how do you feel if someone suddenly ignores you?
By sophie a
@sophie09 (34246)
Indonesia
July 14, 2019 2:55am CST
Have you ever felt being ignored by someone who matters to you? for example like, your bestfriend or your boyfriend/girlfriend, your wife/husband, or etc.
Like in the first day, they still are doing fine, they talk to you with the same excitement and then the next day, all of sudden, they ignore you just like that.
what would you do if you were the one who's being ignored by someone? will you come to them and ask why? or you just ignore them back?
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44 responses
@chicnthin (3031)
• Philippines
14 Jul 19
I have a lot friends that I don't have constant communication with. Sometimes we can't help it but it just goes that way. One day you were too close the next day you're just close and the next day you're talking to them. But in some cases, no communication or not, we're still friends.
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@chicnthin (3031)
• Philippines
14 Jul 19
@sophie09 I'll try to talk to them, especially when this person really matters to me and see if it's still can be saved.
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@Letranknight2015 (51532)
• Philippines
14 Jul 19
I would hate that, but then they showed their true colors and prove they are not real friends.
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@vandana7 (98830)
• India
15 Jul 19
Ignoring depends ... like we came to the same party and one looks right through me...that would be bad. But if a person is not able to make time for me, I pretty much understand that... usually people have reasons. I feel they will tell me, if and when the need to share it arises. I am not a great one to want too much company.
@crossbones27 (48434)
• Mojave, California
14 Jul 19
People always ignore me, they always come back. That let them be free and if they come back they love you part. Its true.
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@crossbones27 (48434)
• Mojave, California
14 Jul 19
@sophie09 I already know we tired of you bro. 
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@andriaperry (116860)
• Anniston, Alabama
14 Jul 19
I would ask if I had did something.
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@andriaperry (116860)
• Anniston, Alabama
15 Jul 19
@sophie09 I would ask to see if I had unintentionally.
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@a_jerobon (2304)
• Eldoret, Kenya
15 Jul 19
It feels bad to be ignored. I guess I will ask them why they are doing that.
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@LovingMyBabies (85127)
• Valdosta, Georgia
14 Jul 19
I would ask if I did something to upset them so I can correct it and ask for their forgiveness.
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@LovingMyBabies (85127)
• Valdosta, Georgia
15 Jul 19
@sophie09 I don't know anyone who ignores someone for no reason but if they did then I would take that as a sign that the season ended that they were supposed to be in my life.
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@sophie09 (34246)
• Indonesia
15 Jul 19
@LovingMyBabies oh okay thanks for sharing my friend
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@LeaPea2417 (36442)
• Toccoa, Georgia
14 Jul 19
I have two friends from school days who lately will never talk to me. I have to be the one to keep the relationship alive. I have gotten to the point that they have to be the one to next call . I am thinking I will be waiting and waiting.
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@LeaPea2417 (36442)
• Toccoa, Georgia
15 Jul 19
@sophie09 They will talk, they talked to me in the past but they never seek me out anymore. They never would pick up the phone and call me. And what is most interesting is I have connected with both on Facebook and of course I said hi to them first and they responded briefly but have never asked me on Messenger how I am doing. So, I am not going to message them on Facebook again until they message me.
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@sophie09 (34246)
• Indonesia
16 Jul 19
@LeaPea2417 yeah dont do that. you're doing the right thing
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@CookieMonster46 (13447)
• United States
15 Jul 19
I was being ignored by someone, they were doing it on purpose, at the time, we argued about it, If it happened today, I wouldn't put up with it.
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@CookieMonster46 (13447)
• United States
15 Jul 19
@sophie09 Well it is a long story to explain, but my ex used to do it when we were at his parents, he would ignore me, and talk with the friends of his mother. At the time, I didn't know he was telling his parents he wasn't happy and we were not getting along. He was telling his mom what she wanted to here, because she disliked me. When we would leave he didn't act that way, I was not really thinking of it to much at the time, because I was busy with the nieces and other family, Just something I should have noticed and would like to have know why at the time.
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@sophie09 (34246)
• Indonesia
16 Jul 19
@CookieMonster46 that was bad, why woud he act like he is a twofaced people
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@ihasaquestion (8274)
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14 Jul 19
Usually when the person ignores you, they are attracting attention in a different way. Like especially if they are good and loyal then suddenly act like the worst human the next day by choosing to ignore. It's actually a form of abuse and by doing that, the ignorer thinks he or she has the upperhand. What I would do? Nothing. It's not my fault anyway.
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@ihasaquestion (8274)
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15 Jul 19
@sophie09 Yup, because obviously it's done on purpose, no?
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@marguicha (215469)
• Chile
15 Jul 19
That would be one of the things that hurt me most.
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@marguicha (215469)
• Chile
15 Jul 19
@sophie09 And my reaction would depend on who much I love the person.
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@sophie09 (34246)
• Indonesia
15 Jul 19
@marguicha yeah, it would hurt like hell if this person is someone we love much
@ilocosboy (45157)
• Philippines
14 Jul 19
Yes sometimes I feel that but I'm thinking maybe there is something bothering them or maybe they're not in good mood.
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why should I go after someone
@Nakitakona (56302)
• Philippines
15 Jul 19
Don't mind it for I know they've they've the reason of doing that. When they do it frequently then I have to talk to them.
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