Want to say something but no words come out
By Lena Kovadlo
@lovebuglena (51286)
Staten Island, New York
July 24, 2019 10:23pm CST
I've had this happen to me many times where I want to say something but the words just don't come out.
Perhaps it's because I am afraid of people's reaction or think they will judge me or make fun of me or that they may say no or get upset...
I hate when this happens, especially when what I want to say is important. I should be able to say anything that is on my mind with no issues and without worrying about what will happen after I say what I want to say. And yet that is not the case.
I am going through this right now where I want to remind hubby we have a few concerts coming up soon in August and yet every time I try the words just don't come out. It's stupid I know. It should not be a big deal. It's not like it's some life shattering news that I should be hesitant about bringing out into the open.
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@lovebuglena (51286)
• Staten Island, New York
26 Jul 19
@raveeen I feel you. I told myself yesterday that this is it I will tell him about the concerts but no words came out. 
Now I am telling myself today is the day! It better be... This is ridiculous.
Now I am telling myself today is the day! It better be... This is ridiculous.
@raveeen (3439)
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26 Jul 19
@lovebuglena There's a time I want to say something to my friend/boyrfriend but I don't know what should I say or I can't say something because there're no words coming out. So what I'm just doing is just listen to them and thinking about the words that I want to say but it can't come out. 
@yanzalong (19057)
• Indonesia
25 Jul 19
I don't know how to improve your speaking. I suggest having a consultation with a specialist.
@lovebuglena (51286)
• Staten Island, New York
25 Jul 19
What kind of specialist are you talking about?
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@yanzalong (19057)
• Indonesia
25 Jul 19
@lovebuglena Specialist who deals with nervousness. Maybe you are just nervous.
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@LindaOHio (222973)
• United States
25 Jul 19
Something like concert dates should not be a problem. You have to start speaking up to him!
@lovebuglena (51286)
• Staten Island, New York
25 Jul 19
I know! It should be no big deal. And yet the words are not coming out. There is still time to tell him... I hope it happens sooner rather than later. Saying it last minute is not good.
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@lovebuglena (51286)
• Staten Island, New York
25 Jul 19
@LindaOHio Good idea. I was thinking of maybe taking them out and then trying to tell him.
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@LindaOHio (222973)
• United States
25 Jul 19
@lovebuglena Show him the tickets. Then you won't have to introduce the subject. Or leave them out where he can see them.
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@Diegojgomez (118)
• Langley, British Columbia
25 Jul 19
Behind that confession there may be fear or worry or just this tense and stressed, just Relax for a while.
@lovebuglena (51286)
• Staten Island, New York
25 Jul 19
I have to just stop thinking about it in my head and let it out.
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@lovebuglena (51286)
• Staten Island, New York
25 Jul 19
@Diegojgomez Easier said than done.
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@Nakitakona (60190)
• Philippines
25 Jul 19
Why are you afraid or hesitant to tell your hubby about the concert? There's nothing to be afraid of.
@lovebuglena (51286)
• Staten Island, New York
25 Jul 19
Well, I think it's because one of them is on a day that he works and he will have to leave work early to go and he may not want to do that.
