We Take a Lot for Granted

© 2019 Marsha Musselman. All Rights Reserved.
Midland, Michigan
July 16, 2019 1:24pm CST
We don't think about all the things we take for granted until we get hurt or something else happens to remind us. As many of you know I had knee surgery amount six weeks ago. Even though I'm doing pretty well I still have to take my time doing simple things like going down two steps. I do pretty good but a few times I've almost tripped myself by getting my foot too close to my cane. When at home and in the house I'm getting around without using the canes but yesterday I began driving again and I'm now thinking the crew out for jobs. They are doing the work but I'm monitoring and helping a little bit. When I may need to walk more and over uneven surfaces I've been using two canes mainly so I some get overly tired out. Since my knees got worse with the arthritis several years ago I've already had to be watchful going up and down stairs but I need to watch so I don't trip especially when I'm tired out. I was having my friends drive us when I was exercising before being told not to and more recently when we've gone back to planet fitness once I got the go ahead from therapy. She told me she pretty much just slides her for from one person to the other when driving. I will say that most of us drive without even thinking about where out feeder needs to be at any given moment but when driving again after surgery you need your muscles to heal first and then remember I will say that after driving to physical therapy and just one job yesterday my calf muscles and the ones surrounding my knee are not screaming at me like they were yesterday. Maybe that's what I needed to do to get to the next stage of my healing. I say that because my calf has been swelling every day whether I'm on it a lot or not, but today it doesn't seem quite so swollen. There's a lot we do in life that we take for granted not only having people around us that love and care for us but even when something in our personal circumstances changes and that could be our bodies, our vehicles or maybe a major appliance sing out of the blue. At least my surgery was elective to a degree. How are you all today? I have a picture I took at the house where I'm sitting in a bench at the front porch. The one I'm looking down and the other is looking out. I'm sitting here while my crew cleans the windows on this got July day. I would be sitting at my car but that's not comfortable at present. I need may needed to wait until I'm back home before the image shows up. I'll know shortly.
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@jaboUK (64361)
• United Kingdom
16 Jul 19
It takes a long time to recover from surgery like that. At least you can drive now.
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@jaboUK (64361)
• United Kingdom
19 Jul 19
@MarshaMusselman I won't be able to drive for 6 weeks after the op. I'm surprised you were allowed to after just two weeks.
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• Midland, Michigan
17 Jul 19
My Dr told me to weeks after surgery that I could drive whenever I felt ready which surprised me since he made me wait a lot longer for my left knee. But he also had to adjust that knee more than the basic surgery since it was out of wack for so many years. I did drive home after getting new tires two weeks ago but since then I could never get my leg back in the car. For the past few years I've been backing up to the car and swinging both legs in together but my bend isn't quite there to clear the door yet so I thought to try it like most people enter with one leg and then the other. I do that too get in but the other way to get out.
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• Midland, Michigan
20 Jul 19
@jaboUK well he told me I could possibly because I had more of a bend to my knee than before. Other than driving my car home after getting new tires two weeks ago I've not driven until this past Monday. H it's actually giving more of my knee muscles a good workout although when my leg feels tired I'm always ready to help lift it with my hand. Overall I'm good though. My problem has been getting in the vehicles. I'm still not able to do it the recommended way which is back up to the seat and lift both legs in together. I do that when I'm a passenger bit the only way I can get in the car to drive is the way I did it before my joints for bad and that is putting the one for in first followed by my body Even then it takes work as I have to grab the door jam and lean back to have room to lift my foot up to the floor. Maybe in another week that will be easier
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• United States
16 Jul 19
did'ja know there'd be 'xercises ya can do whilst sittin' to build those calf muscles? 'tis jest gentle stretches, but helps loads. i feel ya 's i lost much muscle mass'n strength'n my legs when i fell so ill. many days i couldn't e'en get off the porch. crawled the wee stairs to the livin' room 's such 'twas safer.
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• United States
17 Jul 19
@MarshaMusselman that's good, hon :)
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• Midland, Michigan
17 Jul 19
Yes on the calf exercises they ha are us behind them weeks before surgery and continue them every hour after surgery when we remember and that is doing circles with the feet. It's amazing how much you can feel that in the calf. I also do the ones where you stand on a bottom step and with your heals down and stretch and variations on that. I'm also doing more lunges.
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@LadyDuck (457822)
• Switzerland
17 Jul 19
I know what you mean, my husband has a sharp pain in the leg and foot since a few days, he cannot drive, he has a hard time to walk and he is in a very bad mood. The next week the doctor will see him again, he had an MRI and a CT scan, let's see what happened.
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@MALUSE (69413)
• Germany
16 Jul 19
Don't you get physiotherapy after such an operation where you learn how to use your leg correctly?
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• Midland, Michigan
16 Jul 19
Here is called physical therapy but I think it's pretty much the same thing. And yes I've been going twice a week since the Monday following surgery although we also had therapy twice per day while still in the hospital. I found out recently I'll be excited expected to continue until the first week of August. I went for two months with the first knee but thought that was because it was in worse shape to start with. Now it seems to be needed because I have yet to be able to keep my leg in place while over of them are giving my leg/ knee resistance by pushing on it.
@just4him (305792)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
17 Jul 19
Yes, it's easy to take things for granted until you can't do what you used to as easily. I'm glad your knee is progressing well.
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@CarolDM (203454)
• Nashville, Tennessee
16 Jul 19
We all take others and things for granted in life. We should not as they can all be taken in an instant. Hope you feel better soon.
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• Midland, Michigan
16 Jul 19
I'm able to be out with the crew some now so that's good. It also means that I won't do as much once I'm home again, but that's fine too.
@Juliaacv (48369)
• Canada
16 Jul 19
I have always struggled with one health ailment or another, so that has kept me mindful not to take things for granted, although I still know that I do to some extent. I hope that you can continue along with your healing and returning to your regular activities of life.
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@paigea (35669)
• Canada
16 Jul 19
Glad you are recovering! Be careful.
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