Yes I judge at the pool
By NJ Chicaa
@NJChicaa (116125)
United States
July 20, 2019 6:01pm CST
I'm a bad person I guess. I myself don't feel totally comfortable in my body though I know that my husband loves it. He tells me I am beautiful and sexy all the time. I know that my legs are amazing and that my arms aren't so bad either. . . I just have a bit of pudge around my middle that I'd like to get rid of.
I've been at the apartment complex's pool almost every day for the past few weeks. You wouldn't believe what I saw there! Huge people, so much cellulite, ugly tattoos. . . and they were wearing skimpy bikinis and bathing suits. I wouldn't dream of wearing anything other than a tankini there!
There. I said it. I'm a terrible person. I judge at the pool. I do have to say that it has given me more self-confidence. I have one of the best bodies there! 
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@DWDavis (25812)
• Pikeville, North Carolina
20 Jul 19
There are some people who show no sense of propriety when it comes to how they appear in public but if they are comfortable with how they look, that is what matters. Self-delusion has been brought to an art form in these later generations. I don't think you're being judgemental. You are simply not willing to varnish the truth.
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@JohnRoberts (109857)
• Los Angeles, California
21 Jul 19
We are all judgemental whether we admit it or not. You are being honest.
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@kobesbuddy (74767)
• East Tawas, Michigan
22 Jul 19
@JohnRoberts John I'm sorry, but I have to be tea totally honest with you
You would look terrible in a lady's bikini!
You would look terrible in a lady's bikini!2 people like this
@raveeen (3457)
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20 Jul 19
Uhm sorry.. but.. cellulite are still good to see when a person have it. We should compliment each other not judging them because we all do have our own beauty and own insecurities. I guess it's not right to judge others just by complementing yourself. Just my thought 
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@kobesbuddy (74767)
• East Tawas, Michigan
21 Jul 19
I don't just compliment someone, if it's not sincere. @raveeen
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@Juliaacv (48538)
• Canada
21 Jul 19
Some people just have no shame, nor any full length mirrors.
Yesterday at work a girl in her 30's came in wearing a beige knitted dress, with NOTHING on under it.
Not on the top nor her bottom, it was disgusting and I wonder if she finds that presentable for herself to wear just how is she dressing her little girls? Ugh, those poor children, hopefully they will have their own judgement when it comes to what they do or do not choose to wear.
Yesterday at work a girl in her 30's came in wearing a beige knitted dress, with NOTHING on under it.
Not on the top nor her bottom, it was disgusting and I wonder if she finds that presentable for herself to wear just how is she dressing her little girls? Ugh, those poor children, hopefully they will have their own judgement when it comes to what they do or do not choose to wear.2 people like this
@1creekgirl (40615)
• United States
22 Jul 19
Very few people have any modesty these days. And they're usually the ones who need it the most!
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@chrissbergstrom (10767)
• Banks, Oregon
21 Jul 19
I try not to judge anymore as i used to when i was skinny and fit, now i am painfully embarrassed to swim without my shirt and i love swimming....
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@kobesbuddy (74767)
• East Tawas, Michigan
21 Jul 19
Jill, you are only telling it like it is! Being truthful and honest, what's wrong with that? It's gross, for someone who looks like this to wear a skimpy bikini! It takes a lot of nerve, to appear in public that way.
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@kobesbuddy (74767)
• East Tawas, Michigan
21 Jul 19
@db20747 They need to wear a normal bathing suit, as most other women do.
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