one of those teachers who actually cared about the students. She woke something inside me. I was inspired by her to continue my education after my military service. I obtained my BA and I"ve had post graduate studies as well, but no further degrees. I will forever be thankful to her. Just wanted to add, I wish I had a way to reach out to her now to tell her how much I appreciated her approach to teaching.
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@DocAndersen (54399)
• United States
13 Jul 19
what an awesome thing to say. wow. you did just reach to let her know!
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@DocAndersen (54399)
• United States
14 Jul 19
@cperry2 i do, it is hard I know.
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@cperry2 (5608)
• Newport, Oregon
13 Jul 19
@DocAndersen Thank you for that, but you know what I mean, face to face.
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• United States
14 Jul 19
i really wasn't.but i'd fight if i had to. we had a lot of unchecked bullies back then..schools didn't care in the 70's and 80's.
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@DocAndersen (54399)
• United States
14 Jul 19
School was a lot different than....
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@1hopefulman (45111)
• Canada
13 Jul 19
Some troublemakers become even worse troublemakers and some realize the errors of they ways and make changes. I straightened out and I'm glad I did!
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@DocAndersen (54399)
• United States
14 Jul 19
i did for the most part as well, thanks!!!
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@andriaperry (118793)
• Anniston, Alabama
13 Jul 19
Yes I was. It was boring to me,except Math and Science. The assistant principal told me once " I know what you will be soon, barefoot and pregnant, you will be nothing but a baby maker." That really pissed me off, for one I was 14 and a virgin. I wonder if he is still alive, I would love to spit in his face. He was another reason I hated school.
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@DocAndersen (54399)
• United States
14 Jul 19
it is a sad reality but bias is everywhere.
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@LindaOHio (222396)
• United States
13 Jul 19
No way. I was way too afraid of my parents to be a troublemaker in school or anywhere else.
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@LindaOHio (222396)
• United States
13 Jul 19
@DocAndersen That's an interesting scenario!!!
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@DocAndersen (54399)
• United States
13 Jul 19
1/2 the teachers I had in school had my father as a professor. :-)
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
13 Jul 19
Never i trouble. I was always the quiet kid in the background. Teachers can make such a huge impact on our lives for years to come.
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@DocAndersen (54399)
• United States
13 Jul 19
They truly can. I found out later that my favorite high school teacher, was also my wife's favorite high school teacher~