How to shock a teenager

@Fleura (35152)
United Kingdom
July 14, 2019 5:59am CST
We currently have some language students staying with us – four 15-year-old boys from France, Spain and Vietnam. In fact we don’t see all that much of them as they have a full schedule of activities, but we do eat dinner with them almost every evening. One evening it was a beautiful day so we were eating outside. One of them wondered why I have wire netting around most of my flower beds and I tried to explain about the deer that come into our garden. He didn’t really understand what I meant so without thinking I ran into the house to grab a dictionary. That caused a real stir – a real paper book! They looked stunned that I would actually look something up in this slow old-fashioned way. Once I had found the translation for ‘deer’ then they quickly grabbed their phones and came up with a variety of descriptions and images to confirm. But I think they were far more taken-aback by the use of a book than by the idea of deer eating my flowers! All rights reserved. © Text and image copyright Fleur 2019.
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• Pamplona, Spain
14 Jul 19
I still prefer a book to anything online that I can read unless its something classical that is very hard to get hold of here in English. Can well imagine that kind of surprise have that with our kids as well. Specially when I tell them about what we went through they have not got much comprehension of how we ourselves grew up.
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@Fleura (35152)
• United Kingdom
14 Jul 19
No they think we lived in the stone age LOL
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• Pamplona, Spain
14 Jul 19
@Fleura Mine think that I am complaining if I try to tell them anything about our lives you know like what sort of School you went to and all that. They do not have the patience to listen for one thing. I was telling them once about how my Grandad worked and lived and they did not like being faced with something real and tangible. They spend their day with their nose in a phone.
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@Fleura (35152)
• United Kingdom
14 Jul 19
@lovinangelsinstead21 Don't stop telling them though - one day they will be glad they heard your stories and sorry they didn't listen more or ask more questions.
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@JudyEv (382658)
• Rockingham, Australia
15 Jul 19
Goodness, that's pretty sad really. Are books so far removed from their world that this caused them to be amazed? It's hard to credit.
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@Fleura (35152)
• United Kingdom
15 Jul 19
I think it wasn't so much the appearance of the book, it was the thought that I would actually choose to use one!
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@Fleura (35152)
• United Kingdom
15 Jul 19
@JudyEv Yes I do wonder what they say about me behind my back. They seemed shocked that I ride a bicycle rather than take the bus, and they look askance at me running about the place in bare feet.
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@JudyEv (382658)
• Rockingham, Australia
15 Jul 19
@Fleura Haha. They probably later talked about how old you were!!
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• United States
14 Jul 19
i bet such 'twas a bit 'f a shock to 'em. kinda makes me sad these younger generations 've nary a clue how to look'p much 'f nothin' if'n they can't ask their phone 'r puter.
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• United States
15 Jul 19
@Fleura yes ma'am, that'd be my fear. too many'll not 've the skills to survive.
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@Fleura (35152)
• United Kingdom
15 Jul 19
This phase will pass I'm sure, like everything. One day there'll be a massive electrity supply failure or something, then they'll be stuck!
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@Hannihar (130150)
• Israel
7 Oct 19
@Fleura Were they thinking you could have looked up the word online on a translation site?
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@Fleura (35152)
• United Kingdom
7 Oct 19
Exactly - why would anyone use an actual paper book these days??
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@Hannihar (130150)
• Israel
7 Oct 19
@Fleura Very true.
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